Who is not hurting while growing up?

After graduating from the cousin, she successfully entered a favorite company, and through her own efforts, quickly adapted to the fast-paced work. She told her relatives and friends more than once that her good performance will definitely ease the trial period. However, three months later, the cousin went out of the company with a frustration. The trial period has not passed!

Everyone is quite puzzled. With the diligence of the cousin, it is not a problem to have a trial period. How can it become a problem? Under the question of everyone, the cousin said indignantly: "Don't mention it, I don't think there are so many villains in the workplace!"

It turned out that cousin and another colleague joined the job, and the position they applied for could only be left one. The cousin has always believed that whoever is capable and who wins, did not expect that the other party made an out-of-the-box move, screwed up the responsibility of the cousin, and then refused to admit that he had intervened, leading to doubts about the ability of the cousin.

This is indeed a big drop. I asked my cousin what should I do in the future? The cousin wiped her tears and raised her face and said, "What can I do? I will continue to look for work." "I mean, how do you plan to deal with colleagues in the future?" The cousin stunned and then smiled: "I am trying to frame others." No, I don’t want to learn, I still believe that the workplace speaks with strength. However, the heart of the victim cannot be there, and the heart of the person is indispensable. In the future, I will definitely have more eyes and will not let similar things repeat."

I took a sigh of relief, but fortunately she did not say: "The workplace is like this, the ability is not as good as the game, I have to do whatever it takes!" In that case, she went on a detour.

There is a classmate who is especially derogatory to friends, but if a friend asks for it, he will help him if he is on the mountain. Because of this character, his friends are especially numerous, and the relationship is very iron.

He is doing website design, often telling his friends about his design, asking for advice from friends, and even after the design is completed, he will take the initiative to ask friends to look over. One day, he suddenly discovered that one of his friends quietly used his design and didn't even call. He called to ask, and the other party saw his number immediately smashed.

This makes the classmates particularly sad. In fact, with his character, if a friend asks him to help design a plan, he will definitely agree, and will not charge a penny. However, this friend's approach is really chilling, and it is just the same as the effect of the knife behind it.

When the classmate called to talk about this, I asked him: "I still believe in friends in the future?" He groaned and said: "Of course, I will still put a knife for my friends. After all, among my friends, Most of them are very good to me. Only in the future, I will not treat anyone as a friend. Those who are not worthy of contact, I will not waste time on them."

A stone in my heart fell to the ground. Fortunately, he did not say: "I don't believe anyone anymore, even friends, I will be careful." In that case, how tired!

I remember when I was twenty, I talked about a loveless ending. The boy I have always secretly said to me one day: "Be my girlfriend." At that time, I did not pursue why. Young and young girls are always confident that they have no reason to believe that they have the potential to become Cinderella, and believe that their thin figure can attract everyone's love.

I was immersed in the dream of love, but I never thought that, in just three months, everything changed. He went to another city and soon got a new girlfriend. This time, I finally know why. He said: "I have always treated you as a sister. I was too lonely during that time to think about falling in love with you."

I had only one thought at that time. I was slap in the face and stumbled on one foot, but in the end I didn't. I just turned around silently. From then on, I stopped talking.

Yes, my first love is not a good man. The strange thing is that when I understand this, I suddenly cherish the loved ones around me and cherish everything around me. At the same time, I secretly made up my mind that the boyfriend I am looking for in the future must be a good-natured person, and will never have any entanglement with those who are misbehaving.

Looking back now, I was really grateful to myself at the time. Fortunately, I didn't say at the time: "The man is not a good one, I don't believe in love anymore!" In that case, how can I meet my current lover?

Everyone's life will be hurt countless times, from loved ones, from friends, from lover, from colleagues, from strangers. Injury is inevitable, but we can choose, in what way to face the damage.

Some people have suffered some injuries, and they are disheartened. They have lost trust in the world, distorted their souls, and let themselves follow the sin. And some people, after being hurt, become stronger and more open-minded, and still have the same passion for life.

Every time you get hurt, it is a growth. In life, everyone has the opportunity to grow up countless times. However, some people are getting more and more sophisticated, some people are getting colder and colder, and some people are getting more and more insidious. They were trampled under their feet and became unrecognizable.

The real growth is that no matter how many injuries, you still keep your heart, still passionate about life, still believe in everything you believe, and learn to benefit from your life. Only in this way will you not be hurt by the damage you have suffered.