Self-summary of tutoring work

Li Wei is my niece, my parents are not around, I have been reading at my house. Therefore, it is my unshirkable responsibility to cultivate her education. I naturally become the guardian of her growth. After two years of study and life at the Three Schools in Lushan, she has been carefully nurtured and taught by her school teachers, her hard work and diligent study. The results of the cultural class have improved and improved, and her mind has gradually matured. The overall quality has improved significantly. First of all, I would like to thank the school leaders for their hard work in the education front. As a parent, I have the same feelings as every parent. I hope that my children will become talents at an early date and become the talents and talents of the 21st century. However, the child's talent is not a day's work, not a simple cultural lesson is a talent, it should be a comprehensive development of morality, intelligence, body and beauty. Therefore, in addition to the direct education of the school, the child's growth must also have essential parenting education, imperceptible enthusiasm, parental support and encouragement. Next, on the child's education, I will talk about my own shallow and immature views: First, help the child to build self-confidence. "Wang Zi Cheng Long, Pan Yang Cheng Feng" is the wish of every parent. This desire is in line with the laws of human development and conforms to the rhythm of the times. But how can this desire be realized? I think that children should be allowed to establish their self-confidence. It is to let the children believe that they are the best children, whether they are learning or doing anything, always let the children establish the belief that I can do it, I can do it. At the same time, educate children to believe in the school, believe in the teacher, believe that the development of society will be better every day, and always keep the child in an optimistic, positive and enterprising mentality. Especially when learning is frustrated, it is more necessary to encourage the children to correctly treat all the unsatisfactory and difficult problems encountered in the study, and gradually forge the ideological character of the child who is not arrogant. Only in this way can the child be self-reliant and not afraid of failure. On the contrary, if you blindly criticize and accuse, you will have a kind of resentment and inferiority in your child's psychology. If you have a long time, you will also have a rebellious mentality. As a result, you will not be motivated, not enterprising, and will be difficult to communicate in future education. . I remember a math test last year. I felt that mathematics was better. She lost a few points on the small question. After she came home from school at night, she cried when she put down her schoolbag. We were so anxious that we were so overwhelmed. A few points that should not be lost. After understanding the situation, we carefully instructed her to tell her that this loss is not because you will not, but because of the sloppy, and again, an exam can not explain anything, as long as you pay attention, you will get a high score. Through the guidance, her pressure was gone, her mood was good, and her confidence was enough. In the future exams, she learned the lesson and her academic performance was fully played.

Second, to help children determine learning goals. A person has different goals at different stages of life, and the realization of goals at each stage means a new ladder. Therefore, in the process of cultivating children, it is necessary to combine long-term goals with immediate goals. Specifically, it is to break down the child's long-term goals into small goals for each stage. In this way, each goal is easy to achieve, and the child may gain self-confidence in a small success, and the child's enthusiasm is fully demonstrated. Also step by step to success. Although some children have established a goal, they are too long-term and cannot be realized in the short term. Children are often more anxious. For any goal, they hope to achieve it as soon as possible. If they do not see the results in the short term, they will be discouraged. This established goal will also be achieved. Failed. When Li Wei was in Heilongjiang, his language scores were not very good. After coming to Shaoshan three small days, he once wanted to improve his language scores. However, after a period of time, he felt that he was not very happy. Especially in terms of composition, the improvement was not very big. I am also anxious to go straight to the fire, can not eat, sleep well, we see her mind, help her to establish a small goal, buy some learning materials, let her work hard on their weaknesses, more effort, the first In one semester, we asked her to guarantee 80 points in the midterm exam. As a result, she got 83.5 points, and the final exam scored 85 points. The result was 90.5 points. In this way, she gained confidence in the realization of a small goal and also produced language. With interest, the level of composition has also improved, and in the subsequent Chinese exams, it has maintained a score of about 95 points.

Third, we must help children develop learning plans. Studying at school is important, but review and homework after class cannot be ignored. As a primary school student, the ability to stand on his own is relatively poor, often in the process of learning, the head can not take care of the tail, busy with no head. Therefore, parents must help their children to develop practical learning plans so that children have a rule to follow, so as not to disrupt their work while doing homework. At the same time, from childhood, develop the child's self- discipline ability, let the child do the same thing on the day, do not drag to tomorrow, and develop good study habits. I am more scientific about Li Wei’s study arrangements. What time to do the homework, what time to do the extracurricular exercises, what time to rest, the arrangement is very detailed, and the table is pressed under the glass of the study table, and often supervised. After a period of adaptation, she developed her own rules, and she felt very relaxed when she wrote her homework. At the same time, she also achieved the combination of work and rest, and her self-reliance ability was greatly improved.

Fourth, we must help children improve their weaknesses. The balanced progress of each child is progress. If you are partial or have weaknesses, you should help your child find ways and care in a timely manner. One is the necessary supplementary class. For extracurricular remedial classes, parents have different opinions. My point is that the necessary remedial classes are indispensable. When Li Weigang came, the English scores and language scores were not very good, especially in English. No one in the family could help. After our research, we decided to enter a cram school and use Saturday and Sunday without delaying the course. After tutoring, through more than one year of study, the results have improved significantly. The language is the same. We gave her a writing class. On the basis of the school, she also ingested some extracurricular knowledge and made great progress in writing. In the case of better mathematics, we reported her an Olympiad class according to her hobbies, and cultivated her logical thinking ability, which further consolidated her mathematics skills. The second is to help children solve problems. When children are learning, they will encounter many problems. Therefore, parents should help their children solve problems in time, especially in solving problems, and strive for multi-angle thinking and no single way. At the same time, in the problem solving, pay attention to the reasons for observation and analysis. For example, some math problems are not that she will not do it, but they do not understand the question. This may be a problem of "linguistic ability lags behind", so we must do some necessary training in language comprehension. At the same time, pay attention to grasp the "information database". It is to find out the strengths of the child, the "short board" of learning, the type of error, various loopholes and the habit of correcting mistakes in the old homework book and examination paper, and guide them in a targeted manner. Exercised the child's ability to learn independently. In short, in the child's study, we must combine the child's reality, grasp the key points and weaknesses, do what is missing, and purposefully strengthen and consolidate. Only in this way can every child's subject develop in a balanced manner.

Fifth, we must create a good learning environment for our children. The child's growth and progress has direct factors and indirect factors. Have a good learning and living environment, play a decisive role in children's learning and growth. First, give your child a quiet environment while studying. My family has a large population and two children are learning. Although I want to take a good break after going home on a day, watch TV, listen to songs, etc., as parents, we always look at the children’s learning more than anything else. . During the child's study, we never turn on the TV, so that the children can concentrate and concentrate on learning. When the child is resting, they can also choose to watch some programs. The second is to always set an example in cultivating children. Parents' words and deeds directly affect the growth of their children. Therefore, in our lives, we always pay attention to ourselves and ask our children to do it first. If we ask our children not to do it, we will not do it first. At the same time, we not only work hard, but also learn frequently, use our actual actions to influence children, try to reduce some psychological cues that bad habits bring to children, so that children are always in healthy growth. The third is to let children know the society while they are growing up. As a primary school student, little is known about some things in the society, but the child is both curious and active. Therefore, we pay attention to let the children learn and see some useful things in the social university, and cultivate their children's social consciousness, responsibility consciousness and patriotism from an early age. During the long vacation and the cold, during the holidays, I have to arrange for the children to visit some patriotic education bases, natural scenic spots, places of interest and other places of interest, and get inspired during the visit to stimulate the sense of responsibility of the children. The fourth is to cultivate children's various hobbies. In addition to requiring children to complete their textbook assignments carefully, they also pay attention to cultivating hobbies, such as interest classes, teaching him to learn all kinds of balls, chess, calligraphy, etc., and carry out comprehensive quality education to promote all-round healthy and harmonious development. .

These are some of my experiences and practices in educating my children. Education and training of children can not be explained in a single moment. It takes a long period of time. Then through this stage, we will continue to draw lessons and take measures, perhaps success. Maybe it failed. Only through unremitting efforts, constant efforts and efforts, and correct treatment of everything, will produce good results. All in all, there are still many ways for children to receive education. The principle of educating children is to let him learn self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance and self-reliance. Together with the full support and cooperation of parents, we hope that he can work through all aspects, especially The hard work of the teacher, the individual constantly explores in practice, constantly study hard, master the knowledge and skills, and finally get a successful life path.