Really happy to live now

Really happy to live now

- a letter to my daughter

Dear daughters,

Mom is sorry for just yelling at you.

You have already given your mother a birthday present more than once. Mom knows that your most is a letter. At first, my mother screamed and promised because my mother felt that time was still early and there was always time to write. When you are today, When the mother was busy, she didn't want to write because of her work, so my mother yelled at you saying, "Don't look at yourself so important, what birthdays do children have!" You are crying silently until your mother promises to write this letter.

On the way home today, you ask me, "Mom, do you have an occupational disease, and always teach others when you speak." Mom does not recognize it, and my heart admits it. Whenever my mother writes to you, I consciously and unconsciously Educate you, so review the tone of your mother's lesson before you write. Since you have already been impressed, you can’t do it. Mother asked a few ideas at your request.

First, don’t take yourself as important

Still, the children don't care too much about their birthdays. They don't give them to adults. The elders are grateful to think about it. If others forget to learn to be forgiven, don't take yourself too seriously. Be aware that in this world, more is the memory of growth and sorrow that are ignored. My mother didn't care about her birthday when she was young, because she didn't care, so she would never complain about being neglected, and she would be flattered by her attention. I remember that when I was eight years old, my mother cooked an egg for me. Now I remember the scent of the last thin egg on the eggshell, and I remember the happiness of the egg when I was facing my partner. And a sense of superiority. I also remember that when I was 18 years old, I had to go to college. My father made a table for the first time because of my birthday. Naturally, I had the garlic and pork that I loved. That birthday means that I already It is an adult. Although I only had two birthdays when I was a child, my mother remembered forever, and I am always grateful for the pains of my parents.

Mom said that this is not to say that you really don't matter. For mom, you are the most important, but mother hopes that you don't have such a strong sense of importance. Don't have too much luxury for others' recognition. Don't ignore others. Feeling sad. More often, care more about others, pay more attention to the feelings of others, and let everyone around you feel happy and happy because of you.

Second, thank you for your comfort and help to your mother.

On the day of your death, my mother hurriedly left you. For the first time, I didn’t accompany my baby for the New Year. On the phone, you sensibly told me that you didn’t think about your mother. After your mother came back, you have been careful. Remember that the mother came back and asked “Mom. Are you still a strong and happy mother?" Mom firmly said, "Yes, mother is always." Although her mother is uncertain, her mother will definitely try to do that. Although my mother is trying to be nervous and happy, I know that I am not doing well. I often temper your temper, although my mother will review that I am going to menopause. More often, I will not be wrong, and I will be wrong again. Looking at your tender face, my mother will always regret it. Now they are still so small, how can they be willing to beat them when they are younger! Thank you for your unconditional tolerance for your mother, thank you for your unlimited strength, and thank you for your comfort and help.

Third, live happily and live in the moment

I often regret for a lot of things. The most regrettable thing is that I spend too little time with my relatives. I often remember the childhood years when my father and my brother were there. At that time, even though poverty was very good, the feeling at that time might not be In this way, each of us has struggled with the struggle of destiny, and no one has truly enjoyed the happiness that is taken for granted in the memories.

So life is like this, living in the moment is happiness. Maybe you are worried about repeated homework. Maybe you are dissatisfied with not living in a big house. Maybe you are suffering from myopia. Maybe you really want to grow up and have freedom. Maybe you still have many mothers who don’t understand. The sadness, and all of these can't be counted in the memories of the future. Perhaps the scenes reappeared in the future memories are: You study hard to make you full of pride, and the bookroom fragrance makes you full of warmth, pain and sorrow make you full of fighting spirit. Maybe the good is only in the memories of the past, the actual process is not good, maybe the good is only in the hope of the future, the current process is not good. Therefore, my mother hopes that your current process is beautiful. I really experience the beauty of today: it’s snowing, the road is still not good, but it’s not so slippery. The sky is still full of haze, but it’s so bright with snow. You are all the way. Come all the way to enjoy the snow, leaving a string of memories on the snow across the branches. When I get home, you can help your mother choose a bean, because your mother helps me to cook faster and better, and accidentally let the daughters "support", I have to be proud of my cooking skills. I can easily respond to my studies, and I am proud to be a small assistant to Teacher Yu.

Just after learning eight lessons, I have been able to play the music that my mother feels melodious. The little purse that I personally sewed yesterday is also good. Dear, you are almost developing in a versatile direction. Think of this, you should be happy.

Read your essays and read your letters. I still feel that you are too sensitive. Mother wants you to be more sensitive to the feelings of happiness and to be slower in the manifestation of pain. Look for beauty in life and experience happiness in life. Memories are the past that people choose to process. The future is an uncertain fantasy. Only now is real. Like me who wrote to her daughter late at night, my mother hopes that your memories will be full of beauty and full of embarrassment for the future. It is full of happiness now.

Fourth, if there is no mother in this world

Everyone is not willing to talk about death, and her mother is not willing to add grief to her daughter. However, death is something that everyone must face. If the difference is only in the morning and evening, it is precisely because people have to face death that they have to live better every day.

A few days ago, I went to buy two accidental injury insurance for myself. You know this. Mom just hopes that if there is a case, you may still have something to leave, so you don't want to imagine it like you.

What my mother wants to tell her daughter is:

Never regret for your mother. The biggest pain in life is regret, my mother has experienced it, and my mother does not want you to experience it. No matter how long your mother's life is, there is no regrets, including for the family, the society, and the self.

Mom always looks at you growing up. I always tell myself that no matter what my father is and is not, he will see my efforts and persistence. I believe this is the case. So no matter how old or not, my mother gives you the power of love.

Always rely on yourself. Every day we grow up to make ourselves stronger. When the baby crosses the road and knows how to help the mother, the mother feels that the babies have grown up. In you, there is the mature reason and perseverance of the overloaded age. Mom believes that you can do anything well.

I heard the bells screaming, the time has passed more than an hour, I completed this writing task before your birthday, if there is time, I will write two more.

At the end of the letter, what I want to say is that you will not lose your mother in the years when you grow up. As you said, I want to value your grandson for you. It’s just a joke that doesn’t need to be a real thing.

I am sorry to write a letter and commit an occupational disease. By the way, I would like to write a thought about participating in Fudan’s direct student interview today: young people should have dreams. The world will always support children with dreams. Maybe there will be setbacks on the way to realize their dreams. It is also set for the children to weave stronger wings. The dream is strength. As always, I fear every child who has dreams.

May my dear daughters feel beautiful every day.

Love your mom

Late on March 15, 2019