Standing on a high place, fate is fair

Standing on a high place, fate is fair

Friends who grew up together, classmates who walked out of school together, and colleagues who joined the company, if they still follow the parallel line like many years later, it is not life. After many years of gatherings, I can always find that some people have some scenes that are beyond recognition.

A friend interacted with an artist. The man of Thirty Lang was a half-baked face on the TV screen. It was half red and not black for several years. Now the TV series is not very prosperous. I haven’t received a decent drama for a long time. I watched the video game at home all day, waiting for the broker. People's phone. A good friend is a top 500 white-collar worker. He is positive and optimistic. When he sees his boyfriend so embarrassed, he encourages him to write a book to find an investment. At the beginning, my boyfriend was very excited. I wanted to make a new version of Liu Yunlong. I found a bunch of reference materials and videos. I was ready to work hard, but after a few days, the enthusiasm began to fade. It’s as simple as taking a movie and taking money, and there is a big house to offer. The plan that I create is at least a year to see the sky. Can this day without income be passed over? So the script was written as the director's plan, and her boyfriend continued to be drunk at home, and went to the audition one after another.

Friends are eating with us. When they talk about this, they frown. She is not a snobbish woman. She is not afraid of men. It is good to do my favorite work. I have been in contact with this man for more than a year, which has caused her many feelings: "Don't look at the income of their artists. They don't have to shoot more than our ordinary white-collar workers. But their mentality is far less than that of our white-collar workers. We At least I know that I have a hard work, and the rising route has a few steps to understand, and I don’t have unrealistic expectations. But what they can do, they’re still running together today, and tomorrow’s scene is red. How can the balance of the film rise ten times and 100 times, how can it be balanced, how can it be done down? Everyone is thinking, the next one may be me? I am looking through it, he is not red, not surprising."

There are always some industries that are even more unfair, just like some people will be unbelievably unlucky. French famous actor Alan. Deron had strongly opposed his children entering the film and television industry. His reason is that such an industry can destroy people's normal heart, and for young people, this is devastating. But even then he admits that all the evergreen trees are not touched by luck! Destiny is fair. Except for the highest score and the lowest score, God has never ill-treated us.

When I was young, I saw that things were less. We never thought that fate was fair----born in different people, and started to slow down N shots, experienced the same, but some people have no talents, some people are tempted to look forward to the future, qualification The same, but some people are not good, some people marry the golden turtle, we lament: "Life is like a dream", "people have their own lives." I went back to see the fashion magazine’s report on Deng Wendi. The little girl behind the 80s showed off her eyes. “Being a woman is like Deng Wendi, it’s not a life.” Interpreting her words is not to say that she has a high degree of education like Deng Wendi. With a superior figure, I hope to have a legendary experience like Deng Wendi, meet the real life of a Murdoch-like family, and realize a fantasy like Alice. I don’t know how many small women in the world have the dream of carrying a banner, but they sigh that they only hate this life.

Everyone wants to live the life they have thought of. It is understandable that every turning point in life is not as clear as a sign that "the mountain road is curved, please drive carefully", maybe a slight turn at a turn. The hazy ideas of the mountains, or the moments of the roadside, are enough to make people change their lives. A business elite who has experienced martyrdom feels that when he talks about life or not, there is no absolute fairness. Fairness can only be manifested in a long enough time, but it may not be reflected in the short-term and individual levels. The jargon of borrowing from the investment market means that trend benefits and short-term fluctuations are easy to confuse investors. Only by focusing on value investment and long-term investment can you laugh at the end.

In fact, all this is just a simple truth. Today is the embryonic form of tomorrow. What kind of you are today, you will have what kind of you tomorrow, when your friends are not as good as you, that is the truth, now, your friends are strong. It is also true that you are passing by. But behind these years, do you see what they have been doing? There is no such thing as no reason in the world. If the opportunity comes, it will not look at people to serve. Those who get behind must have your disappointment, it is because of disappointment, so you can't.

Looking back at Deng Wendi, Deng was born in Xuzhou, which is not even the second-tier cities in mainland China. When he graduated from the middle school, his parents moved to Guangzhou because of his work. Because of his academic problems, he left Deng alone in Xuzhou for a period of time. As for the other fifteen or six-year-old children, I don’t know how many times I went back. At that time, the middle school did not have a boarding house. Deng guarded himself and took care of himself. This included trivial chores such as cooking and washing. Deng Wendi was admitted to the university, and later obtained the opportunity to study at the University of California. When a student who is so independent and good at controlling himself graduated from Yale Business School, what do you think is the opportunity in front of her? Does she still need to cut a foot like a Cinderella to have a pair of crystal shoes? Will you be willing to wait for more than 30 years for the emergence of Murdoch?

Therefore, don't feel that Deng Wendi is a good life. If there is no Murdoch, I believe Deng Wendi is also alive and well in the workplace. However, there are often people who sigh that the workplace is unfair and their fate is unfair. In general, one of the words "Why do people get it, it is unfair, why can’t they get it, it’s not fair, people with this kind of mind can hardly feel what they have. Fair things.

If you have been exposed to a few women's gold collars, you will find that they always have a lot of similarities - strong eyes, quick thinking, decisive action, a delicate dress, wrapped in a neutral soul. Your first reaction is: Hey, the women who used to be in the workplace are all of this type. In fact, your thinking must be reversed: the workplace is like a chisel, you must be a good material, it is possible to be made into this type.

There is no such thing as a world. If you have really had a talent, but you have been unable to mix up, you should review whether your soft ability in the interpersonal process is a pass; if you know that you have no talent, then Diligent and obedient, there is no way out of the head; if you don't want to work hard and don't care about the results, then don't look at other people's achievements, you can live a good life, the so-called Da Che Da Wu is also a realm of life.

A female gold-collar friend said to her daughter who first entered the workplace: The fear is that she wants to achieve again, and she wants to be comfortable. The so-called "balance between career and life". You know, in the most important years of the 20s and 30s, there is no such thing as "balance." Luck has never fallen from the sky. You look at those professional women who are in the limelight, which is not the end of today’s life? Starting from the age of 25, "pursuing a relaxed and comfortable life", then don't complain that there is no employment opportunity at the age of 40.

In fact, the road to career is like this. Every day, I ran hard to go to work, suffocated with my boss, and intrigued with my colleagues. Do you think it was just to make money? In fact, what is important is really not money, but how much accumulation you have made - skills, connections, vision, and backhand - that is, the ability to resist risks, how much time can you use to climb after falling, when the world is good, Hello, my good dear, but once you have the wind and the grass, you can't get up when you fall, always those who haven't suffered in normal days.

Of course, the fairness of competition in the workplace is relatively recognized by everyone, or you are not willing to force, or you are standing in the wrong team, or doing homework behind it, so you have to make the wind and the glory of the glory. There are mixed competition skills, but this kind of fairness has its utilitarian aspect as a measure. The imbalance in the workplace cannot rise to the unfairness of fate. However, those who are trapped in love often recite the fate of injustice. Why is kindness like me and good as me? Characters like me, but people are not good? Why do some people always encounter bad things for bad people, and good people and good things go around?

In fact, if you look too much, you know that fate is as fair as the love field. A good man who is not taken seriously by you will one day make you regret crying. Those women who enjoy the emotional relationship with each other have one thing in common, that is, they are arrogant, know what to give up, what to save, what they can do, and then adjust their mindset and have a good time. And those women who are frustrated in love are counted as one, whether they are single, divorced or positive, they are all the same, the time is broken, the time is not necessary, and they are too kind to themselves. What is "the"? Too difficult to define, a thousand people have a thousand problems, there is no one-size-fits-all answer. To be simple, there is a distraction, don't worry about it, a job, a lover, this can't be neglected. When you have time and energy left, if you still have time and energy, it's fine.

The fun of life is to find it yourself, but often it will find troubles. This is also the fairness of life. Perhaps, at certain moments, it is an accident, and loss is a necessity. I fell down and got up. After I finished crying, I wiped away my tears. The brilliant life can't save these links. All fairness must be weighed on a balance that is long enough for a large enough.