I worked hard for ten years before I let my wife go to work.

Years ago, there was an article "I spent 18 years sitting with you on coffee", telling the story of young people in the field fighting in the magical capital. The protagonist of the story, spent ten years, struggled in the city, suffered from sin, finally stood firm in the city, and had the right to have an equal dialogue with the local people, that is, "sitting coffee with you". The story The protagonist laments that I am different from your origin, so I need to spend more than ten years to fight. Now, I bought a house in Shanghai. In the future, our children will grow up on a starting line.

The story was particularly sad and touched a group of foreigners who struggled in Shanghai. This sad story was later used by real estate advertising companies to use the method of sad marketing as a means to promote the sales of many real estate projects with just-needed customers.

Because of the same state of mind, it is easier to impress people. Li Kun’s ten years in the magic capital is similar. Although it is not so sad, it is not much different.

Li Kun is an Anhui native. When he graduated from the university, he went to Shenzhen. He liked the inclusiveness and broadness of Shenzhen. He wanted to stay in Shenzhen. After working for a few years, I saved a lot of money and bought a two-bedroom apartment in the suburbs. At that time, the price of Shenzhen was still very cheap, but three or four thousand squares. However, at that time, Li Kun’s salary was very low, and the loan of more than 1,000 yuan a month still made him feel very difficult. Even if it is hard, a beautiful future is beckoning to him. He waited to hand over the house, and when he was ready to decorate, he could live in his house and save a rent. After a few more years, I got married, my wife and children are hot-headed, and the days are beautiful!

When Li Kun thinks about the prospects, he feels very happy. Sometimes, when he dreams at night, he will wake up. I don't know why, I have never handed it to my girlfriend. He is not in a hurry, there is a house anyway, people are still young, afraid of anything!

In the year of the delivery of the house, a girl expressed a good impression on Li Kun, the girl is very beautiful, which makes Li Kun flattered. The girl is a guide, the kind that flies abroad. From the occupational intersection, it is impossible to play with Li Kun’s gossip. However, the things in this world are always so skillful. That day, the weather was boring and hot. Li Kun stood on the road and took a taxi. He hadn’t hit it for a long time. At this time, a girl walked in front of him and stood in front of him in the middle of the meter. Li Kun was in a hurry. This girl is too arrogant. When she arrives, she runs a taxi in front of him. Where is this?

Li Kun was ready to walk to the girl's front, but saw a man walked behind the girl, opened the girl's bag, and his hand was ready to go inside. Li Kun rushed up and said, "What are you doing?" The man scared his hand back and hurried away. The girl is naturally very grateful. At this time, a taxi was coming. The girl was very embarrassed to let Li Kun go first, and Li Kunqian let it go. Finally, I found that there was a road in the same road, and I got on the taxi together.

The girl named Sun Wei, not long after she became Li Kun’s girlfriend. In less than three months, two people lived together. Sun Wei is a Shanghai native and claims to return to Shanghai. At that time, Li Kun was still unsure whether her feelings for her had to go with her to sell the house to the end of the world. After a year, under the call of his family, Sun Hao really went back. Considering that Sun Hao is not too young, continuing to be a tour guide may delay marriage. Sun Hao’s family care relationship helped her arrange a job, a wine sales company. The front desk.

Sun Hao called and let Li Kun resign to Shanghai. If she does not come, she will accept the blind date arranged by her parents. Li Kun hesitated for a long time and found that he really loved Sun Hao and decided to follow her. Li Kun posted a resume on the Internet. After the online interview, he resigned and came to Shanghai.

The road to love is no better than the Silk Road. After Li Kun experienced the picky, assessment of the mother-in-law, the eyes of the relatives, the sneer and the sneer, and so on, after the help of Sun Yi’s death and death, they finally achieved their recognition. The bottom line of the mother-in-law is that Li Kun needs to buy a house in Shanghai in order to become a family.

At this time, it has been three years since Li Kun bought the house for the first time. The price of Shanghai has soared rapidly. The price of Jiading has already reached 10,000. Li Kun’s house in Shenzhen is not big. He sold the house. All the money was added up. After paying the down payment, he only had enough weddings. Fortunately, my wife is virtuous, claiming that there are too many places to run when I was young, and I don’t want to go out and save his honeymoon money.

At the request of the mother-in-law, Li Kun bought the house in Huangpu District. Because the location is good, the area is not large. This time it is still a two-bedroom apartment with more than 80 square meters. Fortunately, it is a fine decoration, saving a lot of things.

Not long after the delivery, the two stayed. Although they are burdened with heavy mortgages, they feel very happy. Yes, there is nothing better than having a room to eat and wear, and to be happier with someone you love! Li Kun believes that such a happy day will continue. If you know that a person has been going well for too long, there will always be something unsatisfactory waiting for him.

My wife is pregnant, how happy it is. The meaning of the mother-in-law is that, at any time, the salary at the front desk is not high, it is better to resign at home and concentrate on rest. When the children are older, they can go to school, and it is not too late to go out to work. A small couple of people, a heavy mortgage, every month of gas, water and electricity, broadband, property fees, need a lot of money. Li Kun is too stressed to support his family. Although the salary is not much at the front desk, the mosquitoes are small and meat, so they can subsidize the home. Sun Hao believes that he is also at work, although the salary is not high, but Li Kun will help to do some housework. Once he resigns at home, even if he is pregnant, he will not do anything. Li Kun will definitely marry her to cook rice and wash clothes or something. Then she is not working as usual!

The fetal phase has been very stable, and Sun Hao will go to work with peace of mind. At the front desk of the wine sales company, although the work is idle, occasionally you need to help with the handle, take samples and the like. One or two bottles of wine are not heavy, even if pregnant, take it lightly. But the red wine bottle suddenly burst? One day, Sun Haogang took two bottles of red wine from the wine cellar and took two steps. One of the bottles suddenly fell off, the red wine was scattered, and Sun Hao was ready to put the wine on the ground. I took the mop, but somehow slipped and fell to the red wine in the ground. Her hand was cut by broken glass. When she was sent to the hospital for bandaging, her stomach suddenly hurt and she was aborted.

Although I have paid some money as a work-related injury, it is a very regrettable thing that a small life is gone. To this end, the mother-in-law took Li Kun’s slap. The daughter-in-law who was born in a small alley is not separated from the words that "the person is short and short, and the wife is followed by sin." Li Kun knew that his mother-in-law looked down on him as a foreigner. He saw that he had a good wife and he endured it.

After a period of cultivation, Sun Hao continued to go back to work. But I don't know why, for two years, I have never been pregnant with children. Both husband and wife talked about this matter, and they were a little embarrassed. Sun Hao missed the child who had left, and could not help but feel like her mother, and then watched the good sisters who had been married to the golden tortoise. Even the fat and stupid Zhou Lili, because she was married to the locals, her husband’s family helped to lining up, and the couple’s days were not bad. Where is it like them, Li Kun’s family is not only unable to help in a small city in Anhui, but sometimes they need to subsidize one or two. The young couple lived in Shanghai, and they depended on their mothers everywhere. Carrying a mortgage, I don’t dare to spend money in peacetime, and squatting, people are old.

And Li Kun, when he was impatient with his wife, couldn’t help but complain that if she was not careful, the child would not lose.

Couples who blame each other, feelings are naturally getting worse. After Li Kun passed the age of 30, his position has improved, his work has gradually become busy, his family life is not happy, and he has to have fun outside. Li Kun is used to working overtime. Even if he doesn't work overtime, he likes to play games after work. And the young brothers in the company formed a pair, often go out to eat together. The public commented on the Internet with high praise, and the family tried it, even if it was far away. Li Kun has a car and often acts as a driver.

After a while, Sun Hao clearly felt that the relationship between husband and wife had gone wrong and began to think of various ways to recover. However, even if she puts on her inner feelings, the injured person can see the eyes, but the heart can't see it.

In the company, the new front desk girl is very good to Li Kun. Sometimes, colleagues make fun of them, Li Kun always smiles. Although there was a problem with Sun Hao’s feelings, my wife was always a wife. The ups and downs that I have traveled together can not be easily shaken by a little girl.

One day, after dinner, I drank some wine, the little girl drank a little drunk, and the colleagues joked to let Li Kun help, and Li Kun laughed and helped the little girl out of the hotel. At the entrance of the hotel, Sun Yan Tieqing stared at them. Li Kun’s wine woke up and quickly let go of the little girl. The little girl was a beggar and almost fell to the ground. Sun Hao turned and left, Li Kun followed, left and right, finally put Sun Hao on the car.

Shanghai girl, when you are good, a sweet attitude, can make a man's bones out of the honey, once the temper, hellokitty instantly turned into a female tiger, but not a man like Li Kun can parry. After a night of wind and rain, Li Kun could not afford to lose a layer of skin. The man's bones made him die and refused to kneel down, but he also vowed to go out with his colleagues.

Sun Wei feels that this is not the way, or that there must be a child in order to maintain the feelings that are hard to come by. When Sun Hao took Li Kun to the hospital for examination, he realized that Li Kun had come to the wine in the past few years and had already smashed his body. Following the advice of the doctor, Li Kun broke the wine, the cigarette addiction was too heavy, he could not quit, and he had to sneak when he went to work. Chewing gum after work.

Folic acid has been eaten for a year, but Sun Hao has never been pregnant with children. At this time, Li Kun was thirty-two years old. He graduated from him and has been in the past eight years.

Sun Hao’s desire for a child is too urgent, and her age is getting bigger and she is not suitable for continuing to be at the front desk. Sun Hao and his mother discussed it and thought that they would resign at home when they were more likely to be pregnant. Although Li Kun believes that if Sun Hao does not go to work, he will have more time to stare at him. He will have no freedom more than now, but there is no way. Now, Sun Hao, there is something to discuss with his wife, only his husband. Silent obedience.

Shanghai's housing prices are getting higher and higher, and Jiading's location is better than 17,000. The mother-in-law is getting older and older, and her body is not as good as before. In the past two years, she has done one or two minor operations. It seems that there is no way to help Li Kun with their children. The mother-in-law encouraged them to buy a bigger house, and they could live if they had children. Maybe you have to ask the aunt when it is time!

Sun Hao also has her thoughts. Although these years, I have been at the front desk, but it is not for pregnancy! Although the front desk work is relatively easy, but every day like everyone is 9 to 5, noon at the company to deal with eating, do not want to cook at night, and eat outside . Eating badly, the body is naturally not good. It’s time to make up my mind to take a rest in the house for a while. Use this time to make something delicious for myself. At noon, I can let Li Kun bring some love to the company. Let the body raise a great stick, and then give birth to the child and come out to work.

Oh, no, wait, wait until the house changes and say it! It’s not too late to re-sign a big house.

Li Kun couldn’t stand the lobbying of his wife and his mother, and began to look at the house. There is a problem with the housing cycle in the first-hand house, and the second-hand house is quite good. As long as it is not very old, it is still possible to live.

They have calculated the money in their hands. If the house is sold, the down payment will be 50% of the full amount, and the monthly supply will not feel too much pressure.

Real estate developers in Shanghai are clamoring for less and less, and it’s too late to buy a house. In fact, the house has never seen less. Where there is no first-hand house, second-hand housing transactions are very high. Li Kun bought them in Nanxiang and bought a three-bedroom three-bedroom apartment. The house is 80% new, the landlord sends furniture and appliances, they bought some basic things and lived in.

When I bought a house, I encountered some problems. Shanghai’s new restrictions on purchase and loan restrictions did not allow outsiders to buy a second home. In order to be able to live in a new house while selling, in order to make a time difference, Li Kun’s house was listed. However, there is still no formalities for clearing up. They also can't afford a 70% down payment. They negotiated and decided to divorce. Sun Hao went out to clean the house. Li Kun sold the house and gave money to Sun Hao. Sun Hao bought the house in the name of single, so that he could As the first suite, the house bought two people and then remarried.

Just less than a month after his stay, Sun Hao resigned, and his name was better for pregnancy. From then on, Sun Hao was alone at home, sleeping every day to sleep naturally, and went to Taobao to go to the hand cramps. At the beginning, I was still in a whim. I cooked a few loves and sent them to Li Kun. Later, even my own rice was too lazy to cook, and it was solved downstairs. In the evening, at the request of Li Kun, I cook a meal, but I also deal with it. When cooking hot pot, once the soup, can eat for three days.

Of course, the housework is done. Fortunately, the house is not big, and the small family does not have much housework to do. During the rest of the day, Sun Yi will drive to the People’s Square and go to Nanjing West Road. Shopping is a workout, and there are many times of exercise every week.

Because Sun Hao did not go to work, in order to make her life more convenient, the car opened to Sun. Li Kun felt very inconvenient. When she thought about changing the house, she still had nearly 200,000 deposits in her hand. After discussing with Sun Wei, the loan bought a car of nearly 300,000.

Li Kun’s work is still very busy, and at this time, he is almost thirty-five, and Sun Hao is already thirty-two. They have never had to go to the children. The days went by, until one day, until one day, Li Kun saw the article "I worked hard for ten years before I could drink coffee with you" in the WeChat circle of friends. He looked at the men’s tears and flowed. Down, Li Kun ridiculed himself: "I worked hard for ten years before I got rooted in Shanghai. I bought a three-bedroom apartment and married a Shanghai wife. Only then did my wife not have to go to work, and go shopping online every day. The only house now is her pre-marriage property. One day she didn't want me, I didn't have anything."