You think you are gregarious, in fact, you are wasting youth.

I used to have a dormitory, lived with six people, played games together, played cards, sat at my desk and watched TV series. Sometimes a few people would brush the night, drink and go out for a few nights. Life is like this. Then, it passed like this one night. Then, one year has passed. Then, four years have passed.

Among the six people, there must be one or two people mixed, but there must be people who mix poorly. It’s okay to mix, in college for four years, how fake it is: because he organizes others to fall, he is determined to move forward, and the situation is different, how uncomfortable to live. And if you mix poorly, you never know where the problem is. He didn't know at all that he was following the trend, but he did not know what went wrong.

I saw in the study room that there were a lot of people who knew how to work hard, and they fought and struggled. I was moved when I saw them. Because I am no longer alone, I was called "study" by the students in the class in a mocking language. I always know that the big environment is not good, and I can never be confusing. But I have not changed my view of learning: that is, knowledge is always its own, and others can't take it away. You can't choose your roommate during college, but you can choose your own friends.

Because, recently, I began to discover that the bedroom is the beginning of the fall; the group is the starting point for elimination. In the dictionary of many people:

Four people, three people kept downloading Aoi, and the fourth person did not watch, it was not gregarious.

Four people, three people play the game, the fourth person does not play, it is not gregarious.

Four people, three people are engaged in gay, the fourth person does not engage, it is not gregarious.

People are afraid of loneliness, so most people choose to gregate:

but. You think that you are in a group, you are wasting your youth; you think that you have made friends, and when you graduate, there is no one who will treat you as a friend; you think that you are not alone in college for four years, when you graduate without work, You will be more lonely without the days of your own family.

Some people say that they are alone, but who said that it will not be painful to achieve their goals?

My short-lived freshman life has witnessed too many tragedies for gregarious and confusing. Do you still remember yourself when you first entered the campus? At that time, we were still childish, innocent and lovely, and full of ignorant yearning for the university. And when you enter the university for half a year, what do you have for yourself? Can you find yourself who loves to learn and behave in a noble manner?

I saw that some girls have learned to smoke, and they have also become a kind of show-off capital; some girls have lost their senses for their boyfriends and even lost their lives; one person does not attend classes, and others do not. All this is due to four words: "I have no heart."

Time has passed quietly, I am a sophomore, and many of my classmates have already suffered from "mobile phone dependence." Some feel that they are also, brush a microblogging, everyone, WeChat, Fetion, where to go, eat Western food, take a selfie, put it on the sun. At that time, I already felt that people were emptiness, and things that were not often in their hearts would show off. I was originally talkative and cheerful, and I suddenly liked to seek a pure land in my heart.

More and more like to read Zhou Guoping's book, he always puts life, personal and flexible connection so round, and can make me read orally.

If I was a group at the beginning, now I will be who I am, and what will it be.

I have always believed that heroes are always lonely, and only a small group is getting together. The "two-eighth law" is always suitable for every corner of the earth: 20% of the people, accounting for 80% of the assets; 80% of the people, serving 20%.

Especially the boys, the four years of college, have been in the same group, have been in the bedroom, have not opened their horizons, suffocating, the frog at the bottom of the well, all of which will always be returned to themselves at some point in the future.

And girls, it is necessary to cultivate an independent personality in the university, relying on a man, can never compare with the future created by relying on one's own hands.

However, I want to say that what I said here is not gregarious, not enmity, not unruly. Here, I am not doing enough at the university, I am reviewing. At the very least, don't offend people, because the road is different and you don't want to. But it doesn't mean that you don't even talk, or the bad words. You support his life style, but you need to have your own thoughts.

This world is very evil. You will never believe that the most masculine person of the year will be the most promising person in politics in ten years; you will not believe that the most unsocial person of the year became a millionaire.

In any case, those who have achieved some accomplishments are not gregarious; even if they are superficial, they always have their own world. They like to think quietly and always move toward it.

Even if you have a lot of money and have a big career of your own, remember that your soul is lost, maybe your life is empty, your personality is incomplete. Enrich yourself with knowledge, hold up a sky with your own hands, and when you look up at the stars, your heart is very bright.