Blind self-confidence and cheeky, is the mother of success

Miss Li is my newly-recognized girl. She is black and round, and looks like Sister Furong. She thinks she has a lot of style. Which man she dared to chase, which big coffee she dared to take a ride, spent madness and second force, often making jokes. In the circle of friends, she is a ugly horn, like Chen Handian's treatment in "Kangxi is coming", making fun of and humiliating her, is a fixed entertainment project for everyone.

"Hey, Miss Li, I heard that you recently talked to a handsome manager of a top hotel. Didn't you give it to someone?"

"Miss Li, are you going to blind date today? So grand, with two chins going out..."

It is said that every time a friend meets, she is the absolute focus. Even if she is not there, 80% of the topics are talking about her, because she is too wonderful to always provide fresh talk. For example, she was married again in a while. I went to the university for a while. After a while, I became a girlfriend with a celebrity lady...

You never know what she can do in the next second.

You don't even know that when everyone takes her as a joke, she automatically bans these negative messages, or treats them as goodwill. No matter how poisonous the tongue is to her, she will always live in a fairy tale world that looks like a fairy. The mantra is often: "Like like me, wear everything to look good"; "Only I am a man, no man is jealous of me." ", "Customers have to pay me, I can't help"...

You think she is bragging, and people are really bulls. She used to be a political reporter at the newspaper, and later resigned and opened a consulting company. In the third year of last year, the business volume has already reached more than 13 million. The 27-year-old girl is not sleeping with a man. Why?

She said that this year she is going to achieve 30 million yuan. Although everyone has heard this figure, they are all laughing, but they all know that most of them can do it.

She reminds me of a sister.

The teacher's facial features are Peugeot and stout. He is 1.58 meters tall and weighs 132 pounds. He also loves to wear a transparent tight-fitting blouse and a lace miniskirt. He feels that his arms and thighs can be broken at any time, and he can see the creeps.

Her self-evaluation is, "My looks, I concentrated on the advantages of Lin Qingxia and Maggie Cheung, so I was a school flower since I was a child. There are too many people chasing me. I don't dare to dress too flattering, afraid more men fall in love with me. ".

Sister, you didn’t wear sexy lingerie, we thank you all over the world.

At that time, we all laughed at her behind, stupid, should take medicine.

It turns out that it is us who are stupid.

When the teacher and sister were studying, the dead skin had to go to Taiwan to attend an academic conference with the tutor. The tutor was a gentle old gentleman. He was embarrassed to refuse and took her. Then, the teacher and sister got a professor from National Taiwan University. The professor sent an invitation letter to the sister and sister, and invited her to visit the National Taiwan University for one year.

The sister went to Taiwan. I didn't know how to get a French professor and went to a French university for a year.

We thought that the teacher and sister would succeed in the post and become the true lady of the French professor.

People talked to a small Swiss guy about love, and saw photos of handsome guys in the Q group. We had a bunch of girls vomiting blood.

That's exactly the specifications of the young version of Leonardo, ah ah.

We are comforting ourselves. The handsome guy is just fresh and will break up soon.

Then, they got married, the handsome guy was rich in the second generation, and the sister gave birth to a mixed-race twin. Shijie recently prepared to introduce a high-end home furnishing brand in Europe to China. The recent Weibo photo is still the five big three-body figure, wrapped in Chanel's suit, next to a handsome husband looking at her. Oh, forgot to say, her husband is still young, she is 8 years old.

Why?

Miss Li and her sister are all the same kind of girls. There are several similar items around me. Where are they?

First, because of their blind self-confidence, they are brave enough to go forward and have no limits on anything.

When Miss Li was a financial reporter, she was a celebrity of the big coffee. Other senior reporters felt that they couldn’t make it. If they gave up automatically, she would dare to go to the interview and finally get it. Where does this kind of qi come from? From a kind of self-confidence, just like human beings in their infancy, they feel that they are the masters of the world. Miss Li often said, don't try, how can I know?

The same is true for the sisters. It is said that she just got a freshman year. At that time, everyone thought that the professors were all on the high. Who dared to chat with the professor, she dared. After class, other students flew to the cafeteria to cook. She ran to chat with the professor in the name of the question, and even went to the church with the professor. It was an old Marxist-Leninist lady, everyone was shocked. The sister said: Why not? Professors are also people, they are also eager to mingle with young people.

Second, self-esteem is a stumbling block to success.

Miss Li said that when she was a child, they lived on the first floor of the street. Every time she made a mistake, her father would punish her at the door of the house. The pedestrians who came and went could see it. Therefore, she did not care about self-esteem. When we do one thing, we often think too much and conceive all kinds of bad results: What should the other party do not like me? What should I do if I bother the other person and trouble the other party? What should the other party refuse me? Miss Li is very disdainful about this: What is the relationship between being rejected? I have nothing to lose. I found 10 people, 8 rejected me, and 2 promised, I earned it.

Third, because the goals are clear, they don't care about other people's opinions. They are super-executive and always achieve their goals.

On the night of eating with Miss Li, on the surface, she ran a train and said all sorts of weird words, but if you sorted it out, you would find that she was quite logical. All her wonderful remarks are centered on three themes. First of all, she is very arrogant. Her company is also very good. It has set a lot of big customers. What do you want to do? Because there is a vice president of foreign companies, Her potential customers, she wants to explain her strength; secondly, she half-jokingly introduced her business with the vice president, said that she can help the other party to do something, persuade the other party to sign with her, the vice president did not take seriously, she I don't mind; the most fascinating thing is that she seems to be chatting about the vice president's information, knowing that the vice president and his former newspaper boss are university classmates, the same dormitory, and called the newspaper boss on the spot, and made an appointment. Drinking tea together on the weekend, with this relationship, the vice president is basically eaten by her...

Miss Li will never care how others laugh at her. She only cares if she can do what she wants. This is also the strength of my sister. In that year, she relied on the relationship with professors and counselors to get a good job. Her classmates attacked her and shamelessly. She didn't care. She said, "Yes, I don't want to face, so I got me. I want it. You have to face, so you have nothing, you deserve it. Either learn me, or continue to install high, I have a fart."

What I want to say is that those who are blind and confident and have a thick face are really powerful people. They don't care about others and they can let themselves go. In this world, the last thing you can get is what they used to be jokes.