Learn to choose your own life

Learn to choose your own life

People should live independently in the world, especially spiritual independence; this does not mean not dealing with others or helping each other. But some people, like vines, always rely on entangled in walls, trees, and even decaying wooden sticks to survive. In the end, they often entangle the trees; people should take roots like trees, grow independently, and the branches of trees and trees intersect. That is the exchange of feelings and the greetings of friendship, but the spirit is like the backbone of the tree, forever independent.

In a drama of life, the stage is empty before you go to power. After you step down, the stage is still empty. Whether life is wonderful, the key is the process of acting and the role played; the drama has tragedies, comedies, melodrama, heroes, and also Farce and horror drama. We can't completely decide the story, but we can work hard to decide what role we play. Some people have become comedy in their lives, some have become tragedies, and some have become farce.

Liu Zhiyu, a North University student, has been accepted by the MIT Grand Prize, but he chose to be a monk in Longquan Temple. The reason is that it is because of the Peking University, so the North University students sell meat and become a news. In fact, the most important spirit of Peking University is to cultivate students' individuality and spiritual freedom, and let students learn how to choose their own life. Therefore, as long as Liu Zhiyu's choice is rational, he can achieve success when he enters the WTO. When he did not become a monk, he did not have a Master.

Changes in the environment sometimes play a more important role in the change of fate. Do not try to change the environment. You don't know where your abilities are. It is the tiger that should whisper the mountains and forests. If we don't have the courage to change the environment, it may be that the tiger has entered the abyss, and the dragon has entered the mountain forest. Not only is life shackled, but it can never be a heroic spirit.

If the face grows awkward, we will pay special attention to cover up, fear of others watching, always feel that it will be difficult to see, in fact, others are basically not very concerned, seeing there will be no negative evaluation; but for those intangible shortcomings such as Self-righteousness, low-spiritedness, etc., we often do not cover up or correct, thinking that others can not see, but just the instinct of people can not see themselves, but can see others, so you will be ignorant of your shortcomings.

The father of Microsoft founder Bill Gates recently said in a talk show that Gates was a problem teenager. The family also had a two-year family treatment for this. Old Gates said that many times, we will argue for family discipline, mostly because he and his mother are noisy. Gates said that perhaps we can let parents know that an energetic, disobedient child can also be a successful person.

Students are not unable to criticize. The key is how teachers can criticize on the premise of respecting students. It is wrong to treat students in an insulting manner. In the presence of the class, the criticism is wrong. Premier Wen Jiabao said that every Chinese should live with dignity. This must first be reflected in the school. If students do not have dignity, there is a society of dignity in the future. Teachers respect students, students respect teachers, and mutual respect is true respect.

We have been seen by people. Many of us are still being looked down upon, but the world itself is a snobbery. We have only two ways to go. One is to ignore the eyes of others. I am alive and I am free. This is Superman; The other is to gain a position that is not being taken lightly through your own efforts. Like the lyrics of "Broad Sky": "Indifferent people, thank you for being ignorant of me, let me not bow down and live more brilliantly"; we are ordinary people, let us not bow.

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