Inspirational article: I believe

Inspirational article: I believe

-- Sharing with all parents of college entrance examination students

"I believe, I believe in myself, I believe tomorrow, I believe that youth has no horizon." What a youthful singer that sings the confidence of the bottom of my heart. In such a special period, we are a special identity of the parents of the college entrance examination students. What we care most about is, child, are you tired? Whether your food is delicious, whether your clothes are warm, whether your heart is calm, whether your efforts and fueling are effective, everything in your life is something that Mom and Dad will unconsciously think of every day. "When all people are concerned about whether you are flying very high, only a few are tired and tired when you care about your flight." This may be the real life portrayal of all college entrance examination students, parents will keep silent in their hearts. Nin, dear treasure, are you tired? You must insist!

Many times, the child's tired, not in the body, not in the food, not in the warmth of the clothes, not in their study, but in their hearts. How to let the child have a calm heart, quiet, steady and steady study, is the problem that our parents need to care most and most need our parents to adjust themselves.

Some children can see their parents every day, while others can see their parents every week, and some children can see their parents only one month. Every day, children learn and live in school, not so carefully and seriously, and more often, they feel from sight and hearing. Just like today, when the children come back, they are happy to tell the school, or something that makes them happy and happy. Maybe, they will delay some time to study. Dear parents, please be careful and careful. After listening to their words, don't interrupt, let alone "what kind of thing is about you, you can learn well." Don't hurt your children, don't fight their right to release. More often, the child is not glaring at you any more, just want to say something to laugh with you, just want to share with you what they think is happy, just want to adjust the atmosphere of the home.

If we can listen carefully, occasionally we will laugh together with the children, or say, "how is it so fun", or just smile at the big child who is laughing and joking in the hands and feet, waiting quietly Their concluding remarks, happy to say, yes, my mother likes you like this, awesome! I think that the child's heart will be quiet and peaceful, and the child will feel happy when the parents walk with them. The child will be grateful to the parents for their dedication and deep love.

They will definitely go to their room quietly after reading, telling, writing, thinking, this time, we only need to give my love, put some fruit, hot milk, dessert, what is light Put them on their side, and enjoy them with them. We just need to quit. In the world of our own, we are quietly doing our own things and quietly accompanying them in our hearts.

When the child said, Mom, I want to talk to you for a while, don’t say, "When is it, you are not quick to look at your own book, what day is it?" Say, "Have your homework done?" "Do you have any questions in the information?" Dear parents, please be happy and happy, accept the emotional confession of your child during this period, because you are their most loved and trusted person, they will talk to you about your inner uneasiness and fear, maybe, children It will be euphemistic to say that we must listen carefully to those extra-sounding sounds. Don't easily deny your child, don't arbitrarily affirm your child, and don't think about it, think it is a correct point of view. To analyze carefully in the heart, they just confide, and some of the inner emotional wastes are really the real thoughts of their hearts. At a moderate time, appropriate words will play a role in fueling the situation. It is also a time when parents need to use their wisdom.

More often, those children who return home every day can use the washing time, the time of eating, the sports together, the children to talk about some national events, news, and some happy things, some What's the latest entertainment, or who's the latest song, who's the latest blockbuster, just, our parents have to go and see more, how to stimulate the child's mood is good.

If the child is back, I am particularly happy and excited to tell you how they are doing. Maybe, it’s just a difficult math problem. Many of the good children who usually learn are not made. They made it and they were The teacher is sure, envious of the classmates, they will especially hope to get the parents' approval and recognition, don't say, "What's the matter, can you make it every time?" Or, "just Such a time, look at your beauty", do not such a contusion to the child's excitement, we can say "Really, you are awesome! I believe you must do." Children must be very embarrassed to smile and say some modest words. Why don't we use them to increase their self-confidence at this time? A confident child has already succeeded in half.

When the child came back and whispered, Mom, I didn’t have a good time this time. Dear parents, I hope that you can be anxious in your heart, smile on your face, smile and say to the children, yeah, talk, my mother listens. We must first praise and encourage support, and then do specific analysis. Just as we commend the progress of this word, we have made progress. Some knowledge points are in place, and then listen to the children themselves to explain where they are wrong. Why? If you make a mistake and listen to their own analysis, how will they improve in the future? As long as we have the right time, our parents say that this knowledge point is very important. It is recorded on the wrong book. It is better to read it frequently. In fact, the children understand and understand everything. They just worry about our emotions and whether they are angry. As long as we can maintain a peaceful heart to communicate with them, appreciate their strengths, encourage their strengths, and let the shadows of failure and loss disperse in the hearts of children.

The most difficult thing to grasp is that the emotional tension of our parents will unconsciously infect the child. How to calm down and calm down, so that every time we see the child, we will be the same as before. The most important thing is that we The "face". Don't always print a bunch of things that we think are very good and practical. First, children don't necessarily have time to look at them. Second, children will feel guilty because of your hard work. If you don't feel good about your efforts, you will be sorry for your efforts. In addition, you will increase your pressure on your child. Third, you will also delay your time. Everyone will have their own business. It is also good to do our work well. The child is a kind of spiritual encouragement and support. Don't put the countdown table of the college entrance examination in the most conspicuous place in the room. It is a silent and invisible little whip. When you hit the child's inner uneasiness at all times, it will put more stress on your child's nervousness. The atmosphere of the family is more gloomy. Even the warmest places are air-tight, where do children go to find warm and warm harbors? Dear parents, let these little little alarms disappear, give yourself, give the children, and give the whole family a peaceful and peaceful beauty.

I remember that the simple teacher has a blog post, "What is more important than the score?" said, "A good high school graduate is not only a master of exams, but also a new generation with good physical and mental health and comprehensive quality. Only in this way can we Adapting to the needs of the future society and truly achieving personal sustainable development. I think that as a third-grade parent, if you can consider the development of children from all aspects, you may be able to relieve your mental stress for yourself and your child. If your If your child's grades are not so outstanding, but you can develop healthily and harmoniously, you should also feel gratified." The most admirable phrase is "If your child's grades are not so outstanding, but they can develop healthily and harmoniously, you should also feel it. Please, please." Yes, do not every parent want their children to be physically and mentally healthy? This is the most true heart. There is only one first. The children of Shangbeiqing are also a minority. Most of the children are ordinary people. It is not easy to be a happy and happy ordinary person. .

Dear parents, let us join hands and let us flatten our hearts, let us silently bless our children in our hearts! Wishing them a better tomorrow! Because we believe in them, we believe in schools, believe in teachers, and with their encouragement and encouragement, our children must do it!

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