I am not Cheng Dongqing, I am Yu Minhong.

Last year, a "Chinese Partner" made more Chinese young people know Yu Minhong. Many people think that Cheng Dongqing in the movie is me. However, I am not Cheng Dongqing, I am Yu Minhong. My story is like this.

I am a second-rate graduate of Peking University.

After losing two college entrance examinations, I was admitted to the Department of Western Languages ​​and Literature of Peking University in 1980. During the period, I was absent from school for one year. After graduation, I stayed at the University of Beijing as an English teacher. In September 1991, I resigned from Peking University and entered the field of private education. She has been engaged in teaching and management in some private schools in Beijing.

In "Chinese Partner", Cheng Dongqing, in order to catch up with the first beauty of the law department, Samui, first climbed the pole to create romance, and then rowed in the unnamed lake to confess... Reviewing my emotional life, but it is miserable Much more. In the four years of college life, I have not talked about love. In the 4 years of Peking University, no girl loves me.

Many people think that my memory level is very good. I can remember three or four thousand English words. I can put down the "English-Chinese Dictionary". So far there should be about 20,000 English words in my mind, but That is the result of my struggle with time. It took me four years to be tenacious, and the words were posted everywhere on the wall.

When you are not smart enough, all you have to do is exchange time for your wisdom and talents. Sometimes, there is a difference between people. If someone can finish a book in a week, you may need two to three weeks. There are differences in memory abilities and differences in IQ.

My back text is slow, but the advantage of slow back is that it is slow to forget. At the end of the exam, my classmates have to back up the text, so I don't have to recite it, because I can immediately recite each text. There is a principle in memory, and speed is directly proportional to forgetting. If you have a text out of the day, you will forget it after a week; but if you come back one week, you may forget it after one year.

But in fact, I have always been inferior at Peking University. I have been living in self-esteem for 11 years from entering Beijing University to Peking University. But inferiority is also good. In self-esteem, I learned the ability to "see and see". Inferiority depends on people's face. Because I don't believe in myself, I always try to figure out what others think. So when I see other people's eyes and movements, I will Will ponder what his mental state is. Later, I found that this is very effective in management. In management, I have to figure out what employees want and how to develop relationships with employees.

When I graduated from Peking University, my grades were not good. At that time, I was looking forward to leaving Peking University because I had never been better at Peking University. The students never valued me and could not find the object. The job volunteers I filled were all units outside of Peking University, but in the end I was left by Peking University. Why? The students with good grades have gone to good units like the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and China Daily. At that time, Peking University had just started public English training. Every student who had English-only people who wanted to learn English to extend to the University of Beijing had to learn English. The gap between the English teachers of Peking University was great, and I was left behind.

It’s important to pay a friend who always hits you.

Although I have no skills, the friends I have made are higher than me. From these friends, I can learn a lot. Among the other three founders of New Oriental, Wang Qiang was the squad leader and group secretary in my class at the time. Xu Xiaoping was the teacher of Western music history at that time. Bao Fan slept in my upper store.

Why do I make friends with them?

First of all, these three characters are very good, this is the premise.

Second, the three of them are better than me in a certain field. For example, Wang Qiang is very talented in many aspects, and has strong imitation ability. He speaks Chinese and English at a very high level and has been a stationmaster for four years at the Beijing Broadcasting Station. I can't learn these. But I learned his reading skills.

When he was in Peking University, he divided his living expenses into two, half for buying food tickets and half for books. Even if he runs out of food tickets, he will not use the money to buy books. If there is no meal ticket, he will borrow it. I feel that this spirit is worth learning. I was taking a national bursary at the time, 22 yuan a month. I also divided the money into two halves, 11 yuan for dinner, and 11 yuan for books. I didn't know how to buy a book, so I followed Wang Qiang. I bought the book and I bought it. From then on, I developed the habit of buying books and reading books.

Bao Fanyi and I have a dormitory. I learned the most important thing from him. It is completely a thing that shapes my personality. Bao Fanyi is a person with a strong self-criticism. His father is a professor of ancient Chinese literature at Zhejiang University, so his ancient text is very good. According to himself, at the age of 5, he will be able to recite "Li Sao" and at the age of 8 he will be able to read "Jin Ping Mei". An 8-year-old person who read "Jin Ping Mei" must have seen his life at the age of 18 and has a self-critical spirit. Bao Fanyi is a person who can expose all his physical and psychological defects to you and then let you examine it. This requires great courage. But after all of them were put out, he himself had no psychological burden. But the problem is that our group of talents is just an adult, and he is an adult when he is 8 years old, so it is psychologically unbearable for us. We really want to maintain our own face and want others to say their own advantages and advantages, but he can take out all your shortcomings and the dark side of your heart, and make you have no hiding place, so we are extremely painful and painful. As a result of the counterattack, our dormitory has been spent criticizing each other for four years. In fact, there are friends who are worthy of contact with you to broaden your mind and make you more knowledgeable and deeper.

I used to be a lame poet.

When I was 18 years old, I had a lot of psychological imbalances at the beginning, because my appearance, family conditions, etc. were quite different from my classmates. But I later realized that I have slowly adjusted my mentality during the four years of college.

At that time, the comparison between our classmates might not be the same as today. When we were comparing, who read more books, who paid attention to the opinions in front of the classmates, and who wrote more poems - because writing poetry at the time can also attract girls. But I am more miserable. I wrote a lot from the total amount of poetry and wrote more than 600 poems, but did not attract a girl or published a poem.

The classmates in our class were very talented, they wrote poetry very much, and they also opened a personal poetry reading. I also went to listen. After reading it, I found out that "哗啦", fifty or sixty girls chased these poets, As a result, I chased fifty or sixty girls to go...

I am a very lame poet. If I wrote a poem successfully, I might not give up literature. But now, in retrospect, a crappy poet also has a good side. Why? Because I finally found out that I am not the material, I have the New Oriental today!