Only time will not lie

Before Alice Monroe won the Nobel Prize in Literature, many people only knew the little girl "Alice" in "Alice in Roaming"; and since October 10 last year, everyone has known a "Alice" Silk's old woman with silver hair.

The degree of truth is proportional to his fame, and soon, the quotations of Alice Monroe spread. I especially like the paragraph she said:

“I published my first book at the age of thirty-seven. I started writing when I was twenty. I was married, had children, and did housework. Even when there were no washing machines, writing was not successful. The problem. People can always find time if they can control their own lives."

Alice Monroe

As long as people can control their own lives, they can always find time. This sentence is like a loud slap in the face, humiliating all modern people who have been chased by time.

"I am too busy..." "I have no way..." Everyone who said this sentence is announcing that he has lost his sovereignty over time. On this planet, it seems that everyone has a list of dreams. The so-called dream is like the thing ten meters away. People are holding it, but they don't open the one-meter iron chain.

Some people say: I am going to start fitness from next week.

Some people say: When I make enough money, I will spend more time with my family.

Haizi said: From tomorrow, I will be a happy person.

However, never listen to people's verbal lists; don't think that they have been chanting what is most important to them. Because the essence of a person is definitely his time, not his language. When he chose how to fill his time, he chose how to fill his life.

For example, someone asked the psychiatrist Li Zixun: "My daughter is 2 years old. Her father often travels. When she comes back, she wants to hold her daughter. Her daughter will say no to her father. How can I educate my daughter when this happens?" Answer: "Why educate children, this is what the father should bear."

The father gave 99% of his time to work, leaving only 1% of his time to his daughter, and he had to bear the result of this time allocation. At the same time, he is also choosing an identity for himself: he is more willing to be a successful person than a father.

Many people have said this to their families and children: "I have worked hard to make money, isn't it for you? This sentence is a full lie. Because you will definitely see such people would rather spend their time playing cards, Drinking, gathering, and playing games will not accompany your family.

The important attributes of time are irreversibility and exclusivity. When you choose to do A, you will not be able to choose B. If a thing or an identity is particularly important to a person, then he will definitely draw an inviolable site in the limited territory of time, defending it, not letting it loose, and planning other things outside this site.

The role of the world is not divided into high and low, your time is your role.

Jobs and Hayao Miyazaki put almost all of their time on the job, and they are people who agree that personal achievement is higher than family value.

You spend all your free time eating, drinking, and learning, so you are a person who is happy or has had a good time. Don't expect yourself to be angry and not to develop plans that will not be implemented at all. . A few of my friends in the state-owned enterprises have resigned and started their business every day without any movement, because they are the most suitable people to work in state-owned enterprises. I have never been able to exercise time because I am a static and short-sighted person who does not care about health. Every minute we spend is based on our nature and beliefs.

Alice Monroe brought four children and wrote a novel about Niu X. Like her, Haruki Murakami and Stephen King used to write for hours after work and before going to bed. They don't have to say that time can prove to them who they are and what is important to them.

The only criterion for testing a person is to see where he puts his time.

Don't deceive yourself; when life comes to an end, only time will not lie.