Happiness is actually a habit

Early in the morning, I jumped on a taxi and went to the suburbs of Taipei to do in-house training.

Because it was just a rush hour, it didn't take long for the car to get stuck in the car. At this time, the driver of the front seat began to sigh with impatience.

I chatted with him casually: "Is the business late?"

The face of the rear view mirror smashed down, and the voice stinks:

"What's good? It's not good everywhere. Do you think our taxi business will be good? If you don't make any money every day for a dozen or so, it's really irritating!"

Well, obviously this is not a good topic. Change the theme, I think.

So I said, "But fortunately, your car is very large and spacious. Even if it is a traffic jam, it makes people feel very comfortable..."

He interrupted me and his voice was excited: "Comfortable! Don't believe that you come to sit 12 hours a day, see if you will feel comfortable!?"

Then his words opened, complaining that the government is incompetent and socially unfair, so the people have no hope.

I can only listen quietly, and I have no chance to interrupt.

At the same time two days later, I jumped on the taxi again, and once again went to the same company in the suburbs for training. However, this time, I started a different experience.

As soon as I got on the bus, a smiley face turned, accompanied by a light and pleasant voice: "Hello, where are you going?"

Really rare and kind, I was a little surprised, and immediately told him the destination.

He smiled and said, "Okay, no problem!"

However, there were no two steps, and the car could not move in the car.

The driver in the front seat held the steering wheel and began to whistle and sing and sing up. It is clear that I am in a good mood today.

So I asked: "It seems that you are in a good mood today!"

He smiled and revealed his teeth: "I am like this every day, I feel very good every day."

"Why?" I asked: "Don't everyone say that the business is bad, the working hours are long, and the income is not ideal?"

Mr. Driver said: "Yes, I also have children to raise, so the driving time is also extended to 12 hours. However, the days are still very happy, I have a secret..."

He paused: "Don't say sir, don't be angry, okay?"

Of course, as long as it is a happy secret, I am interested in psychology.

Mr. Driver said: "I always think about things from another angle. For example, I feel that driving out, in fact, the guests pay me to come out to play. Like this morning, I met a gentleman like you, paying me to follow me. You are going to Yangmingshan to play, isn't that good? Waiting for Yangmingshan, you are going to do your business, and now it is the flower season, I just can enjoy the flowers, take the smoke and go!"

He continued: "Like a few days ago, a couple went to the fresh water to watch the sunset. After they got out of the car, I also went down to drink a bowl of fish ball soup, squeezing them next to them to see the sunset. Anyway, come here, more What about people paying?"

Beautiful! A wonderful secret!

I suddenly realized how lucky I was, and I was honored to have a trip with the EQ master in the front seat. It was awesome. I was able to take the car and feel happy. How difficult this service is. I decided to call the driver and invite him to travel together later.

While picking up his business card, his mobile phone ringing just sounded. An old guest was going to the airport. I didn’t like him. I believe that the working attitude of this EQ master not only won a good mood for him, but also must bring Into many businesses.

** Happiness is actually a habit ***

Psychologists have found that happiness is actually a habit. No matter how the environment changes, the happiness of EQ masters will not change.

When we can change our mindset to look at our work and face the work with a happy mood like a game, you will find that your inner energy is much stronger, and the ability to resist stress is greatly enhanced, and this is also positive. It is a beautiful way of carrying out the determination of happiness.

I often feel that work is actually a kind of disguise. It gives me a good excuse and opportunity. I can get to know many interesting people because of speeches and various activities. Isn't that very enjoyable?

When we focus on people, people who are willing to return you with enthusiasm, I hope that we are both people with heart and people with heart.