How can we quickly improve our abilities?

Now is an important historical stage in the transition from a qualified society to a capable society. The ultimate development of human development depends on ability. So what is the ability? How do you need to improve it quickly? Xiaoyuan thinks the following points are available for friends:

First, only the realization is their own - the essence of ability

Whether a person has a culture, whether he has a diploma or not, is not how many books he reads, but whether he has some feelings every day. If he is not good at feelings, then he is a "rough person."

Whether a person has thoughts, whether he can write an article, whether he can eloquently, but whether he is always in a person, can continue to meditate and constantly feel. If he has contemplation and sentiment, then he will have thoughts.

A person has the ability, not to see what he knows, what he can do, but to see if he often "knows", "obeys", and the ability is formed, because only the one who realizes is his own!

Second, self-confidence is the first element of ability - the element of ability

Competence is a possibility, and the possibility of one's efforts to use conditions to achieve goals. My ability formula is: ability = attitude + condition + goal. Therefore, the first element of ability is attitude, human inclination, and human effort. The core of people's subjective initiative is self-confidence.

Self-confidence, also known as self-confidence, is the psychological state of one's ability to believe in one's own ability, that is, the psychological tendency to believe that he has the ability to achieve his or her stated goals. Self-confidence is based on the correct understanding of oneself and the correct estimation and positive affirmation of one's own strength. It is an important component of self-awareness.

How to improve self-confidence? There are four ladder processes:

The first stage: experience

It is to experience success, small success, and then great success.

The second stage: discovering yourself

Constantly know yourself, discover yourself, discover yourself, recognize your own uniqueness, and your personal strengths.

The third stage: thinking

In the process of continuously solving problems, a stable thinking mode is formed. True self-confidence is a stable system of thinking. The system of thinking methods is like the total coordinate system of a life, and is the command system of all behaviors of life. In fact, there are very few people with corresponding methodological systems. Most are simply using instinctive or empirical techniques. This constitutes the turmoil and inclination of the overall state of our society. Therefore, the establishment of a scientific and unique methodological system is an important part. Without a stable mindset, self-confidence is subjective and idealistic and cannot be stable.

The fourth stage: the habit

It is the formation of behavioral programs and behavioral habits. Self-confidence is ultimately a habit, a moral and wisdom of internalization.

The establishment of an objective self-confidence system is a prerequisite for the formation of capabilities. The first element of competence - attitude, in addition to self-confidence, the other two components are: responsibility and willpower.

Third, want to get, and to do - the ladder of ability

The essence of ability is - want to get, and to do. Knowledgeable but incapable, or thought of but can't do it, it seems that it is only a little bit worse, in fact, far worse.

Why do we always want to get it, can't we do it? What kind of bridge is there between "thinking" and "doing it"? I think this bridge - which we often say "opening up".

When people do not "open up", even if they know and think about it, they can't turn into their own abilities, or they can't turn into effective actions to achieve their goals. For example, people who are not good at reading, the more books they read, the more confused they become. The knowledge becomes a drag on people, and those who can read can lead to reciting through reading. How to improve execution is also the problem. For example, the comparison between the nerd and the book of the cultural person, the core of the “nerd qi” is that there is no “opening”, and the “weakness” and “calcium deficiency” of the cultural person are also concentrated here.

What I want to explore is how to open up, that is, how does one develop his own savvy? Solving this problem, in essence, solves the problem of self-cultivation of ability: Kailuan = understanding + epiphany. The so-called understanding is a reliable generalization; the so-called epiphany is the thinking of transcendence.

There are many ways to open up, here is a stairway mode of attraction:

The first mode: reading thousands of books

It is by reading a large number of books, obtaining enough information, classifying, distinguishing, and sorting out the information, and reading a book, and writing a pen.

The second mode: Wanli Road

It is through the practice, experience, contact, on the basis of experience, to obtain rational understanding and induction.

The third mode: countless people

It is a lot of contact with different people, find the intersection and intersection of different people, so as to get a correct understanding of things.

The fourth mode: following the footsteps of the winner

Imitation and follow-up is a shortcut for ordinary people to gain insight. Imitation and follow-up are self-training, which is a reliable understanding from training.

The fifth mode: high-level people

The inspiration and insight of the superiors is the highest form of the lowest cost and best benefit. All of China’s wisdom is highly concentrated on the word “inspiration”.

Fourth, ability, at the corner after persistence - the realization of ability

Ability, in a certain sense, is a joy of life. Any joy, spirit, and flesh in the world will appear at a corner after persistence.

The difference between a big man and a small person is whether you can persist. If you don't insist, you won't have joy, and you won't have the ability. Persistence, not explosive, is a kind of resilience, and it is often this kind of seemingly thin but staminaful endurance.

When we were in physical education at school, we often used both hands to hang sports. Usually we insisted on doing it for ten minutes on the horizontal bar and felt that we could no longer hold it and jumped safely from the horizontal bar to the ground. But let's imagine that if you are in an unexpected situation, your hands are not holding a horizontal bar 2 meters from the ground, but a wing 500 meters from the ground, you do not know when you can be rescued, So only patiently persist, at this time, maybe you can stick to it for more than an hour. This is the willpower that works.

Edited

People have many limits. Usually, they can't be surpassed. So many people do things. When they are in a difficult time, they give up, just like jumping from the horizontal bar to the ground. In fact, success often occurs when you are still struggling for a while!