Live like a hero

I have a friend who is a student of my college days. I am two years older than me. I graduated earlier than me and now works as a village cadre in a local government. We haven't seen each other for a long time, and the memory pointer still stays at the starting point when we leave.

In the last days of this student era, we met through the video on the computer. In the video, he was still the boy who was passionate about life in school. He still loves to laugh and likes to talk about some humorous and interesting stories. It’s just that between the conversation and the manners, the world’s secular and capable work is revealed. The eyebrows reveal the familiarity with reality. He is still the one I know, but he can hear a lot of hardships from his trivial words. baptism.

From the college days we have experienced together, we talked about the busy life of today's society, from personal eating and drinking to the direction of each other's life. In the face of me who is about to step into the society, he showed a very caring look and asked me what I was going to do next. I told myself my thoughts about the future without reservation.

He admired my literary accomplishments and gave me great encouragement and concern. I smiled and told him that time did not dilute the feelings between us. When I asked him about his future way, he just smiled and shook his head. How can the boss arrange me? What words do you have? There are some vicissitudes in the words, the helplessness in the tone, and the confusion in the eyes.

The dream-seeking teenager who used to be in the air, disappeared from my eyes. Recalling how he used to talk about how to carry out his entrepreneurial career on the stage of the class, how to be confident in front of everyone to fight into the real estate industry in China. But now! He has completely lost the attitude of being unruly and arrogant in school. He has been sharpened by reality, and the veins of time are more and more clear in his face.

I am not surprised. I have become accustomed to all these things. Perhaps this is a journey that most people have to go through along a path of ambiguity, embarking on a path that many people have traveled, and then like them. In the same way, slowly forgetting the vows and dreams that I once had, I have no choice but to rely on memories.

The society is a grand and gorgeous drama. In this drama, everyone carries a mask that they can't tell, and then they can't take it off for a long time, and even forget the one who used to be plain.

In the face of tomorrow, no one can predict what will happen. Even if you know that the road ahead is not good, you must bravely go on. Time will take away the face of youth, and will also take away the comfort and beauty of youth, because this is life.

Regardless of whether the road ahead is bumpy or muddy, we all hope that we will go smoothly. We are all looking forward to having a stable home to live, no longer stormy, bumpy and turbulent, this is human nature.

Time is the fastest moving object in the world, so fast that you will never find its way. When tomorrow becomes today, becomes yesterday, and finally becomes a day that is no longer important in our memory, we find that our young and innocent time has died in a harmonious environment and finally drifted into a lifeless river.

A land without smoke can create an oasis of lake water. A lush green grassland can build Qionglou Yuyu. Any land that seems to be plain and unpredictable can create a new landscape. Life will never be limited to your life. It is only your thoughts that draws the limit line for you.

The comfortable environment is also a stage, a stage without audience. Even without the applause of thunder, we still have to put a halo on ourselves, become the star of the youthful red carpet shining on the glare, and walk on this glowing stage. After all, we are still young and some are capital.

I still have a friend who knows on the Internet. He is a network programmer, only a national high school diploma, but he has a lot of high-paying college students who are dreaming of. I once asked him how he did it. He calmly answered me: it is slowly accumulating bit by bit. This answer seems to be normal but contains many unusual things. I can imagine how the experience in the middle is twists and turns.

According to him, when he found the first job with a monthly salary of only 2,000 yuan, he had thought about whether he would do such a job for a lifetime. After all, this figure is already very good in terms of his academic qualifications. Later, he gave up. When I asked him why he insisted on moving in a higher direction, his tone paused for a while. I thought he wanted to say that the high salary in front of him was attracting him, but this is not the case. His answer is only a short 11 words: In order to get old, there is no regret.

We have all screamed for the ideal of youth in that ignorant age, and have persisted. It is best to be able to realize your dreams. It is not a pity that you can't achieve it. After all, you and I have all been gloriously present on the stage full of competition. Although the final result is that we are all domesticated perfectly by this world, every uncompromising before the last compromise is the most valuable asset. That is the capital for a better life.

The first step to growth is to recognize the diversity of the world, to recognize the beauty of the world, and then to decide to stick to the initial insistence, even knowing that one day I know that I will fall alone in this barren land.

Some people try hard to be satisfied with themselves. Some people try hard to give themselves an account. Maybe we are a small person from beginning to end, but this does not affect what kind of life we ​​continue.

When I was young, I always listened to my mom and dad telling us stories about heroes. Xiang Yu "born as a human being, and died as a ghost". He knew that he had no face to face Jiang Dong’s father, and finally he was a hero. The more Wang Goujian is bitter, the sky is not lost, the salary is daring, and the three thousand is finally swallowed by Wu. He is a hero. Sima Yi faced Zhuge Liang's cynicism, like a Taishan, he did not move, he fought in troubled times, and finally unified the Three Kingdoms. He was also a hero. So many heroes have been with us since we were young, and we have learned a lot from them.

Although we are not heroes, we can always live with a proud goal of becoming a hero. Maybe the goal is like a star in the sky, but it can not be touched, but it can illuminate the direction of the forward.