May all the burdens become a gift of life.

On the Saturday, the MRT, a girl next to her has been on the phone, the whole car is her sobbing voice. She said that she was alone in a foreign land, unaccompanied, looking for work and repeatedly hit the wall, I feel that such a life is meaningless.

I looked at the table when I got to the station. She cried for 35 minutes until I got off the station and she continued. I am thinking: This girl's luck is really good, and she doesn't know who the phone is. How can she endure the temptation of her for so long?

In your opinion, only the world is the hardest and the worst. After a few more years, you will find that everyone will encounter all kinds of difficulties. When you look closer, everyone is bruised and bruised. However, they still smiled and calmly face the world. That's because their hearts have become stronger and they can accept the test of life. Those tests are another form of progress that can teach you how to live in peace with the world and how to protect yourself from injury.

In public, you unscrupulously expose the scars and force people around you to listen to your crying. Let's leave aside others' opinions on you. You are here not far away. Is it to report to your relatives and friends how you suffer? Nothing else besides suffering? Of course not, you came to live a better life and realize your dreams. Before you choose to leave home, you should think that the outside world is not a brick floor. Your beginning is likely to be miserable or painful. When you are ready to go out, you must be mentally prepared and competitive. The world is cruel, you have to bear, tolerate, and to be strong, to force yourself to adapt to everything.

Yes, you are no longer a child, you must learn to face the hardships of life. In fact, what makes us confused or painful is not the thing itself, but our state of mind. You can try to look at the pain from another angle: if you look at it very heavy, it will entangle you all the time, and you can't breathe; if you look at it lightly and lightly, it will disappear. Without a trace, there is no big impact on you.

When people get older, they usually become jealous. They will repeatedly refer to the trivial things that happened in the past. The more times they are, the more profound the memory will be. It seems that only in this way, they will not pass on the past. And forget about things. By the same token, if you constantly emphasize the difficulty of drifting, it will only increase your pain.

When life is alive, who has no hard time? You have suffered bitterly now, and others have eaten it; you are now crying, and others have flowed. So you don't have to show your weakness.

No stranger will come forward to comfort you for no reason; no one who has never met is responsible for handing a pack of paper towels to remind you to pay attention to the image; no one will preach you with a strong heart: children, don't cry, Looking at the world from another angle, you will find that it is actually very beautiful.

When you first enter the society, confusion is indispensable. Now you think that the world is very unfair and that other people's lives are more comfortable than you. If you are alone in a strange city, there is always a feeling of being abandoned. Especially when you see other people and friends walking with your arms around you, your heart is filled with sly smiles, as if you have never bothered. When others relish the joy of work, you will cast an envious look, as if they never worry about finding a job. Look at your good college classmates. Although she is married to other places, she can live happily and sweetly, and you can't help but sigh: I am so lucky, how did she marry such a good man!

In fact, they can live so happy, not because they are more fortunate than you, but because they have experienced everything you feel now before you. They have had hardships, have had pain, just bite their teeth. After coming over, I have the happiness and happiness of today.

It turns out that everyone is the same, there will be one or the other distress, as Schopenhauer said: the essence of all life is distress. Someone asked the Buddha: Why are you worried about the world? Buddha: Just because you don't know yourself.

If you continue to be so decadent and try to tell everyone around you all the bitterness, then you have to be alone forever. This is a vicious circle. The more you immerse yourself in pain and hurt yourself, the more you can't find a breakthrough. Moreover, no one in the world would like to confess to friends like Xianglin, because it is tantamount to treating themselves as garbage bins of each other's emotions.

Let's think about it. We all hope that people around us can share their troubles and bring happiness to themselves. If you can't bring happiness to others, at least don't add trouble to others.

If you look at it with your heart, it is not difficult to find that mature people will only deal with their negative emotions in a proper way so that they will not affect other people.

In the face of years, everyone is weak; under the temper of life, everyone has scars. Everyone will have pain or confusion, but this pain is a gift that life has given us. After the pain, we will cherish happiness and happiness.

Thanks to those scars, thank you for the rough, they taught you how to live in peace with this world.

I hope that all the burdens will become gifts, and the suffering will illuminate the way of the future.