Wisdom of growing choice

The wisdom of growing choices _ text / Sha Yunlong growth is a process of continuous selection, facing the numerous forks of life, everyone must make their own choices. If you choose to be strong, you will give up your cowardice; if you choose to struggle, you will give up your ease; if you choose to be alone, you will give up. In fact, choice is more important than hard work, because choice determines the direction of life and guides the future development. Once the choice is wrong, more efforts will only lead to greater deviation. In a sense, the wisdom of choice is the key to success.
The ten years of "Harvard Girl" Sun Yutong is a decade of stimulating youth and igniting dreams. It is also a decade of understanding and choosing oneself. In this age where most children still know how to dream, Yu Tong's decade has made ten important life choices. These choices are accompanied by hardships and sufferings, risks and challenges, entanglements and struggles, but they have proven to be unquestionably correct again and again. "On the road of growth, there are a few trails with few people, so I will take me to the distance of my dreams." This is the conclusion of Yu Tong, and it is also the place where she succeeded. It is the abandonment of the road that has not been taken, so that Yu Tong chooses The right path for the future. In Yu Tong's mental journey, we can find some answers about the choice.
First, the wisdom of choice lies in persisting in self <br /> We often face dilemmas that we dare not choose or choose. When we are not sure how to choose, we must first ask our own heart, what is your pursuit, and the goal is What, hobby is what. Yu Tong loves the model association. This tidal love and almost obsessive attachment have made her dream and finally proved her choice. Respecting your inner feelings and choosing your true self is the greatest wisdom. With a strong spiritual support, even if there are more hardships, pains and even failures on the road ahead, it will be rain or shine, no regrets, and all the way forward, and will eventually open the door of ideals.

Second, the wisdom of choice lies in decisive abandonment

It is a traditional bright road to learn the established courses, do a good job in the school, and enter Peking University and Tsinghua University for further study. But this choice is not for everyone. Yu Tong is not a child who is "reliable" in the traditional sense. She did not adapt to school life at first. Fortunately, the school, family and life gave her the right to choose and give up. She gave up the adaptation to the traditional curriculum, gave up the road of achievement-oriented, gave up the student union, gave up Amherst, gave up at the right time, although there was Reluctant, regret, but decisive and determined. Choice and giving up always accompany you. Only by rejecting blind obedience, rejecting worries, and giving up decisively, can you have the rewards you have, and you can reap the success you want and harvest your own wonderful.
Third, the wisdom of choice lies in challenging the unknown.
"You always choose a more adventurous road." This is the evaluation of Yu Tong's mother, and it is also the most touching and exciting. The process of ten years of choice is actually a process of constant challenge, constant risk, and constant pursuit of the unknown. Paper-cutting, Olympiad, school magazines, and model associations, which seem to be the choice of swords and slanting choices, seemingly unconnected things, in the time when Yu Tong talks to the interviewees of American famous schools, it seems that they are magically connected in series to build a free and unrestrained The world of the soul. What really touches the interviewer is not the fun of paper-cutting, not the meaning of the model, but the fire of hope in the blood of Yu Tong, the heart of youth who is brave enough to challenge and pursue the unknown. Every fire that comes with courage, fear of pressure, fear of failure, interference from the outside world, and submission to reality often make us hide or even extinguish this kind of fire. Since the times have given us the opportunity to choose more challenges, it is better to let go and taste more unknowns and challenge more possibilities. The unknown world needs more effort and more temper, but it is bound to bring more harvest and more wonderful.
There are many differences in life, and there is no difference. Ten years of wind and rain, Yu Tong's choice of wisdom has realized the transformation of "dreams at Harvard" to "walking into Harvard" and wrote a legend of growth. The author of Yu Tongwen’s "The Road Not Taken" by Robert? Frost also chose the path of loved poetry in his youth, and he was steadfast and persistent, and eventually became one of the most popular American poets of the 20th century. I believe that for every young student, there is a little more wisdom to choose, more to stick to the heart, to respect the self, to persist in self, to challenge themselves, and to finally harvest their own wonderful life.