Swallowed aggrieved, fed a big pattern

How much grievances have been suffered, how much has been done; how much can be borne by the smashing of the grievances; the loneliness of inheritance can be maintained, and the prosperity can be maintained.

If you can treat each humiliation and injury as the nutritious treasure you need to change, you can definitely feed your pattern. Otherwise, after the event has moved, others will only remember the emotions that broke out, but they will not remember the reason, leaving the impression that others are not tolerant enough.

In the workplace, we have not avoided the humiliating choice; however, when humiliation comes, you do not have to fear. As long as you can train yourself, every time you are hurt, you will have the ability to reinvent yourself, you will be able to break through in the workplace, and the humiliation and harm you swallow are worthwhile.

Whoever can swallow more grievances, whoever has the right to speak. When you open the pattern, you can take on tasks that are more important than others. Your boss's trust in you will increase, and what you say will be more weighty.

Greatness is coming out

Greatness is coming out. Why use "熬"?

Because ordinary people can't bear the grievances you have to bear, ordinary people need others to understand comfort and encouragement, but you don't; ordinary people use negative counter blame to vent their emotions, but you must see love and light, learn to transform and digest in any matter; ordinary People need a shoulder to lean on when they are weak, and you are the shoulder that others rely on.

Remember, when you are wronged, it is usually accompanied by a motive force, but this kind of motivation to prove yourself is not like the low-level counterattack revenge of the eight-point local drama.

At the inauguration of former South African President Mandela, Mandela invited him to watch his three prison guards. He said that the years of jail made him learn to control his emotions, and he also learned to deal with the pain caused by suffering, and in the eyes of the public, stood up and expressed his respect for the three jailers.

This move made the people present and the world awe-inspiring. Not only did the South African whites who abused him for many years have no sense of self-confidence, but also showed Mandela's extraordinary temperament and pattern. Who has the right to speak is self-evident.

In the face of grievances, you really don't need to care too much about others' eyes. Just remember and be responsible for yourself forever. Life is alive, destined to suffer a lot of grievances, you have to learn to laugh, you must learn to be detached, you must learn to transform potential energy.

Remember: I am the root of everything. To change everything, first change yourself! Give your dear friends a word: swallowing is a shame, but feeding you is a pattern of yours, what kind of grievances you have suffered, and deciding who you can be.