The disadvantage is the advantage of malnutrition

One teenager thinks that his biggest shortcoming is timidity. For this reason, he is very inferior. Without friends, he often feels that his future has no hope.

One day, the teenager took the courage to see a psychiatrist. After listening to his stuttering statement, the doctor took his hand and smiled and said, "How is this a shortcoming? It is an advantage! You are only very cautious, and the cautious person is always very reliable, very "There is less confusion." When the teenager heard the psychiatrist say this, he was somewhat confused: "So, braveness has become a disadvantage?" The doctor shook his head: "No, caution is an advantage, and bravery is another advantage. It's just that people pay more attention to the advantages of bravery, just as silver is more focused on gold than gold. ”

After listening to the teenager, she was quite relieved and her brows were stretched.

The doctor asked the teenager again: "Do you like Luo Wei?" The teenager said: "I don't like it." The doctor said: "But if you read Balzac's novel, you will find that this great writer is very arrogant, he Often a room, a small scene, mother-in-law talks endlessly. But if you eliminate these, it is not Balzac's novel, can you say that it must be Balzac's shortcoming?"

The teenager smiled.

The doctor asked again: "Do you hate alcoholics?" The teenager said: "Of course." The doctor said: "Is Li Bai not a drunkard?" The boy interrupted the doctor's words: "No! Like Tao Yuanming, he is a poet who loves to drink. 'Li Baidou wine poetry hundred articles'!" The doctor applauded and smiled: "Yes! I agree with your point of view, you mean to say - the disadvantages in different people, will present different colors: some alcoholic, just a Alcohol, and Li Bai is a poetry who lives in the wine."

The doctor went on to say: "The so-called shortcomings are at best a malnutrition. If you are a warrior, timidity is obviously a disadvantage; if you are a driver, timidity is definitely an advantage. You are not as good as it is to overcome timidity. Trying to increase your knowledge and talents, when you have more knowledge and a broader perspective, even if you want to be a coward, it is very difficult."