Have you ever regretted your college life by clicking on a million repentance stickers?

1. Those years, the regret we caused

"Classmates, I am a senior," this is the beginning of "repenting inspirational posts." The year of seniors seems to be a watershed in college life. Students who have studied and lived together are heading to different lives here. It is also standing on this watershed. Many college students have reviewed the past three and a half years of college life and found that they have left a lot of regrets unconsciously: they did not study hard, did not go out to travel, did not lose weight successfully, Didn't talk about a love...

A regret: the junior began to read

“I started to read a lot of books in my junior year.” Huang, an administrative student in the South China Agricultural University, has already regretted from the third year. “The more you read, the more you will find that you need to read more books. Why did you come to the book when you were a junior?" What she regrets is that the university did not devote its enthusiasm to the academics as envisioned when she first entered the university. "It depends on the individual's criteria for studying students." She said that if she only looks at the grade point, her Academic research is not bad, but if you look at what you really learned, then academics will become a big regret for four years of college.

Two regrets: skip class playing games in the dormitory

For A Qiang of the Chinese Language Institute of Jinan University, the regret seems to have started after entering this profession. "There are no buddies in peacetime. There are things that can't be found, no one knows about themselves." A Qiang’s professional male-female ratio is too wide. There are only four male students at the whole level. “I feel very helpless.” A Qiang once had a crush on online games for a while, and even skipped classes to play games in the dormitory. “It’s definitely not good to play too much.” He said that he would warn the younger brothers and sisters to play games to control.

Three regrets: “When you are shy in your resume”

"I will regret it before, but the most concentrated and most intense feeling is when I am doing my resume." Su, a senior in his class, told reporters that he found no way in his practical experience in writing resumes, school activities, skills and other skills. At the time of writing, the feeling of remorse accumulated in the university for four years was blown out at that moment. "I really feel that the university is white, and I will be awkward in my heart, 'You see what you are doing', and then seriously think about it, and found that I really don't know what I am doing."

Many students, like Su, waited until they showed the results and accumulation of the university for four years, only to find that they were empty-handed, shy and empty, and left a remorse. A Qiang said that when he graduated, he discovered that his professional knowledge is not too hard, and it is not satisfactory to communicate with others. "If you realize it before, you will change, not now."

2. Who moved my college life?

"In fact, when I first entered the university, I didn't want to do this." In the process of interviewing reporters, many students talked about the regrets of the university when they started with such a sentence. Some people ridiculed that when they first entered the university, they all saw the road. When they reached the end, they discovered that no matter which one they choose to start, all the roads are one way. From the initial good expectations to the ultimate regret and remorse, what went wrong in the middle?

I can get a diploma when I am mixed, how can I study hard?

"Now the university is 'narrow and wide', and the high school sharpened its head and squeezed it in. In the loose environment of the university, the whole person will be scattered, and the diploma will be able to get a diploma. "Mr. Liu is a college teacher. She said that she can often see the style of college students under the contemporary education system in the classroom. "Playing with mobile phones, sleeping, sleeping, reading books, and reading words are daring." ".

Many people will not be able to taste the "sweetness" after they work hard.

In the eyes of Huang, the education system is only a superficial reason. The fundamental reason is the limitation of society and the lack of correct guidance. "The whole social environment is like this. It is believed that only good reading can make a difference, and students' values ​​and personality are distorted. "". She said that not everyone is suitable for study and study. Many people still can't taste the "sweetness" after their efforts. Without a sense of accomplishment, they will abandon themselves and break their cans. "Many students use learning to measure whether their college life is good or not. There is no vain, this 'good' is what others expect, not necessarily all they want."

Huang said that the reason why there are regrets is that the individual has not found his own goal in the university and positioned himself. "Many people are afraid to try, so they will be discouraged and frustrated if they cannot get through."

People who come over say: Do more things that are of interest to you.

The fourth year is a blowout period of regret and regret. In this regard, Teacher Li of Jinan University explained that when the seniors are piled up together in love, work, and ideals, the psychological load of the students is too large for a certain period of time. "Usually, we don't pay attention to what we get, but we magnify what we don't get." Teacher Li believes that regret and regret is a normal mood. Schools should actively guide students to understand "what is worth pursuing." At the same time, the students' academic regrets are reduced from the teaching level.

"In college, many courses are unreasonable, and some courses are very boring." Zeng students suggested that the younger brothers and sisters should use these hours to do something they are interested in. "If you are interested in history, you can look at this a little more." Books on the side; if you are interested in research, you can do research with the teacher, and in general, don't waste some courses."

When talking about how to coordinate academic and social experience, Teacher Li said that students should consider themselves and learn a little more useful things for themselves. "You can't read dead books, you have no use, you haven't learned, you don't understand society." Transformation and development."