There is an effort to chase the life you like.

Whether you live a happy or not is not how much you have a salary or how much external value added. It is more about your inner needs.

Because, the life you like, not what you want, but the love of life from the heart, love everything you have.

Y is a friend of mine. Before she left Beijing, we had shared the lease for a while.

At that time, we talked about music, anime and movies together. In the summer, we would go downstairs to drink beer, occasionally eat our own meals, and of course share the books we like to read.

In my impression, Y is a person who is extremely comfortable and always lives in the pursuit of the most comfortable posture.

Seeing Y for the first time, she just started to store her hair. It is reasonable to say that girls should have a feminine long hair, but Y seems to have a feeling of an unidentified rock young woman. She doesn't have bangs, her hair is combed casually behind her head, revealing a full white forehead, and then tie a small pimple, naturally to informal. After familiarity, she found that she wore clothes and jeans, and she was black, white and gray.

Y character is quiet, so I really can't think she would like rock. If she is not obsessed with participating in major music festivals, Xu Wei concerts and Mayday concerts, I will never know that she still has such a strong love. After all, the Y in life is faint.

In the summer of 2019, there was a concert at the Bird's Nest in May. Y was going to go early, and he had a good time, but he still couldn’t buy a ticket. On the afternoon of the concert, she told me: "If you can meet the ox, buy a ticket. If not, just turn around."

Then she wore sneakers and carried the door with a diagonal canvas bag. I was lying in bed alone, and spent a night in boredom.

Y felt very lucky because he met the ox. She bought the ticket for 300 yuan, but at the ticket gate, the staff told her that the ticket was fake and could not enter. She wanted to argue about it, but she retired silently, letting people behind her check in.

She stood outside the nest and listened to Ashin, monsters, stones, Martha, and crowned them to sing. A wall seems to separate two worlds.

She was very excited when she came back that day. I couldn't help but say to me: "I am still very lucky. At the end of the game, the ticket seller put me in. I thought I couldn't hear the concert. I didn't expect to hear the sound outside, let alone I used a piece. The fake ticket went in, is it very powerful!"

In fact, we all know that Y just stood in the stands far away and saw the figure of May in the sky. But her happiness is so real, infecting me who has been tied up by ordinary life. If you chase anything, try to chase, indulge in love, and devote yourself wholeheartedly. Fifty years of sadness, but can usher in a hundred percent of happiness. This may be the first philosophy of life that Y passed to me.

Y always has great enthusiasm for things he likes. I can pull me from east to west and pass through the city. The two people talked insanely, as if they were fearless about the world.

Knowing Y is still in March of 2019, she went to work in a magazine. Y was a book editor at a book publishing company before, and the office was with us in a community, but I have never seen her. The house sex can be seen.

After becoming a colleague, it was not long before we shared a living room together. 500 yuan, can live in a large house, very satisfied with us at the time. But in the summer, we always have to hang the curtains to rest, and we have to go to the bathroom when we change clothes, because the girl who stays in the bedroom occasionally lets her boyfriend come to live. But these inconveniences have not consumed the happiness of our joint rent.

Another big hobby of Y is to watch anime. Look at the comic version first, then chase the film version. The favorite anime is "Gintama", "One Piece" and "The Daily Life of Men's High School Students".

We lived in the large, sloppy living room on the sixth floor, and the beds were placed on either side of the east and west, with a great distance between them. When you talk about the occasion, you have to speak in a slightly larger voice than usual.

Once, I talked to Y about the animation that was very impressive in my childhood, and I talked about "Saint Seiya" and "Slam Dunk". The favorite character of Y in "Slam Dunk" is Mitsui Shou, the three-pointer shooter. "After he returned to the team, he became very clean and generous. Ansi coach should be very happy. After all, it would be a very big skill to let a person's prodigal son turn back. Ansi coach is also very powerful." She said.

Y does not have a strong desire for life, she likes to live quietly. Not in a hurry, not crowded, don't be too confused. Listen to music, love anime, watch movies, everything is just fine.

She does not pursue a high quality of life, but more is the satisfaction of inner freedom.

Later, Y moved to Haidian District, and we need to make an appointment in advance. During that time, we will all go to watch drama, movies or reading. In this regard, she also said: "The locations we meet are very interesting. The topics that are clearly talked about are very clear, but there are always noisy and crowded places like McDonald's, Grilled Wings, and Mala Tang." She continued to laugh. It is said that we should not choose a coffee shop or book to talk about these things? But every time I didn't do it.

In fact, since you already have someone who is sitting in the coffee shop and talking about things, then it is a special point. Let's talk to each other at the bridge rice noodle shop, "How do you write a manuscript? What do you think of this movie?" There are only one such friends and they don't need a lot.

Y later left Beijing, she likes a more free and comfortable life, or a rhythm that is not tight and not fast. She went to a seaside city and continued to edit. There, walking, watching the sea, climbing the mountain, taking pictures, and sleeping deeply.

I went to see her on New Year's Day. Two people eat Korean food, watch movies, sing, watch snow, and still talk a lot about things, like never separated.

Y is always free and chooses what he likes best.

She lived the way she wanted, no obsession, no struggle, everything seemed to be cloudless.

I think this is the different philosophy of life for everyone, what do you want, and what to pursue. Regarding the universal values, it is not the pursuit of all people to make a name for themselves, fame and fortune.

For Y, she has been working hard to chase a more like life. Who can say that this is not an ideal?