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There is a feeling called "small hair"


In the process of growing up, many people will have such "small hair". They are either your kindergarten, the most intimate classmates of the national family or the "dead party", or you can catch and hide together with you through a wall when you are young. Let's go swimming together, and play with cats and dogs...

Small hair, is a combination of eating, is a popsicle turns 舔, a handful of melon seeds;

They are people who have never called each other's names, and who are always called nicknames;

That is, no matter what good or bad things are, the person who will always give you a letter of advice;

No matter whether you are a big official, a small amount of money, and a small amount of money, you will continue to count on you when you meet, but you have no temper;

It is usually not seen for many years, but the meeting is not a bit of a point, just like an old acquaintance, there is nothing to talk about.

The friendship between "small and small" is often no less than the feelings between brothers and sisters.

When you are an adult, these "small hairs" may become friends you have nothing to talk about, and the time spent together is even more than the time spent with your family. When you are with them, you can never be fortified and open your heart without any scruples.

When you are depressed, sad, and painful, they often become the best object for you to talk to, because they know you better, know how to comfort you, persuade you, and get sad with you.

When you are successful, happy, and happy, they will "catch the crown" with you, clap your congratulations, and be happy with you. Those drunks who are still on the streets after midnight, who drink five or six, may be a group of "small".

In today's society, under the temptation of power status and the impact of economic interests, the interaction between people has become more and more complicated, and it has become more and more sophisticated and utilitarian.

The relationship between relatives is unknowingly alienated. There is a gap between friends in the "people's heart separated from the belly". When the students get together, they often consciously and unconsciously compete with the "mixed". Colleagues inevitably struggle in the workplace. It makes people feel "not motivated".

For urban people who are under tremendous pressure from work and life, the ubiquitous sense of alienation makes them more need to “small” to compensate for the lack of intimacy. The friendship of "small hair" under childhood is often less utilitarian and more caring; less cautious, more relaxed; less polite, more casual, this pure, sincere "small" friendship, let People feel more practical, caring and safer. In the face of "small hair", people tend to be more likely to return to their true self.

In today's cities, there are more high-rise buildings, and the distance between people and people is far away. The chances of becoming "small" are also less. In that year, a large courtyard and a row of bungalows lived next to each other. My family had dumplings and sent them to a plate. Your home cooked broth sent a bowl of things less and less.

As the number of friends, classmates and colleagues walking around the door is getting less and less, and then look at the neighbors who have lived in a unit for many years but don’t know the name unit and never go, they can’t help but miss the time to “pee and play with mud”. "The little partner is coming."

"When a little pear falls on the side of the body, when the drizzle drops on the cheeks, when the autumn wind blows into the hair, when the snow flakes into the eyes, we have gone through countless spring, summer, autumn and winter, and people are middle-aged. I know that everything about me is closely related to you. I can't live without you..." A piece of text describing "small hair" has moved my heart more than once, let me know: there is such a friend in the world, no matter how far apart. Far, no matter how long I have not seen, I can accompany each other until I am old.

Because, we are "small."

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