The flatness you pursue is actually mediocrity

Less than a year after graduation, a single friend who was a student said that he would get married soon. After the graduation, she did not find a suitable job. After meeting her boyfriend, the family members felt that the conditions were good, and they urged to get married soon. She also resisted, but was beaten by the people around me, "What kind of career does the girl want, and people don't count on your salary?" Finally, they succumbed and prepared to be a full-time housewife, sighing: "I am like this. ”

Marriage is of course good, but regardless of love, at least want to be willing? The gray message that "has been like this" is quite helpless. Think about it carefully, this sentence is probably the life of many people. What is particularly regrettable is that this kind of mentality is not lacking in the market among many new people, that is, university graduates. When I first entered the society, I was pressured by various parties. Some of them would be hit by walls and be hurt by various external concepts. So some people began to comfort themselves. Most of them are ordinary people, telling them that "it is plain." true". If you haven’t experienced the world, you will be sharpened and sharp. If you don’t arrive, you will be full of the decline and fatigue of the late years. These “old young people” are embarrassing.

The mentality of "this is the case" seems to be on the surface with the mausoleum and the peace, the peace of the water and the peace of the world, and the uncontested detachment of the world, in fact, is the inertia and cowardly submission. There are many people around me. When you are a student, you can still get your graduation certificate and degree certificate. You can use the square inch mobile phone as the world of life, and fold the good youth into a collateral of online novels and TV dramas. I am also convinced that "I am mys after all, it is not my way of fighting for it and I can't get it". I have a perfunctory attitude towards work, and I have no meaning in the meaninglessness and consumption.

Known as calm and calm, but it is always inaction; self-righteousness is easy to follow, but I do not know that it has been drifting. So, is that the case? Twenty or thirty years old, it is the good age of dreams. The experience and accumulation of this period is the cornerstone of the entire life building. In this crucial period, I choose to compromise with myself, to cope with the ease of the eyes, to forget the passion, courage, and responsibility of these youthful keywords. I don’t think about making progress, and I am comfortable with a life like this. It is a great burden to life. .

Of course, there are more people around us who don’t want to be “like this.” They will always keep the passion they are pursuing, and strive to keep their lives alive. A few days ago, I heard that college students ignored the opposition of family and friends and quit their positions that seemed to be decent and stable in the eyes of everyone. When we chose to go to postgraduate entrance examination, we were all puzzled. The students explained: "I don't want to see this at first glance. In the end, it’s better to be young, to try the capital, to do what I really like to do.” Not long ago, a resignation letter from the female teacher “The world is so big, I want to see it” Its fascination is nothing more than the fact that female teachers do not compromise with the present, and dare to live with the spirit of ordinary life.

It is self-sufficient and self-sufficient. This is the state that young people should have.

Haizi said: "When you come to the world, you have to look at the sun." Younger, you must have a dream, not to be "just like this." Think more, learn more, what you experience will be transformed into the energy you will burst in the future. Taking advantage of the great years, increasing the thickness of life and broadening the capacity of life, I have waited for the young head and increased my sigh.

Plainness is the indifferent after the world, and it is the realm of life that can only be achieved after the smashing of the extreme. The so-called inaction of young people can only be the mediocrity of pushing life into a dead end. There will always be a broader world beyond the eyes, great youth, don't be like this!