Yu Minhong: Three forces

Yu Minhong: Three forces

The river of life has different directions, but all have the same desire, that is, hope that life can travel far, and that it can go through thousands of miles and rushing forward. Everyone has a day of birth, and there is also a day when life ends. There is not much difference between the beginning and the end of all life. Therefore, the most important thing in life is how to go from birth to death, how to live a wonderful and successful life. This journey proves that you have a different life than others and have different wonderful life in the same time and space.

I have been trying to see through the nature of my career, in order to gain the power of life. I have experienced countless times of lost and lost, thousands of turns back in the thick fog, finally wake up after repeated stupid mistakes. After counting the lives of the past few decades, I found that three forces played an important role in the growth of my life.

The first force is the power to bear. The power that bears is the ability to accept all suffering and failure in life. The most common way we fight against fate is to complain, but complaining is a poison that only makes ourselves more and more pitiful. As long as people are alive, suffering and failure will come anywhere, anytime. I have been filled with complaints and resentment in my heart: Why do my parents have nothing? Why did I fail to pass the university again and again? Why do I get tuberculosis that people hate? Why did I be remembered and punished when I went out to teach? Why do I have to drink myself several times to get a school license? But then I found out that all these complaints have no meaning other than to prove that they are incompetent. One day I finally want to understand that since suffering and failure are inevitable, is there any better way than accepting everything that happens in life? Helen Keller accepted the reality of his blindness, and Hawking accepted his own embarrassing reality. Sima Qian accepted the reality of his imprisonment. After accepting the reality, they still do not give up the pursuit and achieve a different life. When you accept the suffering and failure in your life, your heart suddenly becomes like a calm lake, and you can see the blue sky and the white clouds, and your heart becomes unhindered and dust-free.

The second force is the power of struggle and effort. One of the most important spirits of man is to believe that struggle and hard work can change lives. We often discuss the issue of destiny and complain about why we were not born in a wealthy home, why we must start from nothing. But sometimes it’s not a good thing to have something for no reason. If the parents of Yaojiaxin are poor, they will not buy a car for him. If they don’t buy a car, they won’t hit people. If they don’t hit people, they won’t be savage. If they don’t die, they won’t go to the guillotine. The hand of destiny is interlocking. Some things may not change: we can't change our birth conditions, and we can't change our looks and height. But we should firmly believe that struggle and hard work are the most important forces to change our destiny. I am very glad that I have come all the way. Although I have walked, I never gave up. Everything I gained in my life proved the power of struggle and hard work. We may not have good luck, we can't step on the Qingyun, but through struggle and hard work, we can certainly create some inevitable achievements. From a farmer to a college student, from an incomplete person to an accredited teacher, from nothing to a listed company, I am here, and the sweat of struggle and hard work is everywhere. I believe in the power of struggle.

The third force is the power to help others and to be good. We have found that many people trample on others to climb up for their own success at all costs. They achieved their goal of making a fortune by making a slap in the face, smashing arrows, smashing and smashing. There are often young student cadres in colleges who do everything they need for small powers. They think this is the means to succeed in their own lives in the future. Fortunately, we are gratified that those who gain their utilitarianism at the expense of others' sacrifices often do not end well. I believe that the world is a mirror, the outside of the mirror is you, the mirror is someone else and society: you laugh at the people in the mirror, he will smile at you; you add to the people in the mirror, he will definitely You add up your fists. Success requires the help of others, and the only way to get help from others is to help others first. Helping others and being good is the power that everyone has, and you don't need any cost investment. You can use this power anytime and anywhere to form a positive atmosphere in your life and put yourself in a peaceful relationship. growing up. No matter how many times you have been deceived, how many times you have been concealed, how many times you have betrayed, please be sure that most of the world is a good person. Remember, there is an inexhaustible force in you, that is, "the power to be nice"--the power to help others and to be good.

When we can control these three forces, we will face it calmly when we encounter suffering and failure. We believe that struggle and hard work can change the status quo when life is not good. When we enter society, we can help others with a kind heart. The success of life will not be too far. Everyone's life path is different, and the achievements they create are unique, but the power of life can be the same. These forces allow us to install the engine of life and fly to any piece we want to reach. sky.