Inspirational life: What blocks you from success and happiness

Inspirational life: What blocks you from success and happiness

Change your attitude, happiness and success will appear in front of your eyes.

Many times, we always complain that others don't support us. The reality is very unfriendly to us. For example, knowing that a colleague has blocked myself, that the leader has no Bole's vision, and that the opportunity is not willing to patronize himself. Blaming all this has caused our failure today. But if we think about it, is that the case?

If we analyze it with our heart, we will find that it is just that we are ridding ourselves, hindering our success is not others and objective conditions, but the most important thing is our own. You think about what you are doing, weakness prevents you from moving forward, inferiority blocks the wings of your thinking flying, self-deception blocks the voice of your heart calling, hypocrisy blocks the eyes of your communication world, narrowly blocks you Entering the path of the vast world, laziness blocks the power to ignite your life, giving up the opportunity to shake your handshake with success... In short, you ruin yourself and blame others. Is it not?

A senior psychiatrist named Engel wrote a Chinese translation of "The Only" after retirement. This is a book devoted to healing mental illness. The book describes more than 3,000 treatments and 10,000 different drugs. However, he said in a speech that all the contents of his book can be summarized by only four words, namely "if" and "next".

He explained that the words "if" are caused by people's mental consumption and suffering. For example, "If I am admitted to college", "If I don't give up in the past", "If I was rushing back", "If I could change jobs at the beginning"... For all these "if", heal There are thousands of methods, but there is only one way to do the most: just replace "if" with "next" - "I will have a chance to work hard next time", "I will never give up next time"...

Changing "if" to "next" is not a simple change of word, but a change of "attitude". "If" reveals only negative, even lazy attitude, it will not be of much benefit to the future. The same thing will come with "if" to congest it; and "next" reveals positive and progressive. Attitudes and prospects are good prospects for the future and will benefit the NPC. In fact, happiness and success are not far away, just because we do not have a positive attitude. Changing "if" to "next" changes your attitude, happiness and success will appear in front of your eyes.

In fact, failure is often not because we do not have such strength, but because of our attitude and psychological barriers.

To defeat yourself is to defeat everything. No matter how ignorant or childish you are, just study and explore with your heart, and one day you will become more knowledgeable. No matter what kind of failure you encounter today, as long as you don’t give up on yourself, stand up again, gather the courage to move forward, and rush towards the ideal endlessly, victory must belong to you!

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