Inspirational article: Who stole my dreams?

Inspirational article: Who stole my dreams?

We all know that successful people are people who have dreams. If you look at celebrity biographies, you will find that those great people have great dreams from a very young age, because they dare to do it, so they have achieved A great career. But why can't most people, like us, be as successful as they are? Is it that we have no dreams since we were young? No, we have our own dreams from a young age, but we lost our dreams as we grew up. So who stole our dreams?
The first person to steal our dreams is our parents. When we were young, we had a lot of dreams: to become scientists, musicians, sports stars... but our parents always remind us to be down-to-earth, not to dream daydreams, because "we have never had any scientists or musicians on our ancestors. Sports stars, our family does not have that genetic gene." Our parents have only one dream, that is, let us study hard, and take a good university in the future, find a good job, and spend this life peacefully. Therefore, in our growth process, in addition to learning, all dreams will be seen as a childish, immature performance by parents. They will try to let us go according to their established route, and we must not believe in the cause. In this way, some of our childhood dreams were stolen by the parents’ minds. Now, some of our parents who are already parents are stealing our children’s dreams just like our parents are stealing our children’s dreams. We don’t let them think about it, and strictly demand that they learn every day and eventually The result is to train them into people like us.
The second person to steal our dreams is our teacher. From the time we went to kindergarten, we often had some novel ideas, and we also tried some things according to our own ideas. I remember when I was a child, my sister went to the middle school. At that time, she began to learn English. Every day I read ABCD, I recited words every day. I also became interested in English. So I followed her ABCD every day, and I was still a little smart. So my sister learned to teach me a little, so basically she will be there. Because I am small, I like to show off. I often show the English that I learned in front of my classmates. After I know the teacher, I don’t encourage me to pour cold water on me. I don’t know how to learn English in English, which means that the road is still gone. I want to run if I am unstable. At the beginning, I didn’t care as much as he did, and I continued to follow my sister’s studies. But then the teacher not only poured cold water, but also criticized me in front of the class, treating me as a negative example, so that the whole class should not be like I am so tall and far-reaching, and tell me very seriously: If you continue this way, there will be no future in the future! So, from then on, I broke the idea of ​​learning English, and honestly learned the pinyin according to the teacher's request, until I really went to middle school, I also couldn't interest the English, and the college entrance examination was also lost in English. on.
The third person who stole our dreams is our friend. Everyone has their own circle of friends, which are both positive and negative. We have an old saying in China. Nearly Zhu is close to the black. In fact, this is also true. Positive people are like where the sun shines. Negative people are different from the first fifteenth of the moon. Often like the active people, you will also work hard, often with negative people, you will naturally be depressed. Maybe one day, you have a good idea or idea. You can also say that you can change your life. So you can't wait to disclose it with your own friends. But he said, "No, I can't see you," you ask. Why is he, he will say, "I know you too well. Things like this are not done by our people. So why are you doing it? Why do you have to pay for that god?" You said, "This time I made up my mind, not to It can't be done. He will say, "Save it for you, you can really do it. I will cut my head and give it to you as a ball!" When you return home, you will seriously think about it. We are friends who grew up together. He knows me very well. He dares to bet that if I become able to cut my head and kick it as a ball, it seems that I may not really be able to do it, then forget it. Don’t get it when you hit it. People laugh. So your dream was stolen by him.
In fact, the biggest thief who steals our dreams is our own. Before we step into the society, we still have our own dreams. After entering the society, we will find that there is still a big gap between dreams and reality. This distance is so far away, it seems out of reach, although We will start to work hard to fight hard, but when our efforts fail again and again, our dreams will be ruthlessly crushed by the real hammer. Of course, there are two kinds of people, one is more and more frustrated, and finally realizes the dream to success; one is getting depressed, and finally gives up the dream to die. Some people give their own goals when they go to school to become the world's richest man. But when they enter the society, it is not easy to find the world's richest man. Therefore, lowering the standard has become the richest man in China. It is difficult to find the richest man in China after participating in the work. Lowering the standard has become the richest man in Hubei. After working for a few years, it is difficult to become the richest man in Hubei. I have to lower the standard and become the richest man in Wuhan. I finally found that becoming the richest man in Wuhan, even if it is the richest person in the unit, it is not easy. Tell yourself that it is still a bit more realistic. As long as you are not laid off, you can get the basic salary on time, and you will comfort yourself: people, to be content, you see that I am much better than those who eat low-income!
Analysis of the reasons for our lost dreams are as follows: First, the goal is not clear. If we lack sufficient and clear understanding of ourselves, we don’t know what kind of goal we should set. It may be an idea today. Ideas may also produce some unrealistic ideas, so although we work hard to fight for it, dreams cannot be realized because the goals are not clear or the ability is too limited. Second, the will is not firm. Although we know that we have set a clear goal for ourselves, we will not do anything very easy. There will be many ups and downs on the ladder to success. Just like Tang Yan’s path of learning, there will be many difficulties waiting for us. If our will is not firm enough, it will soon be defeated in the face of successive blows and endless difficulties. Third, the path is not correct. Although we have very clear goals and strong enough will, if we choose the wrong path, we may work harder and farther away from our goal, so in the process of pursuing our dreams, Not only must you always motivate yourself, adjust your own mentality, but also pay attention to adjusting the direction at all times, do not let your footprints deviate from the track, and do not let your own efforts go into the water.

I am a sports fan. I often watch sports games. I have seen more. I found that during the interviews after the end of each game, the third-place champion’s words have certain rules. The champions are always excited and feel that their efforts have been In return, my dreams have been fulfilled. I want to thank all those who care, care for and help them. The runners-up and runner-ups often regret that I could be a champion, but because the venue is not suitable today, the weather is not good, the referee Unfair...so failed, and few people admit that their skills are not as good as people. Football kicks won't win because we started late and basketball won't win because our physical fitness is not good. Track and field is not winning because our Orientals have weak explosiveness and endurance... We are always looking for excuses for our own failures - this is The fundamental reasons why some sports in our country have not regressed for so many years.
“Successful people never complain, complainers never succeed.” To change the fate of themselves and the family, we must keep this in mind from now on, never be influenced by negative thoughts and speeches, and tell ourselves every day. : You are the best, you can do it, so that our dreams will not be lost, and our goals can be achieved!