I have been fighting for 18 years, not to drink coffee with you.

I have been fighting for 18 years, not to drink coffee with you.

Three years ago, a piece of wheat "I spent 18 years sitting with you to drink coffee" caused much resonance. After 18 years of struggle, a farmer’s son got the right to sit on the same level as his peers in the metropolis. A true portrayal of people. However, after three years, I suddenly realized that he said it too early. What about 18 years? Even with the rich years, I still can't sit down with you for coffee.
That year, I was 25, countless Zhaoxing Nightingales, in exchange for a master's degree, the forehead of the forehead was exceptionally obvious, but the foot did not dare to stop half a step. If you don't want your account to be returned to your hometown, your sons and grandchildren will be infinitely eager to find a job in Beijing. What about you? You are not in a hurry, World of Warcraft and Red Alert? I am tired of playing early! You are ambitiously planning the famous "starting business". At that time, Li Yanhong, Chen Tianqiao, Zhou Yunfan, the cattle people have not yet turned out, Baidu, Google, perfect time and space is a distant term, but youth can be invincible, you build a distribution website on campus, recruiting troops with great fanfare, large and small media Reporters flocked. The 334 bedroom was quickly famous in the whole building. The little girls sent pink paper from the north of the sky. They admired and wrote: "I know your wonderful story from the newspaper..." I got up, climbed the top of the building and blew. You turned to me and danced to take care of your own voice, brother, how about making a fortune together?
Ok, unfortunately, I can't. Starting a business with you, you can enter and retreat to attack and defend the game. The start-up funds are supported by three aunts and six squads. Even if you return to your feathers, your parents’ three-bedroom, warm stove will never fail. Failure to me means that it is difficult to cover the water. Every summer, in order to save three or five hundred dollars of machine money, Yan Niang is going to harvest 5 acres of farmland under the big sun with her lumbar muscle strain. I finished my first interview in a borrowed suit and wore a borrowed watch for the first date with my beloved girl. When you got the first investment and excitedly reported the whole class, I calmly traveled through most of Beijing City to do the last tutor. Yes, "this work is technically low," but before the first month's wages were issued, the land and rations I rented were all maintained by it.
Not long after, the Internet has experienced a cold spell, and you are also excited about entrepreneurship, into a state-owned communications company, I was hired by a foreign company. Sitting in the sky, I was so stupid that I thought of pulling back a game. The salary on the bright side, I am more than one, more than 8,000 after tax, a 5 star hotel on a business trip, 10 days of paid vacation a year. Working hard like a life, I firmly believe that there will be a fairy-tale ending in a few years, "to live a happy life with the princess."
The good times are not long, and soon I understand why everyone says that white-collar workers are swearing words. The package of the office building is priced at 35, and almost no one cares about it. At lunch time, the most sought-after is the microwave oven at the corner of each layer. The "white-collar workers" carry the lunch boxes and queue up a long queue. Later, the property allowed the fast-food company to stay, and there was a grand occasion of “Thousands of people waiting in line for Lihua”. Those who have entered nearly 10,000 these months have saved the level of the door. A colleague, 10 yuan of cold medicines are looking for insurance companies to pay claims; the other, spent 3 hours in the messy railway station, in order to return to the hospital after 18:00 can get 150 yuan for dinner subsidies.
This scene of the comedy did not make me laugh, I can understand, every number is condensed with overtime and suffocating; the bow and the ear are stripped by the boss, in order to build a small nest of one square meter and one square meter. The process of starting from scratch is a long and arduous process. For three years, I have not taken a long vacation and have never eaten a duck neck. I heard that the news that Huawei’s 25-year-old employee Hu Xinyu was overworked was not surprised. The phenomenon of youth exchange of silver is too common in this industry. Next time, when you see a group of people in the field wearing a suit and squatting on the IBM notebook and trying to squeeze the 4 cents bus, don't be surprised, we are a group of IT laborers.
The only thing that is gratifying is that we are close to the ideal goal.
Suddenly, your good news falls from the sky: invite everyone to go to the new home warm room on weekends. How can it be? Are you faster than me? More than 100 square meters of bright, red apple furniture, 37-inch LCD large color TV is unquestionably placed in front of you. You understated that the old man gave 100,000, and her family gave 100,000. The old urging us to get married... On the way home, my girlfriend is not talking, she is like me, from the unknown mountain city. I took her shoulders and encouraged her to encourage herself. It doesn't matter, we take time to change space.
Honeymoon, you have spent half a year in Hong Kong, and it’s not easy to say that it’s not very big. It’s not as beautiful as it was on TVB TV. My wedding is a parade in the hometown’s dirt roads and folks. In the low and dark old house, I worshipped the world and fell in love with my lover on the cold bandits. Fortunately, after many years, the bleak picture turned into a radiant picture of his wife's blog. She recalled: "There is heaven in places where there is love."
We all want to give heaven to the girl we love, and the meaning of heaven is very different. Your wife became a full-time wife, and used the eDonkey to download "Friends" and "Prison Break" every day; I also want to do this, my wife does not agree, you raise me, who raises my parents? I can't bear to let you raise 7 people alone. When your girl comfortably lifts her feet with Clinique mask, my girl fights stubbornly in the sea.
Two people make money much faster. By the end of 2004, we also reached the first 100,000 in life. Who knows that China's property market was awakened by the devil at this time, and the tsunami rushed into and destroyed all the weak and weak individuals. In March 2005, the down payment was enough to buy the Xicheng of the West Fourth Ring. By July, it was only possible to go to the South City to sweep the building. Our savings could have bought two houses of 90 square meters. In mid-September, just over the past two months, we only bought more than 80 square meters.
Haven't learned the principles of economics? It's ok. Life vividly explains what is the asset bubble and the proliferation of liquidity. At this time, the experts jumped out to speak. "Beijing house prices should drop by 30%, and Shanghai house prices should drop by 40%." Otherwise, wait? I almost lived in the empty camp of Wenteng. You stood up and pointed out the maze: Buy it quickly and the house price will rise. The message of buying a house was sent back to the hometown, and the mother-in-law was arrogant: it was enough for us to live for half a year. In their view, 7500 yuan a square meter is an incredible sky-high price. Three years later, in 2008, the younger brothers sighed, and you earned a lot of money. The average price in the fourth ring is 14,000. There is no building to buy.
A few days ago, I saw a message on Shuimu. I was quite impressed: "It’s really hard to buy a house for 5 years. 2003 is the time of the downturn and depression of the property market. Waiting until today, it’s not just the gold property market, but also The whole life."
I really want to thank you. When I don’t know what to do with financial management, you tell me early what is consumption and what is investment.
Not everyone has a vision of foresight and investment. Many of the brothers who came from small places and only knew how to work hard, too much attention to the wheat fields under their feet, so that they missed a starry sky. Your theory is that making money is for spending, only to increase value in circulation, to buy favorite goods, to make life happy. And my peasant brothers - here specifically refers to the brothers who stayed in the big cities after they graduated from the farm, and used to hold the renminbi tightly in their hands. The growth of passbook figures has made them obsessed. When they buy a house, they are renting a house; when they repay the loan, they would rather endure the 7% loan interest rate and have to keep it for five years. The hard-earned money has shrunk in waiting. They often take the last stick at the peak of the house price; they have naively made a wish and earned 1 million to go home to buy a house. I can wait until that day really comes, the prices of my hometown, second-tier, third-tier cities and even towns and villages have been mad.
This is the biggest difference between me and you. The deep-rooted differences and the insurmountable gap are also here. I used to think that the degree, salary, and company reputation are the same, and our life is the same. In fact, the difference is not reflected in the obvious symbols, but in the inheritance of generations, embodied in the blood, reflected in the mind. 18 years of accumulation, family background, lifestyle, financial concepts, created such a you, but also created such a me, created your arrogance and my conservative weight. When I paid off the loan, you bought a second set of housing; the Shanghai Composite Index was 6000 points. When I easily tested the water to become a stockholder, you cleared the market and switched to the gold market. I sent 1,000 yuan a month to take care of the parents. Responsibility, you smiled and said, pension, I am not old, it is good; when I think about whether the cost of having children and raising children will detract from the quality of life, the four old people have already contributed money to help you. Raising up the second generation; Golden Week to go to Jiuzhaigou is quite good, you are not satisfied, you say that Germany is too cautious, the United States is too casual, France is the fashion capital you yearn for...

My story is a true portrayal of a generation of "immigrants" - forced to leave the country, the motherland is vast, I am like a migratory bird, migrating, choosing wood. The current social system is doomed to have richer educational resources, medical resources, and convenient living in large cities. Even if you get a paper account, the process of integration is still full of suffering, and the struggle of 5 years, 10 years and even longer will get everything that the indigenous people have at their fingertips. Once indignant, pursued, now, but learned to stop complaining, calm in one gap after another. The gap exists, but it is not regrettable. It is the gap and the efforts made to make up the gap, which strengthens the tension of life and makes it more hierarchical and more diverse.
The future that can be imagined is that one day our descendants will meet in Disney and tell the story of the father. The one that I am, although not necessarily more refined and more colorful, is undoubtedly much more interesting. That story, about independence, courage, the Jedi rebound, and the return to life, I can not afford to give my son a luxury car, but can give him a growing heart. I want to tell him that no matter how poor or rich, millions of family members or displaced, they must be equally open-minded.
At this point, what is the tension between drinking and drinking coffee? The elegance of life posture does not depend on where you are sitting, the utensils you hold, and the tea you pay. It depends on your attitude.
I have been fighting for 18 years, not to drink coffee with you.