Ai Xiaoyang: Stress is a smart game

Ai Xiaoyang: Stress is a smart game

At the age of 14, she came to Taipei from Tainan. They are not tall, their eyes are not big, some are fat, and they like to wear black stretch pants. She was enrolled in a girls' high school. Every time she was out of school, the students of the nearby males gathered in front of the female door in groups, and judged each girl who passed.
"Wow, she looks good!" "You lick her eyes, like a window that can't be opened." She lowered her head and held her schoolbag tightly, only the road that hated the school gate was too long. Going to school became the heaviest pressure. When I opened my eyes almost every day, she thought about how to avoid those abominable boys. She took turns with her to walk with girls who were fatter than herself, postpone the time to leave the school, and escape from the wall. Finally, one day, when she turned over the school wall, she was discovered by a few naughty boys who chased after her. She ran home without a life, bursting into tears under the blue sky just after the typhoon.
She asked herself, in the long time in the future, is it necessary to continue walking on the tip of the knife? A week later, she and many girls who were often ridiculed by the boys, rushed out of the school early, stood at the door of the male, learned the way of the boys, and commented on the boys who left the school. Watching them blushing and rushing past, she had a kind of ease and relief, as if she had put down a basin of water that had been kept in her heart and was afraid of spilling it.
For those who are bullying, once they start to resist, they become boring. Gradually, fewer boys appeared in the female door until they disappeared completely. Her youthful years have regained her sunshine.
Today, she is in charge of a small-scale enterprise, still in a state of wealth, not beautiful, but quite tall and straight. Whenever a staff complains that the pressure is too great and wants to take a vacation, she will be gentle but resolutely said that procrastination or evasion will only make the pressure more stressful. It is better to take the time off to complete the holiday and to go on vacation.

For the fool, a mistake may be just the beginning of another similar mistake; for a wise person, a decision may change a lifetime. For her, the 14-year-old decision, although not solving all the problems, taught her the most valuable lesson in life: face the difficulties and solve it in the shortest possible time. Other methods of relieving stress are just The emergency has become a chronic disease.
"Pressure is a smart game. I am stupid. I am not only not proficient in laziness and shortcuts. I don't like to spend the time I should have used to solve problems in clubs, K songs, and even I think very little tomorrow. I I only believe that today, do things well today, without delay, no doubt, no sorrow, tomorrow will not be too bad." She stirred the coffee in the cup, said slowly. Yes, people who climb the mountain, all the way to the scenery song, pain and happiness, and the pressure, in fact, only for those who look at the mountains.