a world that does not complain

a world that does not complain

Recently, I accepted an interview with a radio station's morning program. One of the announcers said, "But I rely on complaints to survive - and I earn a lot from complaining." I said, "Okay, that's from one. How happy are you at the level of ten?” After a pause, he said, “Is there a negative number?” Complaints may be beneficial to us in many ways, even financially, but complaining. The benefits are not included in happiness.
We have already discussed that we complain because complaints can lead to social and psychological benefits. The inference of sociologists and psychologists is that we also treat complaints as a way to make ourselves more discerning. For example, even if a restaurant has excellent dishes, there are people who complain that the food level is not enough to meet his standards. This is to let everyone who hears know that his taste is really high. The complaining person is an arbiter who declares himself to be a gourmet, suggesting that his extraordinary taste is derived from many advanced dining experiences. Like Lonnie Dannyfield's role in Crazy Golf, he said to the senior Bushi Highball Club waiter: "Hey, you tell the chef, this is a low dog food, I am very tasteful. I can't look at this kind of food." Come again - complaining is bragging.
Please ask yourself: Are people who are confident and safe will brag? The answer is no. Self-respecting people, people who identify with their strengths, accept their own weaknesses, and leisurely, do not have to look at others through the eyes of others - these people will not brag. Their self feels good and they don't need to tell others how good they are. Similarly, they don't need to complain to take advantage of neuroticism.
In The Lazy Enlightenment Guide, Tadias Gola's conclusion is: "Love yourself is not to inflate yourself. The so-called standardism means that you have to prove that you are valuable after you have hated yourself. And love yourself will dispel your self-awareness, and you will feel that you don't have to prove yourself to be superior."
Those who are insecure, question their importance, and are uncertain about their self-worth will brag and complain. They will announce their achievements and hope to see the eyes of the listeners projecting their appreciation. They will also complain about the difficulties they have encountered in order to gain sympathy; or use it as an excuse to escape the goal they have longed for but have not completed. They will complain, in fact, because they consciously don't deserve what they want. They lack self-affirmation, so they complained and pushed away what they wanted.
You have to know: Everything you desire, you are eligible. Don't make excuses again, go ahead with your dreams. If you are still saying "men don't dare to promise", "everyone in our family is fat", "I don't coordinate with my hands and feet", "My consultant said that I have never done anything in my life", "My father abused me" If you are, then you are making yourself a victim. The victim will not be a winner, you have to choose which kind of person you want to be.
Complaining like a note written by Epstein's mother. Remember the album "Mr. Ke, welcome back"? Epstein is a student role in this campus comedy. He often takes notes to the school to escape certain things. For example, the paper may say: "Epistein can't take the test today because he spent the whole night studying cancer therapy." The signer is Epistan's mother. Of course, these notes are written by Epstein himself to escape the exam and other things. We complain that we are trying to get out of it to avoid adventure and other actions. These complaints sound reasonable and reasonable, but they are all weak excuses. Just like the notes in the album, the people who write are actually the ones who take out the notes - ourselves.
Please understand that I understand that you may have had difficult and even unbearable experiences. Many people are the same. You can talk about your story endlessly, insisting that you have not done anything wrong, that you don't have to bear anything about what has already happened, and then make it an excuse for your life. Or, you can also think about the principle of the slingshot.
What determines how far the stone on the sling can fly? The answer is: see how far you pulled the rubber band on the slingshot. If you study the life of successful people, you will find that their success is not to rule out the challenges of life, but to face the challenges of life. They accept everything that happens to them and use it to help them grow. Instead of telling everyone how much grievances they have suffered, they begin to look for blessings in the challenge. And you see, they found it. They pulled the rubber band back far and the result was higher and farther.
To get out of the slingshot, the stone must be loosened first. You have to let go. The same is true for the challenges and pains of life - let go of it all!