Heavenly reward "early"

Heavenly reward "early"
I have a friend, 36 years old this year, his girlfriend is 24 years old, two people are not married, the breakup is inseparable, and the marriage can not be completed, very painful. why? Because my friend has no career, no room, no car, no material conditions for the happy life of girls, can not give girls a sense of security in a happy life. He has done a lot of business from the age of 20 to the present, many projects, but none of them have been done for a long time, they have done it in depth, and they have not made any money. He has been a boss himself, and let him go to work for others. He certainly can't accept it, but he does not have the ideal project to make him profitable. Until now, it is still high and not low, he is still groping, it is really sad.
I have a colleague in New Oriental. When I was a teenager, I practiced speeches, participated in debates, won awards in the National Debate Competition, and became a “student teacher” at Sun Yat-sen University. Because of her excellent eloquence and clear thinking, she was a graduate student. He is only 22 years old, but he began to give advanced mathematics courses to graduate students at the same level. After working in New Oriental, he quickly became the most famous teacher in the local area and the trainer of New Oriental Group. His eloquence is really good. It is really "speaking lotus, whispering, eloquent, and going east." Later he became the youngest principal of New Oriental. The reason why this colleague is young is that he chose his career that he devoted to his life at the earliest time—speaking, and practicing continuously, no longer interrupted. In the juvenile, the "speech" advantage is locked and this advantage is continuously strengthened and strengthened until it is almost superb, and it is difficult for others to surpass it.
These two friends with opposite fates, the opposite story of these two endings, inspired me a lot.
From the stories of these two friends, I suddenly realized that "hard work" is not the only factor of success. "Getting started early" is the biggest mystery of success. In the living room of my home, there was a plaque of Xiang embroidery, which read the four characters of "Heavenly Reward". This is my motto from the age of 18 to the present. Now my motto has been changed, called "Tiandao Rehearsal".
Have you found out? "Finding" is not a neutral word. It is a terrible vocabulary. It is a vocabulary that has a strong lethal effect on a person's life enthusiasm. "Finding" means that you have no direction until now, until now there is no target, until now all the power has not been focused, until now has not detonated all the potential in your body! He Jinghua, the former president of Kingdee software and UF software, who was called the “employed emperor” in the IT industry once said: “I think the top 5% of the people in the population are geniuses, and the next 5% of smart people are idiots. Most of them are 90% in the middle. I will do an IQ test on the spot today, I may not take the first place, because most people's IQ is similar. In the same year, they also had a runny nose, bare buttocks, peeing and mud. Partners, why have there been a world of difference in the past 20 years? Some achievements have been a career, earth-shattering, and some have been silent, and life is silent. What is the difference?"
I can replace Mr. He Jinghua to tell everyone the answer. The difference lies in the four words - "Tiandao reward early."
Specifically, most ordinary people in their twenties have either no dreams or dreams, and they still have no goals or more than three great goals in their thirties. Every dream is so sparkling, every dream is so dazzling and dazzling. So, they groaned, confused, fumbled, desperate, this year, I want to promote, try it, I want to make a fortune when I encounter a little setback, try it again, try to find out that everything is not worthy of the great self. Go and do it, and never get down.
And all the successful people knew earlier what was the most wanted career in their life, and earlier determined that they only did this in the latter half of their lives. Other things have nothing to do with themselves. Then use your mind and system to accumulate the abilities, connections, and resources you need to achieve your dreams. They aimed at the target of the dream early, without hesitation, without hesitation, and ran straight. Day after day, month after month, year after year. When the people around him are still at a loss and lost time in chaos and confusion, the early departures have already had the vision and experience of doing things for a decade, and his achievements naturally have a world of difference with others. For example, Shandong Jinba men's clothing distributor, now more than 2 billion sales revenue a year, friends commented on him: this person is not interested in anything, only knows to work hard, one heart to run their own Jinba men's clothing. He started to wear clothing in his 20s, and sold it to his 40s. He still enjoys it and doesn't change his mind. This kind of example abounds:
Bill Gates became the richest man in the world at the age of 39;
Shanda Chen Tianqiao became the richest man in China at the age of 31;
Sun Yat-sen, the founding father, founded the Xingzhonghui at the age of 28;
Wang Ran, 23-year-old authority;
Sun Quan, the owner of Soochow, is 19 years old according to Jiang Dong;
Ding Junhui won the world championship at the age of 15;
Deng Boer took Oscar at the age of 7;
Beethoven began composing at the age of 4;
Gourd baby is a monster when he is born.
You said that we are in a hurry?
Please be as early as possible, for example, before the age of 25, you will lock in a business point, and then spend the rest of your life doing the same thing, no longer change, I promise that everyone will get the most unexpected success at the youngest age.
Zhang Ailing said: "It’s too early to be famous. If it’s too late, happiness is not so happy.” This sentence has some secular utilitarianism. It’s not that everyone wants to be famous. Maybe I can better inspire you by saying something different: "Locking your lifelong career is early, if you lock it too late, the cost and danger of success will be too high, and happiness will not be so happy." If this life is worthwhile, it will be very vigorous, you really want to take you The cause that is willing to fight for life is determined as soon as possible, and the first step is quickly taken. Although I am still not married, I have no children. But for the cultivation of the next generation, I have already designed it. In the future, if there is a child, whether it is a daughter or a son, he will cultivate the point that he will lock in his life, the cause. For example, if he likes to give a speech, I will train him to practice eloquence, thinking and knowledge as early as possible. I started my formal lecturer career at the age of 24, I feel that it is a bit late. I decided to train my son or daughter to practise speeches from the age of 5, not only to practice speaking in the mother tongue, but also to practice speaking in English, French and other languages. At the age of 24, he or she will speak in three languages ​​at will. In 19 years, he can become one of the world's greatest lecturers, and he can become a "small eloquent emperor" with world-class fame in that era! "Tiandao reward early", as early as possible, it is best to determine the career to be done in the latter half of life before the age of 25, the sooner the better! Asearlyaspossible! Remember: The secret to winning people running is not that you are running faster than others, but that you start ten years earlier than others! I think this is the greatest success secret that I have learned this year.
Article source: Zhang Yinan blog