Yu Minhong: Attitude towards life

Yu Minhong: Attitude towards life

If we are attached to the pain of life, our lives will be miserable. If we focus on the joy of life, our lives may be full of joy. What matters is not how much pain and joy we have experienced in our lives, but us. Attitude towards life...
Every day, people are upset, and every day there are things that make people happy. If our focus is on things that make us unhappy, we will never be happy.
This Christmas, after a year of hard work, I decided to take my family to Hawaii for a holiday. In order to better arrange my vacation, I flew from China to Hawaii before my wife and children flew to Hawaii. Arriving at Hawaii at 8 o'clock in the morning, I went to the hotel to check in. I was told that the hotel would not be able to check in at two o'clock in the afternoon. After a dozen hours of flight, I wanted to go into the room and sleep, but not. I can only wander around the roadside with my luggage. I went to a breakfast and ate some breakfast. I didn’t know what to eat. I wanted to have a diarrhea. I finally turned a few laps to find the toilet. I almost couldn’t help it. Fortunately, I lost it. I took the meperic acid with me and finally stopped the diarrhea. I returned to the hotel at two in the afternoon and finally got the key to the hotel. I booked the sea view room. As a result, I looked at the room and looked at the neck. The giraffe was able to see the corner of the sea, so he regained the key to find the manager of the hotel. The manager apologized repeatedly but said that all the rooms were full. I couldn't help but say that I could add some money. The manager immediately said that he would coordinate as much as possible. After leaving for half an hour, he came back and told me that as long as I increased my $20 per day, I could live in a better sea view room. I could only bite my money. When I arrived at the room, I was finally able to see the sea and I was relieved. Then I connected the network cable in the room and wanted to start working online. At this time, Beijing was just at 9 o'clock in the morning. There was a lot of work to be contacted. As a result, I needed to pay $15 a day to open the Internet. Use; many hotels in China are now free for broadband, but they have to pay 15 dollars, there is a feeling of road robbery; but the work can not be delayed, can only pay. I rented a car at five o'clock in the afternoon. I hope to drive to pick up my wife and children at night. In order to get familiar with the path, I drove outside to wander around. I didn't expect to get lost. I drove while looking for a way, accidentally blocking another. The way the car went, the other party screamed and screamed at the mother, making me stunned the other side in my heart several times, but I still had an apologizing smile on my face. The plane where my wife and children were seated was scheduled to arrive at 11 o'clock in the evening. I checked the flight information and there was no notice of delay. So I drove to the airport at 10:30. The result was that the flight was delayed for three hours and it was only one and a half late at night. I can only go back to the hotel and wait for it. I am afraid that I will not fall asleep when I am too sleepy. I am afraid that I will wake up and delay the time of picking up the plane. I will drive to the airport at night and finally wait for the plane to land. See you. When we arrived at the wife and children; we waited for the baggage along the baggage belt. As a result, the baggage belt had a problem. The baggage was stuck in the inside and it was not coming. It took half an hour to take out the baggage. On the way back to the hotel, patronize and talk to the wife, forgetting. The speed of the car, the result found that a police car flashed with lights behind, stopped to stop, the police came down to me and said that I was speeding, okay, trained me to leave without a fine; go back to the hotel I People were smashed, but the children were very excited. They just refused to sleep. At four in the morning, everyone began to fall asleep. As a result, they were awakened by the knock at the door at 8:00 the next morning. The original night forgot to plug in the door "Do Not Disturb" sign, cleaners to clean the room early on. You said that I had a mess in the day, didn't enjoy the vacation, but got tired and a bird's belly.
However, please do not misunderstand, my statement above is just the painful version of my first day in Hawaii. Below is the joy version of my day.
That morning, the plane flew over the sky above Hawaii. I saw a bright red glow rising in the window and dyed many clouds like a rose. Before the plane landed, I saw the entire Hawaiian island in the early morning. The beautiful scenery, Pearl Harbor is also in my eyes; the plane steadily landed at the Hawaii International Airport, I walked down the plane in the morning sunshine. When I went out of customs, no one lined up, so I quickly passed the customs, and the US customs official had a good temper. I wished me a Merry Christmas, and let me chat with me while I was hand-printed, so you don’t think it’s hand-printed. It was so embarrassing again; after I left the customs, I took a taxi to the hotel. The driver introduced me to the situation in Hawaii while driving. I have already had a good guide to tell me where it is the most fun. Places, cars drive along the beach, all the way is good scenery, white clouds hanging on the hills, sea birds flying in the blue sky; to the hotel, because of a lot of guests, I can not stay, so I found a coffee shop at the beach, one side Eating breakfast while watching the sailboats in the distance from the sea, near the white waves; drinking coffee, leisurely reading the "readers" brought from the country, seeing the people coming and going, there is no peace in the heart; At the checkout, I asked the waitress if she could sit for a while. The waitress gave me a charming smile, not only allowed me to sit, but also sent me a free cup of coffee. Imagine, remembering the poem of a Chinese poet: facing the sea, spring blossoming... Sitting for a while, feeling uncomfortable in the stomach, coming back to the toilet, stealing the medicine that I took with my diarrhea, after eating two tablets I felt very good, and soon I sat on the beach again to enjoy the scenery; a few hours passed by inadvertently, and at two o'clock in the afternoon I stood up and took the key to get the room. After entering the room, I found that the sea view room I booked could not see the sea, so I went to the registration office to find a manager to change the room. The manager looked awkward and I said to him: You see, I just came to Hawaii and took a trip. So much money is to ask my wife to play, let my wife be nice to me later, and today is Christmas. If my wife comes and finds that the room is not good, her mood will be bad, and her mood is not good. My mood will be bad, you are also a man, should you know what I am talking about? The result manager was greatly moved, helped me to toss for half an hour, and finally put on a room with a beautiful view. In the balcony of the room, I can see the sea far away. I feel that it is worthwhile to fight for the right. I rented a car in the afternoon and drove to the road to make a long trip. I lost my way and blocked others. The car was smashed by people. Although it was a little unpleasant in my heart, I also learned a few words in English. The next time the Americans blocked me, they could look back. Going back to the hotel and seeing the departure time is still early, I decided to go swimming in the sea for a while. I found that there were a lot of fish in the sea and I was swimming at the same time. I was surprised and surprised. I didn’t expect such a lively place. The protection of nature is so good, the fish are not afraid that everyone is not afraid of fish, not fast! After dinner, I went to the airport to pick up my wife and children. They should have arrived at 11:00, but the plane was delayed for three hours. I returned to the hotel from the airport and processed dozens of E-Mails. I arranged a lot of work for myself. I am very proud of the minutes and seconds; after the work, my vacation will become more relaxed; at one o'clock in the evening, I drive to the airport again, and in the middle of the night, Honolulu, become quiet and serene; at the airport exit, I see My son and daughter were the first to rush to me. I caught one hand and the happiness in my heart was unspeakable. On the way back to the hotel, I was caught by the police because I was smug, but when the police found me with a car and a child. I smiled on my face and said that I was careful to drive, have a good vacation, and wish us a Merry Christmas. I said that this fine will be waived. The next time I pay attention, I will raise a warmth from my heart and the impression of the police will change greatly. . Back to the hotel, the children were so excited that they couldn't sleep, and they jumped on the bed, so I jumped up and was with my family. I was happy and happy.
After writing the above two versions of Hawaii, you may have to ask which kind of mood is my real experience. What I want to tell you is that the text I wrote above is not to show you that I have been to Hawaii, nor to show you the pain and happiness of my day in Hawaii; I just want to explain that even within a day, we It can also deeply perceive the existence of life. If there is life, there will be pain of life, but there will be joy of life. If we are attached to the pain of life, our life will be miserable. If we focus on the joy of life, Our lives may be full of joy. What is important is not how much pain and joy we have experienced in our lives, but our attitude towards life; only in the right attitude can everything in our lives be assembled into the richness and greatness of life. Can know how to deal with the joys and sorrows of everyday life.
Having said that, I just want to tell you that on the day of Christmas 2007, I can have a very unhappy life, and I can have a good time. I chose happiness on this day, so the second version is my true mood; I want to tell you that happiness is not up to you, you can't be controlled by others' behavior; use your heart to decide you Is it happy or not? Every day we can make a decision, and perhaps the decisions and attitudes of small things in our daily lives can change your life.