To classmates in college

To classmates in college

Foreword: This work is not done by myself. I only want to give some inspiration to those who are still in college. I have just seen this article, I have a deep understanding, I hope to share with you. If there is something wrong, I hope to bear with me!

How are you doing?
Originally this was a letter that should have been written long ago. There are many words that should be said long ago, but I did not write, did not say, did not want to, but I know that you hate an empty preacher. So, I am waiting, waiting for you to experience life, waiting for your feelings from life, waiting for your reflection on life attitude. These things are only a matter of time. At the end of the semester, when you start a new semester, I feel that this letter can be written. These words can be said. I believe that you should have a common relationship with me. Some kind of feeling, thought should be able to reach a depth.
I still remember that at the university graduation ceremony, a certain classmate said a word when talking about university life: "There are two kinds of people in the university: one is talent, the other is scum." Then I spent some time in college. You, I want to ask, are you a talent or a scum? If I have not guessed wrong, you will definitely answer: I am neither a talent nor a scum, I am between the two. If so, I think: You are falling to the scum, do you think it is extreme? On this issue, we need to think of it as extreme. In the semester that we have already spent, do you have a lot of time to be overwhelmed, spend a lot of time in the dorm bed, spend a lot of time On the QQ chat, there is a lot of time to kill in the online game, another semester has passed, suddenly found that I have not listened to a few lessons, although the class is given to the lecturer level; suddenly found that they are not serious I have read a few books, although there are many treasures in the university library; I suddenly found that I have not learned anything, although there are many things in the university that I can learn. Don't say that you can't understand the class, don't say that the teacher doesn't care, don't say that you are not interested in the profession, don't say that the school is too bad, there is no reason for the fall, just an excuse.
If I remember correctly, your annual tuition fee is more than 4,000 yuan, plus your living expenses and other expenses, most of them can reach more than seven or eight thousand. You are now studying at a university and are receiving a high amount of education, but How much output did your parents get with extra input? ? ?
Most of you are from rural areas, or small business families. There are not many families who have a wealth of family wealth. Every penny you use now is the hard-earned money earned by your parents, and even the money borrowed from everywhere. It is extremely incomparable. Hardships and love for you, in the old faces where they have been left with scars, and a pair of eyes full of hope for you, a pair of turbid and even a little fuzzy eyes.
Hope can turn into disappointment, disappointment can turn into despair, but who is the determinant of this change?
Responsibility, not someone else gives you, but the matureness of your own thoughts. You all say that you have grown up and said that you are mature, but I think that you are only 20 years old and mature, you have parents The responsibility that can never be shirked, but you have given up on the mission of inaction and degeneration.
After one semester, when you return home for the New Year, your parents still love you, still yelling at you, but you have no apologies. I didn’t talk about learning at all, I didn’t even give them the transcripts, and I hid in a corner and signed the names I had signed with them by my own hands.
Liar, a liar without responsibility, a liar who can become a scum, I don't want to, and I don't want my students to become like this. I have always stubbornly thought: You can be my pride.
It's hard to build a thing, it's easy to destroy a thing, classmates, please bear in mind and take responsibility for your parents.
In college, many students have reflected such a problem: I don't know what I want to do in a day, or I can't do anything. This is a very common phenomenon because you have lost your goal. The reasons are as follows:
1. You have been admitted to the university and have completed your ultimate goal of being dominant in the national, middle and high schools. For many students, the university is your last stage of study. Looking for a job after finishing college, but this is still so far out of reach for you who have been doing it for twelve years.
2. There are too many time in the university. From the previous self-study to the evening self-study, there are teachers who have arranged the tasks you have to complete. No one has told you that you should do it. What makes you feel overwhelmed, most of you lack spiritual independence and good self-control, and you simply can't grasp these seemingly excessive freedoms.
3. The teaching methods in the university are completely different from the teaching methods in other periods. No teacher in the university will turn around you, for fear that you have not learned anything, and learning to learn is entirely your own business. You are already an adult. Without the previous retelling, there is no homework that I couldn’t finish before. You feel that the class is empty for yourself, how about learning, how about not learning? Instead of letting yourself learn so hard, it is better to let yourself be free and easy.
4. The counselor in the university is completely different from the former class teacher. The former class teacher has to manage everything, just like a demanding babysitter, because they regard you as a child who has not grown up, and now the counselor has less specific things. Because they treat you as an adult, there is a huge disconnect in the process, and you can't complete this transformation psychologically and intellectually.
5. Most of you lack clear and clear goals in life. What kind of people you want to do, what kind of career you want to do, these have no concept for you. From my ideals in the small age, to my future in the middle age, to my university in high school, to my confusion in college, you have completed the transformation of your life goals in this process, and the last thing is dead. Worm. I think it is the combined effect of these five points that makes you lose your goal. However, if there is no direction, the wind is not downwind.
You should find your own goals, not immediately, but in the shortest possible time, here I give you some advice, I hope to help you find the goal.
The first step: Put aside all obstacles, start from the profession, think about what kind of work you want to do in the future, or what kind of career, find a blank piece of paper, and write down your final decision, please don't hesitate , postgraduate? Civil service exam? teacher? technician? Salesman? other?
Step 2: Use the online and talent market recruitment channels to fully understand the professional skills and other skills you need to do your job. Most of the theoretical knowledge of these skills is learned from books. What you need to do is to list a study book from the basics to the in-depth order. Please write on paper.
The third step: assign the study time to the book according to the order of the book. Of course, most of the time you can allocate should be your own spare time, and put it into each semester, so that you have a study plan every semester. Painting, every week, even every day has a study plan.
Step 4: Follow the learning plan, study on the ground, and use all the conditions that you may use to practice.
I believe that if every student has a goal, you will live a very fulfilling life, you will be very busy, and you will get a lot. So, please ask each classmate to set a goal for yourself!
Life is like a chocolate box, you never know what the next one is! In fact, in the above four steps, the first, second and third steps are very easy to implement. The hardest part is the fourth step. It is really not easy to do. First of all, there are too many college students around you who live a life that their peers yearn for. To be the fourth point, you need to overcome the impact of the big environment. Second, there are too many temptations in college. There is another itching voice in QQ; there is an exciting killing in the online game; a pair of interdependent couples stand under the small tree on the roadside; to be the fourth point, you have to reject these Temptation, in the eyes of others, walk through the university like an ascetic. In addition, to be able to withstand loneliness and loneliness, it seems that the university life is incompatible, but the success and great people are lonely and lonely, and they have cultivated their strong perseverance and extraordinary wisdom in the process of patience.
Some people may ask: Why can someone else live a life of chic, but I have to work hard, I have replaced it with another question: Is the university enjoying life or shaping itself?
When you graduated from college, I suddenly found that in addition to getting a college diploma, I didn't learn the skills that were really esoteric. I didn't learn the skills that were really good. How much work would you do better than others? Maybe it's just a good name, maybe it's just that anyone can do it. Do you still have to blame everyone?
Every one of us wants to live a high-quality life, and we want to let our loved ones live a life without worry. We all want to leave traces of our own value in the world, but these are not to be enjoyed, but God gave it. Each of us has a hand and a brain, let us create and think. The university is your best time to study, so please give up and enjoy, and strive to reinvent yourself and build up strength for the future.
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