Yu Minhong: Giving up is a kind of wisdom, and the disadvantage is a kind of favor.

Yu Minhong: Giving up is a kind of wisdom, and the disadvantage is a kind of favor.

Once I read this sentence in a book, I didn't understand it at first, but in life and work, I finally began to understand the meaning. In life, our most stupid behavior is to be too obsessed with our own things, holding on to our own things, not willing to give up. As a result, if you hold it, others will not share his things with you. If you don't give up, you won't get it. This is the reason you can understand. I am here to tell you about sharing theory. When you have six apples, don't eat them all, because you eat all six apples, you only eat six apples, only eat a taste, that is the taste of apples. If you take out five of the six apples for others to eat, even though you seem to have lost five apples, you actually got the friendship and affection of the other five. You can get more in the future. When someone else has other fruits, you will definitely share it with you. You will get an orange from this person. The person gets a pear in his hand. Finally, you may get six. A variety of different fruits, six different flavors, six different colors, and six people's friendships. People must learn to use what you have in exchange for something more important and rich for you. Learn to exchange and share between people, this harvest is a hundred times more than the harvest that you eat six apples by yourself. This is because you gave up five apples, so everyone thinks, is giving up a wisdom?
So what is "the disadvantage is a kind of favor"? As we just said, if we are perfect, we have no room for development. Everything has been born, what is the living thing for this person? The greatest pleasure of being a man is to struggle to get what we want. So having shortcomings means that we can be more perfect, and lack of means that we can work harder. I have seen a TV film in the United States that tells a rich man to leave an endless legacy to his descendants. As a result, his descendants have all become drug addicts, suicides, jail, or mentally ill. Why is this so? Because the rich man left too much money for his future generations, so that they can inherit a large amount of property without labor. Inheriting a large fortune, you can buy almost anything. Everyone knows that the role of money is to buy everything you need in the material world, but the only thing you can't buy is the fulfillment of your heart, the friendship of others, and your sincere love. Since these are not available, the more you have money, the more empty your mind is, and you will use your money to fill your own emptiness. In the end, you can only replace it with drugs and make yourself into an illusory world. So I said that when a person is not lacking, his living space is stripped away. If we wake up every morning, feel what we are upset about today, feel that we still need to be more perfect, feel that we still have a pursuit, then what a happy thing!