Give up easier than hard work

Give up easier than hard work

People always get the most valuable growth experience in the process of giving their efforts.

After more than a year of exchanges, she has been quarreling with him more and more times, and the fighting situation has become increasingly fierce. Recently, the breakup was even made several times. Before, they had agreed that no matter how big the dispute between the two sides, never put the word "breakup" in the mouth. Nowadays, repeatedly saying "breakup" is obviously pushing the reason to the edge of emotions, and there is a decision sooner or later.
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His personality is a typical earth sign, and the only reaction to intense emotions is to choose silence. Although she knows very well, this is the way he used to deal with the dispute between two people, but he is not willing to let the long-standing problem of getting along, dragging on. Therefore, the more he does not speak, the more she is ignorant.
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?? "Since you don't want to communicate, and you are not willing to work hard to improve our relationship, it is better to break up!" She once again proposed to break up, which is equivalent to the ultimatum.
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?? Perhaps, it is forced to rush! He finally spoke - "I don't want to break up!"
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?? Hear this sentence, her feelings are very strong and extreme. One is with joy; one is for worry.
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?? hi is: he is still a person with a strong feeling, cherish each other's fate and contribution in a year. The worry is: If he refuses to actively adjust his attitude to improve the way two people get along, even if you barely continue to be together, what is the point?
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After a long night of study, many days of calm, and a single trip. She decided to let her take a good rest for a while and temporarily stop dating and liaising with him.
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?? "Separate some days, let each other calm down!" When she said this, her tone was extremely calm, but her heart was so painful.
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For her, giving up this relationship is tantamount to giving up. Looking back at the emotional experience of the past years, which one is not the case, the opening of the storm, and finally ended in the end. Introspective in the middle of the night, although the other party is wrong, why is there no problem?
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When people encounter bottlenecks, people are used to giving up instead of trying
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?? Abandon, easier than effort. At the moment when you say goodbye to your feelings, you choose to give up and let all the rest, all the branches and the right and wrong, and then come to an end. From then on, there is no longer any need to worry about these trivial things, and indeed it can be quiet. Even the friends who have not been contacted for a long time will be indifferent to the care and greetings, and together with the man who is not worthy of life for a lifetime, will be able to experience the world.
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?? However, a period of feelings, like the trains driving into different platforms before and after, all left, leaving her alone standing on the platform, suddenly found: I still stay in place, did not really arrive destination.
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In a party, I met a male friend who was as pitiful as her. The other party is not emotionally confronted with problems, but has a lot of work. In three years, three jobs were changed.
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?? Although friends have repeatedly comforted him: "Not simple! The economy is very bad, many unemployed people can not find a job, but you have successfully worked and changed a job."
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?? He is full of ignorance, he can only smile and say: "Take your gold mouth! I hope this job can be done a little longer."
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Listen to him saying this, immediately touch her heartstrings. Whenever bidding farewell to a loved one and starting another relationship, she will also encourage herself: "I hope this relationship can be maintained for a long time." However, the progress of feelings can not be satisfactory. Some have died of illness, and some have become ill. Regardless of the reason for the end, when the determination is made, the injury has already been caused, and the pain is hard to avoid.
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?? In the process of pain relief, she found that when she encountered a bottleneck, she used to give up instead of trying. After all, giving up is really easier than trying.
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?? Choose the person who gives up, there is always an excuse to push the fault to others
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?? Determine the lesser-than-study course in the middle school, break the feelings of more and more chaotic, quit the more and more tiring work, quit the chance of winning the competition... When waving goodbye, the chic gesture is difficult to cover up Mindfulness. Temporary tragic feelings may be given short-term support, but not long-term applause.
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From a short-term perspective, giving up is indeed easier than trying. However, from a long-term perspective, if you do not make every effort, you will give up, you will not be able to explain yourself, and let your opponents look at yourself.
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?? The process of hard work, there must be setbacks, grievances, compromises, hard-to-estimate efforts, and an inexhaustible bitterness... In the end, it is not necessarily because you have done everything you can to win the victory. However, since I have tried hard at all, I will not regret it. When the winners and losers are separated, the winner wins the glory and loses the loss.
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?? Choose people who give up in the middle, always have an excuse to push the fault to others, always find the reasons for being sympathized and forgiven. Those who are willing to stay and continue to work hard, do not need excuses for what reason, but are enough to get the most valuable growth experience in the process of giving their efforts.