Frustration is a compulsory course in life

Frustration is a compulsory course in life

Parenting loves children, seeking benefits for children, and seeking happiness, is beyond reproach. To a certain extent, it can be said that this is the responsibility of parents. However, is it for the child's current interests and happiness, or for the child's future interests and happiness? This is worth a lot of parents to think about it.

In real life, the interests and happiness of the present and the future are harms and pains in the long run. It is the so-called "blessings and sorrows"; it seems that it is demanding children in the eyes, but it is beneficial in the long run. "The blame is fortunes."

Today we have some parents, this is to take care of the interests and happiness of the child, and do not consider how the future will be. They arranged the children's material life very comfortable and superior, and they opened their mouths and clothes to reach out. The crying of a child or even a little unhappy can make the whole family restless. This surface is love, but it is harmful. Such a child can't eat a little bit of hardship, is psychologically fragile, has a lonely personality, and has apathy. Once you encounter setbacks, even if you are criticized a little, it will make his emotions extremely abnormal. What can this do in the future?

In fact, every parent knows that everyone has their own muddy path, and it is impossible for a person to have a smooth life. The child also needs to have the ability to withstand setbacks, but he is reluctant to let the children suffer. In fact, not everything we do today is for tomorrow? From childhood, I often give my child some frustration medicine, and the child will develop resistance and drug resistance. When the child enters the society, his life ability, work ability, social ability and so on are very strong. At that time, you are proud of it!

The seedlings that can't withstand the wind and rain will gradually wither and die, but the seedlings that can bring joy to the farmers are stretched and smiled. The seemingly fierce wind and rain is a ruthless screening of the seedlings, but also a good support for the excellent seedlings! Frustration can make the weak stronger. As a parent, you should also let your child understand this truth. Let the children know that frustration is a compulsory course in life.

Free the child from narrow protection and love.