Moving along with reading

Since I left home, I have moved several times. My friends said that the small room is a big room, and the remote place is for a prosperous market. This kind of moving and moving is so pleasant, even if the number of times is a little more worthy of envy. In fact, this is not the case. They don’t know the bitterness of it. It is a troublesome thing that is extremely exhausting. When you decorate the house, you have to buy it and buy it. If the house is installed, you have to find a moving company. The things in the house should be disassembled and assembled. Especially my book. I have to bundle it before moving. So as not to break it. After such a busy life, the whole family suffered from back pain for many days. As a result, my wife would mutter for three or four days every time she moved. Yes, the family did not say that they were tired of physical exercise at the beginning of the move. They felt that they were not so comfortable when they left the environment for many years.

That year my son was going to study at the Zhiyuan Middle School in the county. He was a top student at the school's admissions office. The son's teachers told me that the child is very good. Do you think about moving to the county to take care of it? In fact, I had already had the idea of ​​going to the county town to accompany me before, but I was worried about the problem of the family moving to the county seat, so I was hesitant. Because I have moved to the second home before, although it is not far from the streets of my hometown, the house on the street was affordable for many years after I worked hard. My old house was originally very happy to move to the streets in the countryside. As the saying goes, "Is people repairing the streets of Shishi?" The main reason why I moved was because of the heavy rain on the dirt road leading to my old house. It’s hard to go, and my child is also at the age of starting school. Although it is only a small two-story small building, the area is not too big. Fortunately, it is the central part of the street. My wife and I can barely rely on the facade to do a little business. But this time I moved to accompany my reading, and the journey was not only much longer, but I didn’t even have a place in the county. Although I sold the second floor small building before moving, the money I sold was not able to buy a house in the city. Later, a classmate who was also accompanying the county town told me to use the money from the house to go to the county to do some business, so that I could accompany it in a down-to-earth manner.

On the day of leaving Lu Ji, the words between the wife and the neighbourhood were particularly sad, and they often whispered in tears. I can see that she has shown a lot of helplessness and compassion in her gaze. Yes, we are a problem when we leave our hometown to live in the county. We are not sure whether our decision is correct or not. We only have to take one step.

In order to better accompany me, I chose the location of renting a house near the campus of Zhiyuan Middle School, so that children will not go too far to go to school. We rented a small, short bungalow. This was originally the storage room of Mr. Yang, the landlord. It was difficult to rent a house near the school. Parents' accompanying reading has become a trend nowadays. Especially rural people like me, while working while accompanying, can not only urge their children to learn but also find some jobs to support their families. I rented the house and I went with my wife. The landlord originally refused to rent the house to me because the empty bottle and waste paper box of their house were not released. Fortunately, my wife was stalking and hard. Yang Fangdong reluctantly agreed.

The house is close to the road, and when the door is out, you can hear the sound of the school. It is also a pleasure for me to wake up in the morning. Outside the open houses of my hometown, there are endless wilderness. At night, there are only tidal frogs and cool breeze. The overall environment is too lonely and clean. Long-term rural life has made my nature tend to be quiet and quiet, but now I have to come to this crowded place and have to live for three years in order to accompany me. I always feel that I feel a little bit uncomfortable. It wasn't until the children started school that I found something to be happy about, that is, the music that was played on the campus every night when my son was studying at school. It was a "single" of a saxophone solo. At this time, the students in the school rushed out like tides. They all ran like a "going home". The vehicles on the road also quickly became congested, and the whistle was also cheerfully singing "go home." Every day when my wife and I heard the "going home" rhythm, they immediately got up and cooked because the children who were out of school. They are coming home soon.

Although it does not belong to the center of the county, it is a high and low residential area. However, in recent years, the emphasis on the education of children has inexplicably made it flourish. Most of the parents who accompany the students came from the countryside. They certainly didn't have a house in the city, but they couldn't afford it. There are seven or eight tenants in each courtyard here, and people come and go during the school hours. I didn't really hope to find any feelings from this atmosphere. There were not many words in the neighborhood, and there was no emotional involvement. But when I saw the tenants who finished the college entrance examination moved in June and July, The sadness of the hometown of the aftertaste suddenly rushed out. So I will imagine this scene every night, my children are also admitted to key universities, and our family is also preparing to leave. The number of such imaginations has become an ideological burden. I thought that my son had just finished high school and two years from the college entrance examination. Hey! Don't want to, just lie here!

I have been in the middle of no doubt, my career has basically shaped the box, or left my energy to my children! Maybe when I miss my hometown, I will take time to look back and see it. Close your eyes and imagine it. Just satisfied. To tell the truth, this aftertaste is a kind of sadness, but the kind of imagination can bring some joy. The sadness of the aftertaste is from the plot of love that was buried in childhood, and the joy of imagination comes from the future of the child. Looking forward to it.

Unexpected things will suddenly come. One night my son told me that the high school of Zhiyuan Middle School he was studying was going to move to the outer ring of the county, which means we have to move. On that day, my wife and I borrowed a tricycle to clean up the house and stumbled and moved to the new campus near Zhiyuan Middle School.

I am very satisfied with the new rental location. The environment is similar to the scenery of my hometown. It is the northernmost part of the county town, with an unmistakable field and a poplar forest. Next to Yang Shulin is the new school. Although the trees in the Yangshuo forest are lush, but the roof of the school is still far from the top of the school, they are bright and magnificent, like a pair of children naughty into a vast green sea. This kind of picture will make people endless reverie, and let the imaginative joy appear more affectionately. Every time I go to work, I walk in the environment of the trees and trees, so that I seem to be back to the country.

Parental reading is not only a kind of love, but also a kind of dedication, and it is especially heavy. In the current era of rapid economic development, parents must first be separated from their familiar hometowns in order to accompany them. Because of their time, they will be restricted. They can’t go to the factory to work normally. They can only work outside the factory. It is so difficult that they often return. Will change jobs and change the environment. They are the lowest-spending people in the city, and they are often the object of scorn in the city. I have some friends who always believe that the children's future good and bad are not necessarily related to the parent's supervision and guidance. They always say that gold is shining everywhere, whether the child can be admitted to a good university mainly depends on the child. . Of course, I do not deny that children's self-reliance and hard work are obviously necessary, but it is even more important for parents to create a condition for them to be well educated.

The ancients said: "The human nature is good, and the class has the good and the evil, the gas is also dyed. Therefore, if the gentleman has the teaching, then everyone can return to the good, and not revisit the evil of its kind"! This is To say that education is the necessary way to change the quality of a healthy personality. If a country does not attach importance to education, it will not be able to talk about social stability and development. For rural people, it is not unreasonable for children to get a good education on the ground. However, if you want to make a foresight on high requirements, you can still get a key school at the county or city level. My hometown of Lu Ji is in a remote and poor life, but from the villages where we have gone out, there are quite a few counties in the county's college entrance examination. It is even more popular to be admitted to Tsinghua University, so that the county is specially set up in my hometown. An admissions office, the street I live in almost every year, there is a "free student" admitted by this admissions office.

When I was a child, I often heard my father say that there was a family named Lao Liu in his hometown. The son of Lao Liu was admitted to Tsinghua University and later became a cadre in the county. The old Liu and his wife are the farmer of the book. From the age of his generation, there are seven or eight generations of farmers. However, this old Liu has caused many villagers in his hometown to have doubts. The children’s academic performance is as good as it is. Learning is so hard, and it takes a lot of money to go to college. This old Liu’s family must be very simple. In fact, they don't have any money, they don't have any connections, and they don't even have culture. They are weak and honest, and life is so simple and plain that they have been wearing patched clothes in my memory. I think they have such a good son in their family but there are other reasons. According to the old people in the village, when their children were in the middle of the country, the old Liu and his wife sold the tile houses in their homes and moved from the countryside to Luji Street to live. Into the grass house that I rented, in that era it was a move that made people inexplicable. My father once said that on the hot summer night, the old Liu family’s children would always sit down and learn from the grape racks in the courtyard, and his mother would always stand behind him and shake him with the fan, so he waved. Shake out the hope of the child's future, and shake out a world that they have never seen before.

The parents have never been to a big city in their lifetime. When the children were cadres in the county, they never showed off to others. They still picked up the crops in the field during the day and sat down in the courtyard at night. When I returned to my hometown many years ago, my father once pointed to a tombstone and said, "Oh, this is the old Liu couple." The tombstone is very large, and there are inscriptions in the body. When people in the country pass by, they will always admire the second sound, saying that their parents have no culture, and they have had such a worthy son for a lifetime.

This reminds me of the allusion to the "Meng Zisheng has a good quality, the young is the mother of the three mothers." This story contains the painstaking and hopeful hopes of countless parents in the world, which seems to have a similar impediment to our current relocation. Let these moving parents have a belief in the ideal of the other side.

Accompaniment is an inevitable product of the development of modern society. The main body of this phenomenon is usually in the countryside. Of course, there are also in the city, but their background and economic conditions are superior to those of rural people. In addition, people in the city generally have fixed occupations. It is difficult to accompany the child to study practically. Rural people are different. Although accompanying reading will affect the family's income and life, rural children have to go to the county town once they are admitted to high school, because there is no high school in the rural areas of my hometown. It seems that there is no difficulty in thinking about these things in the city. But in the case of rural children, getting into high school means that they have to go out, not only to be independent in life but also to be conscious in learning. In recent years, there have been more and more migrant workers in rural areas, and fewer and fewer people have been able to stay with their children. Although some children have repeatedly begged their parents and called for them to stay, but in order to live they have to kneel down and throw their wives out of the house. Even though the media in the society are constantly calling for concerns about the lives of left-behind children, the current working groups in the rural areas are still growing day by day.

I dare to assert that the hardships of such accompanying readings will certainly become the most touching and memorable subject matter of future generations. A large number of successful people between the business community and the officialdom may have the experience of being accompanied by their parents. They may be slumbering on a quiet night to relive the hard life of their parents in the morning, reminiscent of their own sitting under the grape rack and learning to live in the rain, perhaps there is a kindness behind him. Mother, she is also shaking her hair and staying with her.

Rural people want children to have a good learning environment only to go to the county, a family living in the hearts of the backcountry for generations will always produce more or less inferiority. Therefore, they are eager to go out and long for their children to achieve academic success. This desire has become the spiritual pillar of their hard work and hard work, and their tired eyes have always revealed their longing for and hope for the future of their children.

It is obvious that the children in the countryside go to the city to pay more than the children in the city. The father will occasionally talk to me about his teenage reading, and every time he will cry, his father is a high school that he read in 58 years. The school is more than 70 miles away from our home in Aiyuan Town. At that time, it is very difficult for the rural people to abandon their families. The father’s daily meal in the school is only one sweet potato, and the hungry body is often weak and groggy. When I go home on Sunday, I have to walk on the country road for more than three hours. The sweet potato I eat from the school is taken from home at school on Monday. The family is reluctant to eat, but the last home even has a sweet potato every day. No more. There is no way for a father to be forced to return to his hometown even if he likes to study. When I was in the first day of school, I had a few classmates to go back again according to the path described by my father. I went to the old school where my father was studying to see it. It was a very difficult journey, although we were already taking the gravel road. But the road of more than 70 miles is still tired and we are scattered. I can imagine how tired my father was when he walked hungry on this high and low country road every week. Perhaps his father thought of reading and shining, so that this belief has always been a sigh of my father. main reason.

There is an intractable entanglement in the thinking of rural people. Those who do not directly engage in labor and who still have wealth are often scholars who are admitted to college. Therefore, rural children have to rely on reading this road to get rid of farming. Although labor is very glorious, but seeing innocent fields, hard-working people, dark faces, they are still guilty, why do we have a glorious life Is it so tired? Nowadays, some children in rural areas can't read books and go to the city. The city has a wide vision and many opportunities have a great relationship with the opportunities of life and the development of the cause. In particular, the enthusiasm of rural people to go to the city in the past few years has intensified, and there has not been any sharp decline. I am not alarmist. There are very few students enrolled in the rural areas of my hometown. The country is facing difficulties in the students.

Now my two children have been admitted to key universities, and I have already finished my life. A few days ago, I moved into a newly bought house, which is a more prosperous place near the county. I can hear the sound of the book from the campus without going out in the morning. Some of the houses in this community have also been rented for accompanying reading. Most of these people are from the countryside and I am the same as I was. I have one at the opposite door. On the day I moved, he was standing at the entrance of the corridor. I saw that I nodded frequently and was the first time I met the neighbors. He is about sixty years old, and he has seen a lot of white hair between the two. Slightly speaking, he knew that he and I were fellow villagers, but when my father saw him, he was shocked. He turned out to be the one in my hometown who was accompanied by his parents and studied hard under the grape rack. Father and him. It seems to be particularly familiar with them sitting and chatting for a long time.

Now I am a little confused. This Mr. Liu’s parents have gone out of their homes. They have been accompanied by Mr. Liu to enter the university. Now I see Mr. Liu who brought him like his parents. The grandson reading, why are these children's readings so difficult and difficult? If my child's academic success is like the same Mr. Liu, then what is the prospect of our parents' eagerness to think about? What if my child would like to retire in the future and still have to worry about reading for future generations? What about it? Really, I can't answer so many questions!