Surpassed the bottom of life

Fortunately, when I was in college, I caught up with the rise of Taobao. I was the first batch of Taobao sellers. Through the platform of Ma’s boss, I earned more than 100,000 yuan during college. I didn't spend a lot of money on this money and I got rid of it. After graduating from college, everyone is not going to be a small white-collar worker in the south, or to enter a public institution, a state-owned enterprise or a civil servant by relying on the relationship at home, and I have already made the next plan.

In the first year after graduating from college, I rented a shop in a small county in the province and started my small restaurant boss career. It really started earlier than chicken and was more tired than cattle. Because it is a barbecue, every night until two in the morning to sleep. In order to save labor, I also worked as a waiter, and the turnover rate of the catering industry was very high. I became a versatile shopper, sourcing, pickling, ingredients, skewers... but I also got what I deserved. thing.

In the second year, I opened a bigger store. In this way, after three years of graduation, I have four stores. The four stores are barbecue, hot pot, Korean cuisine, and northeast farmhouse dishes. In the catering industry, every project has a low season, but if you open a few more projects, the off-season season will be staggered. You will be the peak season every month for 12 months.

Compared with my peers, I have a brilliant life. The annual net profit is more than 1 million. I bought a 160-square-meter river view house and lived a quality life. I don't have to go to the store every day, because every store I hired the manager to manage, I live a good life. When my classmates are still worried about doing a job in the company and considering which company to go to, I am considering which stock to buy and whether to invest in the logistics industry. I seem to get all the things my peers want, and become a so-called winner.

But everything seems to be not so smooth, I really believe that sentence, entrepreneurship is easy, and it is difficult to keep business. Since 2019, my store has been in a downturn. I didn't pay attention to it at first, because there was only a small decline in turnover, but it was because of my lack of attention that the guests lost a lot. At the end of 2019, I went bankrupt, the store was sold out, the house was sold, and the result was still owed hundreds of thousands of debts.

After I graduated from college, I didn't have a class, but in order to survive, I had to find a job and live. It was my greatest belief at the time. However, when I discovered that all the work I could find, even when the service staff in my store was high, I began to doubt my ability.

In fact, if it is just to find a job, it is not so difficult. The difficulty is that I earn 1,500 yuan a month. In what year and month can I pay off hundreds of thousands of debts? The debtor calls the debt every day. Some people even find a debt collection company, beat me up, and must pay back the money within a certain period of time, otherwise I will be one hand.

I don't care about myself, but my parents have to suffer the same mental damage as me every day. I really had this idea for the first time: "Why are you starting a business? Why can't you go to work like an ordinary person? Been to the life of ordinary people? Because you started a business, because your business failed, you are tired of your family!"

Later, because of a friend's call, I want to go abroad for gold. Then I started to operate quickly. Soon, I went to the other side of the globe and started working and making money in a developed country. Work more than 12 hours a day, and work hard, but the reward that the country gives you will make you forget all the tiredness.

I worked hard. Later, through work and internet, I met some local Chinese. We started to form a group and started to work together independently. The money I earned was several times that of my first job. When I saved enough of the debt, and I saved some of the money I developed later, I began to think about the future.

I can't be young forever, and I am very envious of the white-collar workers in suits, but the immigration policy of this country is extremely tight. Some big brothers have been in the past 10 years, but they still have not got their identity. I am not willing to continue this way for the rest of my life. So I decided to go back to China and start over.

I first paid all the debts, and then I still have a part. I decided to study in Japan, start learning Japanese, and start planning my future...

Everyone will experience the downturn in life. In fact, there is really nothing terrible. When I went bankrupt, I used to walk across a window of my 20th floor home the day before I sold my house. I was ready to jump off and get rid of myself. I was picked up by my dad. We cried and cried, my dad said a word that I could never forget in my life: "Men, husband, be strong! There is nothing to go through! If you die, my mother and I will not live!"

Dad’s words made me strong because I know that my life is not just my own. Therefore, even for parents, you must live well.