Giving up is a kind of wisdom

People's emotions always hope to have income, and the more things they have, the happier they will be. Therefore, this person's common sense forces us to follow the path of pursuing acquisition. However, one day, we suddenly realized that our melancholy, boredom, confusion, helplessness, and all unhappiness are all related to our requirements. The reason why we are not happy is that we are eager to have too many things, or, too. Obsessed, unconsciously, we have been obsessed with something.

In our usual thinking, we always think that the continuation of life will give us more gains, so we will not consider giving up. However, he never gave up his own feelings and never gave up as a fixed philosophy of life. Therefore, many people are always reluctant to give up when they are faced with a choice, and they lose their wife and lose their soldiers.

In the face of complex life, we can't just master a set of philosophy, thinking that as long as we understand a truth, we can be unimpeded. In fact, as long as the acquisition is often just psychologically calm, and giving up requires great courage. To control the boat of life, we are faced with an eternal theme: that is, to learn to give up. A little girl picking up a shell just went to the beach and licked her two shells. The mother said to her daughter, "Let's put down your hands first, and then you will find a more beautiful shell." The little girl's mother wanted to tell her this: In the footsteps of growing up, she has to give up more, whether she wants or not.

If you only know how to hold on, or even greedy, then, in the face of the world of flamboyant flowers, how many temptations to resist? When a person who is more perfect than your original appears, when something more obsessive to you appears If you accept it without consideration, it will bring endless pressure and pain that is difficult to get rid of, and even destroy yourself. Not because some people are insatiable, the red flag in the house does not fall, the flags outside are fluttering, and eventually the wife and the ion are scattered.

The wise man said: "The two disadvantages are balanced, and the two interests are taken seriously." If you do not distinguish between right and wrong, you only think that people should never give up. Then, in the end, you can only bear the consequences. Human beings are responsible for a heavier load of life because of a psychology that they do not want to give up. People always shout when they walk: "Tired, tired!" But I can't bear to put down the burden of the shoulders that I can't breathe. I think that when I get to the end, it will be a harvest. I don't know if someone is overwhelmed because they can't carry the load. , can't get up again.

For example, if you fall in love with a person, but he does not love you, your world will be slightly in the feelings of him. His one-handed and one-shot can attract your attention and become a The source of your happiness and pain. Sometimes, you know that it is not yours, but you want to force it, or you may be blindly confident, or believe too much in your sincerity, and the stone is open. As a result, you continue to work hard, but you are constantly frustrated. Some rely on fate, some rely on opportunities, and some need people to appreciate the mood of watching the mountains and seeing the water. It is not their own, and they will not give up.

It is always hard to know how to give up, and walking with a baggage is always very hard.

In our lives, we are always choosing and choosing. We are always eager to take, longing for possession, often neglecting the house, ignoring the opposite of possession--abandonment. Knowing the true meaning of giving up, I also understood the mystery of "missing the East, receiving the mulberry." Knowing the true meaning of giving up, watching all things, and realizing the same vast realm as the world, we naturally know how to give up in a timely manner. This is a good way for us to achieve inner balance and happiness.