Do one thing to the extreme, you will see yourself reborn

Hello everyone, the topic I want to talk about today is: To do one thing to the extreme, you will see a little bit different.

I just heard the guests in front of me talking about the goals of many glorious stalwarts. I feel very uncomfortable when compared with them. I have been chased by people who are pushing forward, so there has been no great ideals and goals. I just heard a guest say that he has a five-year plan. Later, I told my friends that I couldn’t do it for five hours, because there were always various unexpected situations in my life, which made me very upset. .

The moderator just said that I have succeeded in my career. In fact, this is not right. Today, my former boss was coming, but I severely refused him. Because he and my previous bosses think that after recruiting me is a stain on their career, they need to spend a lifetime to pay back the stain. My predecessor, HR, is also very headache, so I can't let them see the story of my more blood. My former boss has been very confused. Why do many students like to read my words on the Internet? He feels that people like me who are not good at blood should have no inspirational role. But sometimes when I can't get along, I will read the blog I wrote before, I feel very inspirational.

Before I was 18, all the life was the same as that of many of my classmates, but there was a little bit special. Listening to my mother said that when I was 4 years old, I played the piano and persuaded me; my mother also said that if the teacher can bear it, he will not persuade you to make the money. When I was writing in the third grade, I couldn't write the first essay. I sat on the bench and sat in the kitchen. My mom said while cooking. After a long time, I had to rely on my mother's selfless help to maintain my childhood. The position of the composition altar. My mathematics is particularly bad. My math teacher asserted that I couldn't learn math in my life, but when I was in the middle of the country, I slept in the classroom and suddenly I was fine. I don't know why. When I was in my fourth year, I was fainted in the classroom with my teacher's anger, and then I couldn't mix and transfer. The scores of the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination were almost the same, and they were consistently defeated. After that, I went to an ordinary university. When I was 23, I was very surprised to find severe depression. Another one was severe anxiety. But I think depression is better to listen to. It says "easy suicide, please pay attention to family members." Observe", so I will observe myself every day. When I was 24 years old, I was particularly stupid. My mom came to Beijing to see me. I took her to watch the movie "Du Lala Promotion". My mom finished watching the movie and said, "Whenever you write a book, I am satisfied with the film." So the whole sad feeling reminded before the age of 24, but I have a better quality, that is, shameless, and insist shameless.

My turning point in life began with my graduation into the first company. My HR said a word at the moment I signed the contract. "Your English has no native language, go back and practice." My first reflection was, good sister! Whose native language can have English? Too much!

For a GRE and TOEFL test, I can say that this sentence is very exciting for me. I have not said that in the company for three years. But I quickly thought of a question. Am I really going to make up my English? In such a particularly gorgeous foreign company, everyone is better than me in English. 90% of the employees come from foreign language schools or foreign language departments of any university or foreign universities. I can't compare them with them, no matter what I can compare. So at this time, I think I will make up my mother tongue or make up for English. Later, I will make up my mother tongue. I can't play English. I play with you in my native language.

Then I decided to write! This is the first thing I can do in my life. I started to write a blog. This blog started to be written in June 2019. At that time, I went home every night no matter how many days, because I did PR. In the first year, I was particularly hard. I went home at 11:00 every night. I also insisted on writing about 1500 words of dog blood. Because it was too bloody, it was frequently pushed on the Sina homepage. So far, this blog has been written for two and a half years, and nearly 300 articles were published intensively during that time. At that time, I basically slept at two or three o'clock, so I now have all kinds of physical illnesses left at that time. I got up at 8 o'clock and usually got late. When I got late, the boss criticized. I always followed the spirit of "changing the mistakes, changing the crimes, and tempering."

Many people won't believe that one thing you have been doing, it will always change qualitatively. I don't believe it, but I didn't think so much. In the third month after I wrote the blog, I received a draft of the media, which made me believe that the quality of the advantages I might write changed! At the time of six months, there was a press release, but the manuscript was never written because all the publishers wanted me to write a story about Durala after 85, but I couldn't write that. I have been thinking for three years, and I am going to go home this year to write a version that I like. This book will be listed next May with the book of the classical teacher. Although blog hits are not a number that shows value, how much is useful. My article took about one year to reach the first one million, two million for six months, three million for three months, and now it seems to be about 3.8 million, I have not counted again. .

This tiny thing makes me feel that one thing has been insisted on doing it, and it will have a qualitative change process. Many people will think that I was born in the Chinese Department. In fact, I used to study chemistry, and later I transferred to the Chinese Department. I turned myself into a deeper abyss. I don't have much talent. I just want to spell my mother tongue with others. Later I found out that I can finally stand up safely in my native language without having to spell English with others. This is the only place I feel more comfortable. I have always felt that my first book is a book with the theme of my blog post. There are various publishers coming to the draft. I am trying to cooperate with them, but I have never had this book. This sudden unexpected thing interrupted my life. I completed my childhood dream and went to Taiwan. After I came back, I wrote an article on the blog. When I was writing, I thought about a lot of people traveling around the world, a lot of articles, and a lot of travel names, but I am nothing, so I don't want to write a lot of scenery and food, I just want to write something that others have not written.

In fact, this thinking is very simple. If you do one thing, no one does it. The garbage you do is also the first one. You are also a person who can never be surpassed. So I wrote a series of stories about my dog ​​blood in Taiwan, including those that made many readers fall in love. When it comes to affair, this blog has a particularly high click on the blog. Many people shed tears after reading it, crying to die, and hoping that they will have such a romantic ambiguity. In fact, this is an unfortunate one!

Later, my writings and photos in Taiwan were very hot, probably because too many people wrote landscape food, no one wrote the story between people! In fact, I didn't like to read the articles of scenic food since I was a child. I like feelings, I like the smile of people and the feeling of small life. After the article was fired on the mainland and Taiwan for three months, I received an invitation from Taiwan Tianxia Culture Publishing House to start sorting out the Internet text into a book, which was later the version of "From Beijing to Taiwan, so close." The mainland can only buy the one in Taobao. The mainland is still waiting for some reasons for the review. It is expected to be listed in March-April this year. The content has not been heard about the changes for the time being. You can rest assured.

This is in May, when I signed a sale in Taiwan, I took my mom and looked at how my dreams come true. When I came back, I happened to have such a thing. When I entered Taiwan the year before, I entered the country with a business visa, but I ran to travel. Now that I was discovered, I became illegal and entered the country with a little confusion. . At those times, I often put the headline of “Chinese youth writers” on the front page. This is the first time I saw someone saying that I am a writer, which made me very flattered. Later, this incident spread to some overseas media, and many overseas Chinese newspapers echoed and reported reprints, which made me a bit flustered. At that time, there was a Taiwanese news called plasticizer. The plasticizer saved me. The first place in Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan media list is plasticizer, the second one is me; in overseas newspapers, I and Kazafei A layout in Libya, such as a newspaper in Australia one day. Although this is not a very good thing, it is especially fun that I have a lot of friends abroad, and even their parents are very excited to see my news. Their children, my classmates, have scanned Passed to the country and saw the latest developments in my world.

At that time, I was particularly depressed. You will see a lot of negative news and positive news. When the negative news is attacked, my book is selling very well, but at this time you must also bear a lot of pressure and hardship. I often couldn't sleep during that time, and I was very nervous during the day. Now I think of it, but it is a precious treasure. For example, news like this, in fact, I am also wronged, so many people have detected me alone, but I must admit that I have made mistakes, and have the courage to shoulder such responsibility and pressure. At that time, I saw Fan Bing’s words: “How much praise can be afforded, how much damage can be withstood”, which made me very moved. A negative thing, can practice your psychological endurance and expand your heart. To be a person, you must see the pattern of learning, not your own grievances or small interests in front of you.

At that time, when the news was very hot, many directors came to me. At that time, I didn't want to provoke any news, so I refused them and they did all kinds of lobbying. One of the directors lobbied for half a year, not only for his lobbying, but also for his friends and friends who had been lobbying, so I have been eating and thinking for various kinds of people for half a year. He talked a lot to me, such as from the individual, from the dream, from the meaning of life, from the cross-strait relations, talking about the high and low. For me, I found that I gave up because I was afraid of too much, and this should not be what I am. Youth is to run bravely, run to the place you want.

So, I decided to sign the film and television license and make my book into a movie. This movie, because I am only signing the right to sell, I don't know the situation of all investors and actors. The actor may have Mr. Li Zongsheng to play the uncle who met on the plane. I still hope that there will be Mayday, the crew is talking, I am not. Too clear.

This series of things has made many people think that I am doing public relations. I should push these things forward. But in fact, no, I am a very lazy person, can do it without doing it, can drag and drop, like this PPT speech today is also finished at four in the morning. I have been dragged forward in the past two years, but there is only one origin of all things, that is, "I want to write, I want to use the mother tongue to defeat the English dogma in foreign companies!"

Looking back at these messy things outside of these two years of work will make me believe more in the truth, "When you do one thing perfectly, there will be something that will come, and the things that come will come, don't fight, they It will come naturally, you only need to concentrate on doing your own thing, and the rest is left to God, he will arrange everything."

What I want to share with you today is such a simple truth. There is no particularly ambitious goal or ambition or a vision. After I signed the contract with the director that day, I asked my mom, "When we watched the Du Lala movie last time, have you thought about it today?" My mom said, "Where can I think of it!" I asked again. When I was 24, you said a word and said that when I wrote the book, I was satisfied with the film. I signed it, I can see it next year, and it is the first film between the mainland and Taiwan to make a new record. Satisfied yet?" I want to hear my mom say that I am satisfied. As a result, my mom added another sentence, "When will you find me a reliable son-in-law, I will be satisfied." God! It’s getting worse!

I will share it here today, I wish you all a happy lunch.