Confidence is the sunshine that illuminates success

Confidence is a bundle of sunshine that illuminates the path of success in life and is a catalyst for success. People with self-confidence make it easier for them to get their abilities, so they will get more exercise opportunities and make them more capable people. The wise men are often very confident, they never guilty and blame themselves; they have a strong sense of consciousness, can seize every one ten thousand chance, enjoy the joy of success; fools lack confidence, do things without passion, they will be small There are no regrets about negligence, and even less dare to go with others. They live in their own narrow, dark, psychological space without sunshine. There is no such thing. A person who truly has confidence will not let his life drift with the flow, they will tighten their throats and become masters.

The wise man does not cry for the spilled milk, and the fool often takes the punishment for himself.

In life, failures, mistakes and inevitable are inevitable, and we cannot refuse them. The wise man often looks at failures and mistakes in terms of Daguan. They know that what has happened is the fact that they cannot be changed. Even if it is just a minute, only to bravely face it, calmly analyze past mistakes and causes, and learn from them. Useful lessons, re-invest in new things, avoiding similar mistakes; fools will worry about past mistakes and fall into them, but they will not be able to extricate themselves, but they will not help, except for increasing mental pain. There is no point at all, because there is no panacea for healing in the world. At the beginning, Carnegie held an adult class in Missouri and opened branches in major cities. Due to the lack of money, his income was just enough to spend, and the hard work for several months did not return. He spent a lot of money on advertising, and the rent, daily office and other expenses were also very large. Although he had a lot of income, after a while, he found that he didn't even earn a penny.

Carnegie constantly complained about his negligence. This state lasted for a long time, he has been very, all day long, unhappy, look stunned, and seeing the beginning will not continue. Finally, Carnegie went to the physical teacher Dr. Paul Brandwell. The teacher asked him if he still remembered the phrase "Don't cry for the spilled milk" that the teacher told him when he was in high school. The wise man passed through, and after listening to the teacher's words, Carnegie suddenly realized that he immediately remembered the past event when he was in high school, so the spirit was greatly shaken and the disappearance of his heart disappeared without a trace. In his first physical hygiene class at the middle school, Dr. Paul Brandwell put a bottle of milk on the table. They all sat down and looked at the bottle of milk. Then, Dr. Paul Brandwell suddenly stood up and broke the bottle of milk in the sink with a palm and shouted: "Don't cry for the spilled milk!"

Then he asked the students to go to the sink and take a good look at the bottle of spilled milk. He told the students: "Let's take a good look, because I want you to remember this lesson in your life. This bottle of milk is gone. You can see that it is leaking, no matter how you complain, how to worry, It’s impossible to save another drop. Just move the brain first and prevent it first, then the bottle of milk can be kept, but it’s too late. Now all we can do is forget it, pay attention to the next thing. That is to say, for irreparable mistakes, regret, blame, and depression will not help, but will hinder the new pace of progress. The best way is to forget it and start over. Yes, the milk is overturned and leaked. What should I do? Is it to watch the overturned milk crying, or do something else? Remember, the overturned milk is a fact, it is impossible to reload the bottle. The only thing we can do is to find out the lesson and then forget about these unpleasantness. The famous Spanish writer Cervantes said: "The memory of the past misfortunes constitutes a new misfortune." If you have a chance to remedy the mistakes of the past, you will try your best to remedy them. If you have no chance to remedy, you will definitely throw them aside. Trapped in the muds of past failures, deeper and deeper, unable to extricate themselves. Life has its own process. It is a combination of countless events. It is sometimes difficult to say that things are good or bad in general. In order to avoid blaming myself and alleviating the troubles, I should think that my ability is limited. After all, this can only reach this level; even though it is difficult to completely change at one time; at the same time, we must understand the dialectic of social and life changes. Relationship, it is impossible to know that everything is satisfactory. As long as you are unremitting, there is always a way out. As the saying goes: "There must be a road before the car goes to the mountain." Don't regard the temporary difficulties as permanent difficulties. Don't regard the local difficulties as the overall difficulty. In this way, many troubles will disappear, and many problems will be solved.

The famous French poet Baudelaire said: "No work is long-lasting, except for the work that you dare not start."

A mountain fire caused by lightning has turned the beautiful "forest manor" that Paul Dick has just inherited from his grandfather into ashes. Focusing on the black stump, Paul wants to cry without tears. Young, he was not willing to be ruined for a hundred years, and determined to dump all of his estates, so he submitted a loan application to the bank, but the bank refused him mercilessly. Next, he asked for a close friend, but no one gave him a helping hand. All possible methods have been tried, and Paul has never found a way out. He knew that he would never see the lush forest anymore. His heart is struggling in the endless darkness. To this end, his eyes were bloodshot, closed all day, and the tea did not think.

After a while, the elder grandmother, who was already old, learned about the matter and said to Paul meaningfully: "Young man, the manor has become a ruin and it is not terrible. The terrible thing is that your eyes are getting old and lost, and you have lost your luster. How can the lustrous eyes see hope?"

Then, the grandmother told him a story with a profound meaning.

A long time ago, a hunter captured a very beautiful bird that could only be said. The bird said: "If you can let me go, I will give you three advices."

The hunter replied: "I swear I will let you go, but you have to tell me which three advices."

The bird said: "Do not regret things. This is the first piece of advice."

The hunter nodded.

The bird went on to say: "The second piece of advice is: If someone tells you something that you think is impossible, don't do it."

The hunter nodded again.

"The third piece of advice is: Don't bother to climb when you can't climb."

Then the bird said to the hunter: "Let me leave." The hunter put the bird according to the words.

The bird quickly flew to a big tree and shouted to the hunter: "You stupid guy. You let me go, but you don't know that there is a big pearl in my mouth." It is this pearl that makes me so smart."

The hunter ran to the tree and began to climb the tree, trying to capture the flying bird again. But when he climbed halfway, he fell and broke his legs. The bird sneered at him again: "Stupid! I just told you the advice you have forgotten. I told you not to regret once you did something, but you regretted letting me go. If someone told you What you think is impossible, don't, and you have a big bird in the mouth of a bird like me. If you can't climb, don't force yourself to climb, but you chase me and Trying to climb the big tree, the result fell and broke his legs."

Finally, the grandmother said with deep meaning: "The past failure is like a beautiful bird. Although it has precious pearls in its mouth, it flies away. You can't catch it anymore. Only it, start again."

Under the persuasion of his grandmother, Paul walked to the manor and embarked on the streets of late autumn. He wandered aimlessly. At the corner of a street, he saw the front of a shop swaying. He walked over. It turned out that some women were lining up to buy charcoal. The piece of charcoal made Paul’s eyes shine. He saw it. A glimmer of hope. In the next two weeks, Paul hired several charcoal workers to process the charred trees in the manor into high-quality charcoal, which were packed into boxes and sent to the market. The result was sold out and he got a sum of money. A lot of income. Soon, he used the money to buy a large number of saplings, and a new manor began to take shape. After a few years, the "forest manor" was once again green.

"Don't punish yourself for failure." Ask yourself, many of the troubles in life often arise from the fact that you can't go with yourself. If a person is not a sage, who can be without it? If there is a bit of fault, trouble, and it will sink into endless self-blame, grief, and regret, then life will be like Tagore’s: not only lost The midday sun will lose the stars of the night. Others have made small mistakes. Although they have not been punished, they are too guilty of self-blame, they are insulting themselves, they hate themselves, they are suffering from self-discipline, and they always feel that others are blaming themselves. Deep and simple, isolated from the world. This not only loses the state of mind, but also affects the mental state of the self. Therefore, we should, like the wise man, "not crying for the spilled milk", live and work happily. Don't take "failure to punish yourself", only the fool will do that. The wise man overcomes inferiority, the fool is captured by inferiority

People can't be very good in every way, they have more or less defects in some respects, that is, those great men are no exception, even their flaws are terrible? Napoleon's short, Lincoln's ugly, Roosevelt's Pediatric paralysis, Churchill's bloated, which is not equally unpleasant to live? But they have a brilliant life!

The difference between wise men and fools in life is that wise men are more confident and energetic. Self-confidence makes the wise man stretch his brows, his waist is straight and sturdy, as if he is bathed in the sun all the time; the fools are not, even if they are rich and powerful, they are always gray and fragile. Inferiority is a natural attribute of human beings. It is a negative emotion that human individuals evaluate low on their ability and quality. The difference is that the wise man can overcome this feeling of inferiority and make himself live comfortably; the fools blindly and even over-recognize their own deficiencies, they fall into deep inferiority, so they just work hard, work hard, never dare to ask A little bit of your own opinion, anyone drives. In the life of the fool, in addition to doing coolies, there is no tree.

There are many reasons for the inferiority of the fools. If there is no money for Bill Gates, no O'Neill's strength and Yao Ming's height, no Einstein's... even the insignificant defects have become their great illness.

There is a beautiful girl who is very inferior to a small eye on her ear, so she goes to the psychiatrist for consultation. The doctor asked her how big her eyes were. Can anyone see it? She said that she brushed her hair and covered her ears. Her eyes were just a small eye. She could pass through the earrings, but she was not wearing earrings. The doctor asked her again: "Is there anything important?"

"Hey, I am missing a piece of meat than others, I am special and inferior!"

The existence of a sense of inferiority makes the fools unable to see their own advantages, without confidence, and then pessimistic disappointment, not thinking about progress. If a person falls into the abyss of inferiority, then he will be severely bound, and his intelligence will not be able to play. So inferiority is a stumbling block to success.

In the discovery of the double helix structure of DNA, in 1951, when Franklin of the United Kingdom discovered the double helix of DNA from his own X-ray photograph, he found that he made a speech, but because of his inferiority, he Again and again, finally. In 1953, scientists Watson and Crick also discovered the same phenomenon, which proposed the double helix structure hypothesis of DNA, which enabled people to enter the biological era, and thus won the 1962 Nobel Prize in Medicine. What a pity, if it is not inferiority, this discovery should be recorded on Franklin's head. Inferiority made him pass the Nobel Prize. Most of the wise men have also humiliated, but they dare to withstand the cold wind, overcome the defects that exist in themselves, and embark on the peak of glory.

Perhaps many people don't know that the ball king Bailey, who has made countless fans dumped, used to be a cowardly intimidating coward. When he learned that he was selected for the most famous Santos football team in Brazil, he was nervous and stayed up all night. Because of his lack of self-confidence, an unprecedented suspicion and fear made Pele sleepless.

Involuntarily Bailey came to the Santos football team. "The formal training started, I was scared almost to be embarrassed." He walked into a famous team like this.

The coach of the first game let him play and let him play the main center. The nervous Bailey's legs seemed to grow on others, and they didn't return to God for a long time. Every time the ball rolls to his side, he is like hitting someone else's fist to hit him. After he was almost forced to play, he desperately ran wildly on the court. He only had football in his eyes and resumed his normal level. The football stars who made Bailey deeply feared, no one actually despised Pele, and he was quite friendly to him. If Pele had a little stronger self-confidence, he would not suffer so much mentality.

Bailey’s nervousness and inferiority are because he sees himself too heavy. He has a strong self-respect and self-esteem, and he has been able to do anything that is difficult to achieve. He is only thinking about how others will treat themselves. How can this not lead to embarrassment and inferiority?

When the strong also has weakness, the strong ones become strong, and they are good at defeating their weakness.

The process of Bailey's victory over inferiority tells us to try not to pay attention to the doubts that make you think that you can't succeed. If you go forward, fight hard and do it boldly. The result is often not really failure. Everyone has more talents and talents than others, and fostering strengths and avoiding weaknesses is both an effective way to build confidence and a way to win. Carnegie believes that confidence and courage can lead to an excitement of emotions, which will make the whole person suddenly feel like being "charged", immediately creating a solution to the problem, and asking himself to handle things very much.

When we make up our minds and face difficulties with unparalleled confidence and courage, we will soon become more brilliant and clear-headed. However, when we are trapped by inferiority, we tend to become lazy and unresponsive.

Solving the problem of inferiority is a hard and painful thing. Once people are trapped, they will be limited by their enthusiasm. At this time, only with unparalleled confidence and courage and determination to overcome, can we see the clouds and see the clarification.

In the world, all the outstanding figures and strong people should have nothing to do with inferiority, but the problem is that no one is a good or strong person in all aspects of physiology, psychology, knowledge, ability and even life. Looking at people from this perspective will naturally discover that no one in the world does not feel inferior, but that the form of inferiority is different from the degree. The famous American movie star Stallone grew up in the violence of fists and feet, because his father is a gambler and his mother is an alcoholic. When I was a child, my father gambled and lost, and then beat his wife and beat him. The mother was drunk and took him out to vent. So that he is often skinny, nose and face swollen. Because of his general appearance and academic performance, high school dropped out of school and was mixed in the street.

Until he was 20 years old, an accidental little thing irritated him and made him wake up and reflect: "No, no more. If you continue this way, isn't it the same as your own? No, I must succeed!"

So Stallone is determined to live a personal sample, to take a different road. But what to do? In politics, the possibility is almost zero; because he does not have a diploma and diploma, it is impossible to enter the company; if he does business, there is no capital... He thinks long. In the absence of other ways out, he thought of being an actor. Because when an actor does not need to examine past experiences, he does not need capital and diplomas. Once successful, he can fame and fortune. However, he obviously does not have the conditions of an actor. It is difficult to make people feel confident and have not received any professional training. There is no sign of "natural talent".

However, the driving force of "must be successful" prompted him to believe that he would never, this is his only opportunity in this life and in this world, must be successful! Stallone is full of confidence in himself.

So he came to Hollywood alone, looking for stars, looking for directors, looking for producers... looking for anyone who might make him an actor. He sells himself everywhere: "Give me a chance, I want to be an actor, I will succeed!"

He was rejected again and again, but he was not discouraged. He understands that failure is the mother of success. Every time he is rejected, he will seriously reflect, review and study once.

Is there really no hope? Is it true that gamblers and alcoholic sons can only be gamblers and drunks? Stallone secretly shed tears and cry. No, I must succeed! In the blink of an eye, two years have passed, and the money has been spent. He has to do some physical work in Hollywood to make a living. Later, he came up with a way to "go forward": first write the script, wait for the script to be seen by the director, and then ask to be an actor.

At that time, he was not a layman when he first came. For more than two years, every refusal was an opportunity for progress, and one oral pass was learned. Therefore, he already has the basic knowledge of writing a screenplay.

After another year, the script was written, and Stallone visited the director. "How about this script, let me be the actor!" The general reflection of the directors is that the script is OK, but let him be the leading actor. Big jokes. He was rejected again.

He kept saying to himself: "I must succeed, maybe the next time, the next time, the next time..."

One day after he had been rejected more than 1,200 times, a director who had rejected him more than 20 times was his spirit: "I am not sure if you can perform well, but you will never be spirited. I can Give you a chance, but not a movie but a TV series. At the same time, just take an episode and let you be the actor and see how it works. If the effect is not good, you should stop coming." This moment has finally arrived. Although a bit late, Stallone can finally try his hand. The opportunity was hard to come by. He did not dare to care about it, but he devoted himself wholeheartedly. I did not expect the first episode of TV drama to set the highest ratings in the United States at the time - he succeeded!

Stallone's success stems from his firm confidence and indomitable spirit. Self-confidence has motivated him to face the refusal and change his way to success.

From the successful process of Bailey and Stallone, we can see that the reason why wise men have great achievements in life is because they raise their self-confidence to a strong degree, so that they can take action, remove all obstacles that lie ahead, and move toward It was a success. Fools are not fools. They also have the same intelligent mind as wise men. But because of the inferiority complex, they can never surpass themselves. In the end, they are defeated by themselves in their struggles of life. They have nothing to do and hate for life. The wise man is full of enthusiasm for life, the fool is lack of passion

How we treat life, how life will treat us.

Psychologist Steven Covey once warned us that people are treating the most miraculous forces in the world, with enthusiasm, passion and hope to actively invest in life and work, to promote a person to a higher level; On the contrary, with negatives of disappointment, resentment and pessimism, one can destroy one person.

The wise men are full of enthusiasm for life and work. They never complain about the environment of others and life and work. Once they choose their own, they will be passionately involved and use their enthusiasm to melt the dilemmas and obstacles on the way forward. They truly have the world. The people who own it; the fools lack passion for life and work, they don’t have their own real, often the mountain looks at the mountain, the life is a little bit, they are lazy, and the work is a little unsatisfactory, they will blame the people, and wait for many years later to look back. However, I found that I had nothing to do. After graduating, Zhang Jun almost changed his job every year. First, I was a secretary in the office. Soon, I felt that the work was uninteresting. After one year, the health care products were very prosperous, and they applied to a biopharmaceutical company to become a salesman. How long did it take, the health care product market was sluggish. At this time, a person pulled him to a planning company, and his monthly salary was not bad. He went to work the next day. This time I have been working for another year. Although the income is more than before, he feels that there is still a long way to go to get rid of poverty.

An occasional chance to meet an old classmate, he opened a small trading company, from the south to the north to pour some hot goods, "money" scene attractive, is in need of help. Zhang Jun did not hesitate to join his trading company. Six months later, the company turned weak and Zhang Jun went to an advertising company. Not long after, the street was full of advertising business staff, he went to the newspaper as a reporter ... which company can make more money than the original company, he will be happy to go. This kind of tossing to toss, although I also earned some small money, life has been improved a little, but often calm down, but will find that he is actually nothing.

Looking at colleagues who have fought side by side in the past, many people have laid a solid foundation in their field, and some have even become famous in the industry. What he did was to improve the standard of food. According to himself, he didn't have much interest in every kind of work, just thinking about it. In fact, this is a manifestation of lack of enthusiasm and passion for life and work.

People who lack enthusiasm and passion for life and work are easily influenced by their own pessimistic emotions, which make them lose their confidence and become depressed. Sometimes opportunities are right around them, at your fingertips, but because of bad emotions. The interference, he will also let the opportunity and slip away from the side. One day, Oscar was on the train station in Oklahoma City, ready to take the train to the east. He has been in the western desert region with temperatures of more than 40 degrees for several months because he is exploring oil for a company.

Oscar is a graduate of the Massachusetts Institute of Technology. He combined old-style prospecting rods, ammeters, magnetometers, oscilloscopes, tubes and other instruments into a new instrument for oil exploration.

Just as he was working with confidence and passion, Oscar learned that his company was bankrupt because he could not pay his debts. Oscar embarked on his way home, he was unemployed, and the prospects were rather bleak. The enthusiasm and passion for his work in his heart disappeared all at once.

Since he had to wait a few hours at the train station, he decided to set up his prospecting equipment there to kill. The readings on the instrument indicate that there is a large amount of oil in the underground of the station. But Oscar didn't do it all. He kicked the instruments in anger.

"It's impossible to have so much oil here! There can't be so much oil here!" he replied very resentfully.

Soon after, people found that Oklahoma City had abundant oil resources underground, and it is no exaggeration to say that the city is floating on oil.

Oscar has produced pessimistic negatives because of unemployment. Even if the opportunity he had been looking for lies at his feet, he is not able to grasp it because of lack of passion.

Passion for life is one of the important principles of success. Enthusiasm and passion will make you confident in yourself when you need it most.

With positive, passionate about life, you will continue until you have what you are looking for.

Without enthusiasm, the lack of passion is that sitting in the gold mine can not see gold, because his heart has been captured by a pessimistic mood.

Enthusiasm is a spontaneous force, and it is an energy source that helps you concentrate your strength on something. It can make you feel fearless, inspire your potential, overcome difficulties, and create miracles. One day in August 1492, Columbus led a sailing team and they were dispatched by the King of Spain to find the "New World." After sailing for more than a month in the boundless sea, they never saw the shadow of the land. What you can see in front of you is just the endless sea. The sailors on the boat began to be depressed, regretting that they should follow the madman called Columbus to find the land of the ghosts! Some sailors lazily lay on the deck, in the cabin, screaming in the mouth, and some sailors could not help Go to question Columbus: "Mr. Admiral, where are you going to take us?" "Where is the land? The ghost knows!" "I don't want to do it, I want to go back!" However, Columbus never wavered, No complaints, there is a huge force in his heart to support him, that is - enthusiasm. He just kept on moving. After seeing a globe that his professor gave him and a map across the Atlantic, he was more determined. He confidently said to the players: "I can find the land after 3 days. By that time, I will pay you double the salary." Sure enough, one sailor stood on the high mast one surprise. Cried: "Land! Land! Land!" Everyone saw the flat sand dunes not far from the dim moonlight. They hugged, jumped, and some of the crew even jumped up and danced. This land was named by Columbus as San Salvador, meaning “savior”. Those who have been complaining all the time are very embarrassed, they are more admired by Columbus.

After more than two months of investigation on land, Columbus left 39 sailors on the island, built houses for them, and left what they had eaten for a year, and they returned home with other sailors. On the way back, unfortunately, I encountered a storm that was frightening. The huge waves that were blown by the wind rushed to the ship, hit the deck, the mast was blown off, and the sail was blown apart. Everyone feels the fear of death. As a result, some sailors began to complain again. They took Columbus to take them to death, they were too stupid, regret doing it and not staying on the land? They also blamed the ghost weather, complaining that the ship was too broken... But Columbus still calmly doing what he thought should be done. In fact, he knows more about the difficulties he faces than the rest of the ship, but he does not think about complaining, but thinks about how to deal with the problems that have already occurred and how to solve them. In order to report the maritime situation to the King of Spain, Columbus asked the crew to tie him to a fixed chair, tied a large plank to his knees, found parchment, and found the New World and 39 sailors on the island. Recorded, and then wrapped the paper in a waxed linen cloth and stuffed it into a small wooden barrel. After doing this, he untied the rope tied to his body, stumbled onto the deck, and dropped the small barrel into the sea. Fortunately, the ship finally withstood the hurricane and returned to Spain in a twist. The parrots, spears, ornate feathers he brought back made the Spaniards know another world. Columbus's success is made up of many factors. However, if he always complains when he encounters difficulties, he can't act decisively, he can't find land, and he can't return to Spain safely. What makes him different is his enthusiasm for sailing adventures. Stay away from complaints, calmly face reality, accept facts, and actively find ways to solve problems. This is what a successful person should take when encountering a problem.

It was the enthusiasm of the stepmother, pushing Napoleon Hill to the road to success.

Napoleon Hill lived in a poor country in Virginia when he was a child. At the age of 9, his father took his stepmother into the door. And she is from a better one.

Napoleon Hill’s father introduced to his stepmother and said, “I hope you pay attention to the worst boy in the town. He may throw stones at you tomorrow morning.”

After the stepmother heard these words, she went to Napoleon Hill and held up his head. Then she looked at her husband and said, "You are wrong. This is not the worst in the town, but the smartest boy. But I haven’t found a place to vent my enthusiasm.” Xiao Xi’s after listening to this passage, she started to build with her, which is the paragraph that enabled him to create 17 principles of success. The influence of these principles will be carried forward. No one praised him before she came. Napoleon Hill’s father and neighbors alleged that he was a bad boy, and Napoleon Hill did show some bad behavior to them, but the stepmother only said that. In a word, it changed everything.

She also went to the dentist school with her husband and graduated with honor from the school. She moved her family to the city so that her husband's dental clinic would be better there, and Hill could accept better. Hill’s father initially opposed these suggestions, but in the end he succumbed to her enthusiasm.

When Napoleon Hill was 14 years old, she gave him a used typewriter as a gift and he became a writer. Hill understands her enthusiasm and appreciates her enthusiasm. He saw how her enthusiasm improved her life. Hill accepted her thoughts with gratitude and began contributing to a local newspaper. The stepmother's enthusiasm not only enabled Hill to seize this opportunity, but also paved a solid path for his later success. Hill is not the only one who gets the favor. His father finally became the wealthiest person in the city, and among them were physicists, dentists, lawyers and a principal.

The stepmother's enthusiasm not only shaped a "bad" Napoleon Hill into a successful figure, but also made that poor family a rich life.

Two people are watching the night sky at the same time. One sees a dark night, while the other sees a flashing star. This is the difference between lack of passion and enthusiasm.

People who are passionate about their work often have more opportunities than those who lack passion. Two young people went to a company to apply for a job and called the first job seeker to the office: "What do you think of your original company?"

The job seeker gloomyly replied: "Hey, it's awful. Colleagues are intriguing, intriguing, the department is rude and arrogant, the whole company is suffocating, life is very depressed, so I want to change local."

"I am afraid that it is not your land here." Then, the young man went out with a sad face.

The second job seeker was also asked this question. He replied: "We are very good there. Colleagues are warm and helpful, they are approachable, they care about their subordinates. The whole company has a good atmosphere and a very happy life. If you don't want to play My specialty, I really don't want to leave there.",

"You have been accepted," said the smile.

Dr. Shi Limin, a master of psychology, pointed out: "The enthusiasm is a key to success." Fools usually have a pessimistic "the way to explain things." When a fool encounters, he always says to himself in his heart: "It is so helpless." It is also in vain." Because this pessimistic way is often used to explain things, inadvertently loses passion and does not think aggressively; while wise men are different, they are full of enthusiasm for life, work and others. Let yourself have constant motivation to overcome difficulties and create miracles. They always say to themselves: "I am going, so I win."

The wise man prepares for the worst result, and the fool always goes to the worst.

Sometimes people are really helpless. There are so many things in life that we can't go around, such as living environment, working conditions, sudden disasters, etc., but we should have confidence in ourselves, adapt, and transform these obstacles in front of us. When bad results occur, the wise man never complains or waits, but actively prepares to change the result. He will never give in until the last moment; the fool will sigh "God is so, not human." "!! Just like a sheep that was brought into the abattoir, it was smashed at the neck and did not fight at all. Two different ones will lead to two different ones. A rock climbing girl who challenges her limits and challenges the limits of nature. On this day, she climbed a cliff of more than 30 meters. She untied the rope tied around her waist and prepared to pack it up, so that she could use it when she went down. If she accidentally, the rope slipped down the cliff. She rushed to catch it, but it was too late, and in a twinkling of an eye, the rope had fallen to the ground. She was so anxious that she was sweating.

Can you only be trapped here today? The girl thought helplessly. At this moment, she saw a shepherd boy in the distance, and she quickly called for help. The shepherd boy ran over, he looked up and then shook his head in confusion. The cliff is too high to be rescued. The girl is also anxious, can she be trapped here today? Suddenly she got a chance, she shouted to the shepherd boy: "Don’t worry, I have a way!" She cut her hair and tied it together. Formed a tens of meters long "string" hanging from the cliff. The shepherd boy smashed the rope on the ground into a string of shackles and tied it to the hair. With a little effort, the girl pulled the string on the cliff. After that, the shepherd boy tied the thicker rope to the lower end of the string. In this way, in the end, the girl finally pulled the thick rope up. She fixed the thick rope on the cliff, and along the rope, the girl slipped off the cliff and was out of danger.

When you have nowhere to go, when you are in a desperate situation, you may wish to open your mind, open your mind, ask for help, and there is no way to go. There are always ways. Everything you have should be fully utilized - even fragile hair can create unexpected miracles for you! If the girl is not actively preparing for life, it may be another result.

It is impossible for a ship of life to always advance in the calm sea. When encountering storms and reefs, it will be discouraged and will not have any effect. It is important to strengthen one's belief and be an excellent helmsman. The boat sailed through the storm and the shoal. This is especially true in business. There are two restaurants in Singapore, the location is very poor, the traffic is not convenient, and there are very few meals. The owner of a restaurant, sighing in the face of such a depression all day, blaming himself for not having the vision, should not spend so much money at the beginning, open a restaurant here, this is over, and his own ten years of hard work is worth the loss. It didn't take long for the restaurant to close down. Another restaurant owner also advised him to close the door and find another way out, but the boss did not. He decided to check out the status of other restaurants. He dressed as a restaurant, a restaurant to visit. In the end, the boss found that those restaurants that are located in downtown areas have a common point: “modernism” is full of flavors, and “noisy” can no longer “noisy”. More than once, the boss found some frowning that was not "hot". After a quick meal, he hurried away. The boss remembered the unique and secluded location of his restaurant, and he couldn’t help but try: “What about a quiet and elegant one?”

The boss invited the decorator to carefully decorate the exterior of the restaurant, which is elegant and simple. The decoration in the house is only white and green, white pillars, white tables and chairs, green walls and green flowers. The boss also used the Shakespeare's casks as a wine, and used the "ancient chariot" bought from India as a dish.

The miracle appeared: the people who had already been screamed by the snoring heard that there was a quaint and quiet restaurant to eat, you passed me, I passed him, and all the time, the restaurant suddenly improved.

Under the same conditions, the wise man is fully prepared for good results, to change the disadvantages and to succeed; the fool can only choose after a pessimistic struggle.

There can be no perfect things in life. We must have a positive life like a wise man to look at it at any time. In this way, life will give us positive and generous rewards. If you treat life with the passiveness of a fool, then life will reward you with pessimism. And disappointed. We cannot change the existing environment, but we can be fully prepared for the future. A student of a music school is assigned to a trade union of a company to do propaganda work. At the beginning, he was very convinced that his professional talents were not in line with his work. He continued to work here. Not only would his own future be delayed, but he would be unfamiliar and his profession could be abandoned. So he moved around and wanted to adjust to an environment suitable for his own development. However, after several tossing, it was not successful. After that, he was steadfastly guarded in this job, and he vowed to change the situation of "heroes useless." He found the chairman of the unit trade union and proposed that he should build a band for the company. It is just that this company has just emerged from the bottom, turned losses into a climax of development, and also wants to publicize the corporate image and improve the visibility of the product, and readily agrees with him. This time, he came to the mental head, running the grassroots, searching for, buying equipment, setting up the stage, and doing it. Within half a year, the band took shape. Two years later, the performance level of this corporate band has become the city's first-class, and comparable to professional bands, and he has become a well-known band in the city. Through his own, he completely changed his own environment, and turned disadvantages into advantages. He not only opened up his own ability to display his talents, but also cultivated his talents and laid a solid foundation for him to seek greater development in the future. . When you are in the middle, you may wish to treat your situation with the wise and behavior, and you will get unexpected gains.