The comfort zone will one day destroy the youth

In a big city, the way to abandon a person is particularly simple, giving you a quiet and small space, giving you a network cable, preferably with a takeaway phone. Ok, you are starting to waste.

Take yourself as the center, your own hand as the radius, and start drawing a circle. You will find all the things you need in this circle.

This circle is called the comfort circle.

This month I have been on a business trip all over the country, I went back to Beijing, saw a friend I haven't seen for a long time, went to ktv to sing, he just got fired from the company. I asked him, I haven't seen it for a month, and I have been busy recently.

He said, I am not busy, staying.

I asked him, howling and staying.

He scratched his head and said, I don't know, I feel that time is so fast, and I haven't done it this month.

The friend next to me was in a business, and I was so worried all day, so I asked, I mean, I can still have this state. I don’t know what I did in a month. I want to give you a song, "Where is the time?"

He said, roll.

I said, in fact, I can understand you in particular. Do you feel that you have been particularly carefree this month, and you can’t wait to lose your phone.

He said that the phone still has to be needed, but it is still a bit nervous every time the phone rings, and always feel that the small world of stability is to be broken.

I nodded and thought of a sentence in "Shawshank Redemption": These walls are very interesting. At first you touch it, then you get used to it, and finally you have to rely on it. This is institutionalization.

People have a habit of always staying in a comfortable and familiar environment. Once this "comfort zone" is established, it will become extremely dependent. Slowly fall in love with the surrounding walls and fall in love with this comfortable cabin. So I don't want to fly out and look at it, afraid to see the bustling world outside.

In fact, the comfort zone itself is no problem, just like home, warm and comfortable, everyone has it. But if the strength of the family is too strong and give up the dream of going outside to see, it is a pity. We all had the time to go out and see and stop being stopped by our parents, but most of the children who insisted on going far away did not forget the way home. After returning home, the eyes opened, knowing that the world is getting bigger, I understand that I am small, and most importantly, they are starting to plan for the next trip.

Look, their comfort zone is getting bigger.

I remembered another friend, graduated to go to a state-owned enterprise to work, every day to nine nights, the day is like a clockwork, regular and meaningless, only the weekend, just like being given a soul, dressed and dressed for a date.

I talked to her about the comfort zone. She told me that this is not a comfort zone. I work on time every day, and I am never late, not too early, very regular and hard.

I said that after working for a year, do you feel any change?

She thought about it and said, don't say it, it seems that there is really nothing.

In fact, comfort is divided into two types, one is to do nothing in the sky, the other is more terrible, because it is difficult to realize that it is a meaningless and regular cycle. The latter is the life status of many people: it looks very hard, it looks very tired and busy, but it is a repetition of meaningless circulation. This kind of life, when you live, will only feel comfortable, but there is no essential change. .

I once saw a buddy who charges at the entrance of the hospital. Every day, there is a stinking face. No one can ask him a question, otherwise he will be furious. But when he got off work, his face showed a smile. Later, I understood that only after work, he walked out of his comfort zone and began a colorful life.

Therefore, only one person's comfort zone is broken, in order to see breakthroughs and excellence, and thus bring lasting happiness.

I once wrote an article "No credit, no hard work", saying that the masters of this era are no longer those who are silently working hard, but those who are irreplaceable and creative, so those are always comfortable. Those who cook boiled frogs in the middle of the district will eventually be eliminated by this era, but it is a matter of time.

In fact, everyone has a wall in their hearts, and even everyone has their own siege, just like every distant person, they also remember the way home. However, the difference between people is only the size of the siege.

People should have a heart that is willing to challenge, a mentality that they like to explore, learn to do things they have never done, try to see people who have never seen them, and try to bury some eggs in their lives.

I am especially afraid that I will turn my days into a clockwork on my young days, leaving me with tick. Therefore, from the first day of the work, there was no shift, even if it is now a business, the board does not require to work, I also categorically refused. Even for a while, it was very stiff. They asked me why I was so unwilling to devote myself to this job.

I told them that not going to work is not not fully committed. On the contrary, many people sit for eight days a week for five days, and they do ten hours of work, making themselves depressed. And I have arranged time for myself, it is active, working ten hours, the efficiency may be twenty hours.

Later, I took the actual action to prove that I am not going to work more efficiently. I can do a lot of things with my own time. I have crossed several fields. These areas can work together and do a good job.

In fact, I still have a reason not to take classes, that is, I know my inertia in particular. Once my days have become regular, there are fixed ways and methods every day, and I slowly lose such strong creativity and enthusiasm. I am afraid that I am used to a lifestyle mode, and I am not adapted to the environment.

However, I want to be young and squatting. I still have to look at what the world is like. I want to make myself stronger and stronger enough to survive in any environment.

As for the comfort zone, when I am old, I can't fight again and go back.

I don't really agree with the fact that when young people graduated, they walked into an office in an office building to participate in office politics. I hope they can go out and see more, even if this business is very tired and busy, it needs to be displaced, and it is best not to graduate. I used the youth to build a comfortable area in the office, and then let this comfort zone a little bit of the youth that should be shaken.

Regarding getting out of the comfort zone, you are not blindly resigning. On the contrary, you should have a job that survives. In addition, you must bury some eggs in your life: eat a super spicy chicken wing that you have never eaten. To confess a girl who has only seen it once; to read a book that I have always wanted to see; and to go to a place that is not a tourist attraction; go to the unreserved drunk once; to see a concert that can evoke memories.

Writing here, I suddenly thought of the movie "The Gift of Room No. 7", the balloon that was stopped by the prison guard net, and the eyes that the father and daughter longed for freedom. There are so many people in the world who are striving to pursue freedom, and we already have such a free body. Why not try to tear down the wall in your mind and fly freely to see the world.

So, don't let the comfort zone ruin your youth. On the contrary, you should look at the youth and go outside the wall. You have to believe that the comfort zone will become smaller and smaller. One day, you will find that the world is not safe. Where the feet are. The real strong, when they were young, they experienced vicissitudes, solved confusion, learned to be strong, and learned healing. They can live wherever they are. Where are the comfort zones, where are their own paradise.

May the young of us, the latter, be able to go all out.