At the age of 35, start again like her.

Before the age of 35, the days of flowers and flowers actually went from the wind. Bachelor of Law, four years of work-study, did not use a penny at home; after graduation, he entered a group company in Shanghai, and he worked for more than 10 years; found a husband who loved her; gave birth to a beautiful and strong son; also took time to spend light in the prosperous area of ​​Suzhou Easy to loose loan to buy a set of more than 130 flat three big room ... to fortune-telling, the old gentleman did not hesitate to predict that she is the life of the leader. This is true. Before leaving the company, she became a senior position in the Suzhou Department of the group company. The income was considerable and the management personnel themselves were countless.

She should have enjoyed the woman.

When she was 35 years old, she told me that there is no bottom, not practical. In the company that has been here for more than ten years, everything is too comfortable and comfortable to let her fear, fearing that she will pass this life. Struggling with ease and fear is anxiety and depression, which makes her barely breathe every day. . . . . . Yes, the professionalism she pursues, practicality, busyness and happiness are gradually gone.

In a number of insomnia nights, she asked herself over and over again, is this going on, or is she re-selecting new areas?

Soon, she resolutely resigned. For a fresh air, to make yourself toss, and to make your existence more realistic.

Law, often like a child who does not love people. Although we spent four years with it, we couldn't find a job when we graduated. After graduating for more than 10 years, we have been forced to live and have already abandoned it. In one night, like the flash of light that people often say, she was asked over and over again why she chose law at the beginning. Yes, law, lawyer, this is the way she always wanted to go.

People who learn the law know that if they don't have qualifications and experience, it is difficult to live on it.

She lives in Suzhou, with her in-laws, and her son goes to work in kindergarten. On the day of his resignation, he reported a closed-ended training course on the judicial examination in Kunshan. It lasts for 6 months. She didn't have much time to explain all these crazy moves with her family over and over again, and she didn't want to listen to women's advice to go to work and take care of her in-laws. It is forbidden to use all the social software on the mobile phone, with learning materials and simple clothes. After working for more than 10 years, at the age of 35, I will go back to the training class just like the newly graduated university students.

The days of closed training classes are naturally hard and boring. When I went to work, I actually tried to take the test in the past, but they didn't pass. This time I don’t know if it’s a god, or if I know that there is no way out, she really came over in this environment. At the moment of the judicial examination, she passed. After six months of escaping from real life, she was born again.

A qualified lawyer must pass the judicial examination before going to the law firm for a certain period of time. The salary of the internship at the law firm is the lowest wage standard, which is less than the previous income. Without any hesitation, with all sorts of blame, blame and disdain, she was fortunate to find a law firm internship.

Now she is still only a trainee at the age of 36. But every day is very busy, busy and no longer have time to complain to me; there is no time to talk about gossip; there is no time to fight for parents short. . . . . . Although the income is very poor, but the daily is full and full.

She is brave and respectable. How many people can start a career at the beginning of the age of 35?

I believe she is happy because she is doing what she wants to do.