Wake me up every day, it’s really ideal

In my own life, I gradually discovered that although my good friends have different personalities, they all have the same characteristics. They are both flamboyant and difficult to engage in. They must be evaluated in the company. . They both love to spend money and make money. No one can stop them from buying and buying. They are not in the class of classmates.

But I can do all of them, and they still love me very much. After thinking about it, the reason is probably because: I am the legendary person who brought chicken blood.

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For example, my friend A, she likes the security brought by money. Therefore, she is very hard to spend money, but also will work hard to make money, and from time to time to share with us what she recently bought. She never complained when she worked overtime, and she rarely complained about society because she didn't have time.

Many people think that people like her may not have enough family, or they are naturally born with higher material requirements. But I know that she is not both.

A used to be a very frugal girl, never paying attention to fashion. The first time she saw her was a t-shirt jeans sneakers. Her goal in life is to save money, and then watch the number on the passbook grow slowly.

She said that she has become like this now. She said that she would buy a house. I said yes, I will buy it when I choose it. After paying the down payment, I said that I have no money to buy clothes. I said the card number to me. I borrowed you a little. The house slaves must dress beautifully. Finally, the pressure is a little smaller, she said to buy a car, I said, buy it! Your life needs a car in particular.

She said that her life has verified a word: it will cost money to make money. And I have witnessed how she successfully turned into an inspirational sister, a girl without a bachelor's degree, how to use her own efforts to buy a car in Shenzhen within three years.

Why do I want to encourage her to spend money, because the love of money makes her become a perfunctory person, can save the province, the mask is not attached, even the facial cleanser is too lazy to use, self-proclaimed natural beauty. But I know that her heart is a person with a very small cosmic energy.

For a girl like her, I feel that the secret to treating her is to encourage her to buy and buy. Because of feelings, it is a pie for her. So my transformation of her began with shopping.

Not so much, I am encouraging her to spend money, it is better to say that I am helping her to find reasons for her efforts.

Every reason to spend money is actually a driving force for making money.

Every time you raise the level of spending money, you are actually improving your efforts.

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Once, she chatted with me. She curiously asked me: I don’t like to make money like you, but I’m full of blood every day. What is your motivation to work hard?

I said that at the beginning, the motivation came from what I wanted to prove myself. Later, because of this life, I really want to do something about this world, I love this world. She said: Rolling you, and loading me. You obviously spend more than I do.

She is right. The only difference between us is that compared to big houses and luxury cars, I prefer to spend money to travel, go to class, and meet friends. I prefer to buy a brand with a sense of design than a luxury item. I prefer to bring a big meal to my family. I like to spend money to enrich my life experience, and I don't want to spend money to show how rich I am.

In reality, I also have a lot of friends who have fallen back to the pastoral, moved to their favorite city life, opened a small home in the suburbs of the city, or opened a small cafe. However, before that, they were all people who worked hard and ran hard.

They have accumulated enough contacts, enough experience, and a certain attitude, and at some point, they decided to live in the way they like. This kind of letting down is because ideals are rooted in their hearts and never really left them.

Not joining the WTO is not enough to talk about birth.

Money is the engine on the road, but the ideal is the wings on the road.

I understand all those who work hard for money, but I appreciate people who work hard with ideals.

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People always want to figure out what can be done to break through lazy and break through comfort.

Everyone is determined to work hard to make money. The reasons are different. Some people are showing that their families are stable. Some people are no longer panicking the future. Some people are better at matching love. Some people are better than before. Boyfriends live better, and some people figure themselves to prove themselves. This is all motivation.

People who are not motivated, those who do not have hobbies, tend to drift with the tide and become a useless person. Because they don't know this life, lazy or not lazy, comfortable or uncomfortable, there will be big differences.

Yesterday I saw a message from a reader, and I was very touched in my heart - you think he is very hard, but for him, that may be a kind of enjoyment.

A few days ago, my dad told me: At the beginning, if you go back to do a stable career, it would be as hard as it is now. Yes, I was in my 20s and found out that my parents have been strictly required. In fact, I have no high expectations for me.

So, I knew early on that I didn't live to meet my parents' expectations. I am working hard for myself. All this hard work, I have been used to it, even I can't imagine how to live without working hard.

After all, between women and women, the direction of fate does not really come from IQ or emotional intelligence, but from the depths of the heart, whether or not they really fall in love with that hard work.

You have to ask me why you always feel that the motivation for your efforts is not enough.

The answer I give you is - because the motivation for your efforts is when you don't have to work hard. Because the motivation for your efforts is to take a break. When a person is 20 years old, he has already begun to think about when he can work hard and when he can rest. Life must be ruined.

So, ask yourself, what is it that wakes you up every day?

It’s really ideal to wake me up every day.