It’s harder to be a good person, it’s harder, it’s all self-seeking.

When people are at ease, it is easy to find something uncomfortable for themselves. People are licking their heads, and when they are idle, they will not be able to stand up. In fact, it is still lonely. When people are busy, they can live closer to themselves, and when they are lonely, they are more likely to be close to desire.

The former is trying to escape the things that cannot be avoided. The latter is something that you want to reach. The former wants to live a little more comfortable, and the latter wants to live a little more exciting. The reason of the former is in place, and the latter's lust is in the distance.

The more comfortable you are, the more turbulent your heart is. Therefore, when a person is at the most dangerous time, it is not a busy time, but a free time. Being able to manage a free self is a powerful expression of life. When the external constraints are lost, all the inner dark tides are the most primitive features.

Compared with a person who is managed to be obedient by others, self-management to a well-organized person is more reassuring. Because people who care about themselves will also be dedicated to others. For those who are not casual, they will not be casual to others. Another layer of reassurance means that such people will give you a sense of security.

What is the sense of security? That is: he is safe here, you will be safe.

A person's good will be used by others, and bad will be used to it. Good and bad, once you get used to it, it will become a kind of should.

If you are a good person, you should come up with it. So, accepting it is justified. The other party is a bad person. It doesn't matter if you are bad. Therefore, it is logical to bear the bad. In this end, the good guys live more and more passively. The reason is that bad people are easy to be forgiven, and good people are often blamed.

The bad guys are occasionally better, and they are moved to a mess, completely without any suspicion. If a good person is slightly worse, it will be degraded and completely unrecognizable. This seems to be a harsh person, but it is a good person.

In fact, everyone has a sly place in the bottom of their hearts: soft bullying and fear. Treating good people, like to stand on the moral level, use morality to kidnap each other and extort each other. Treat the bad guys, but they are keen to play the law of tolerance, smiles face each other, a generous gentleman. Therefore, for some people in this world, it is very important to follow the principle of limited goodness. If you can't see each other, you may want to moderate yourself. Especially for those who can't distinguish between good and bad people, don't have to come up with them. Moderation, sometimes the best protection for yourself.

To take a step back, even if you look at each other clearly, you should moderately control. No matter how good it is, it will become cheaper if it is given cheaply. The best cherishment should be: Even those who deserve it, let them feel that a source of auspiciousness from the bottom of others is far from easy to come!

A stupid person will become smart and sharp when he is blaming others. A person who understands again, when he talks about his own mistakes, is often confused and fainted.

People are very talented on the selfish level. The savvy can be counted as a must, and the confused can be loaded into a natural world. The great talents of human beings are used in their own small selfishness, and the heavens and the earth are suddenly small, seemingly narrow and lacking in generosity.

Only those who are not sensitive to the self will produce real embarrassment. Oh, it was the original Magnolia. Then, if you help others, it is good. Then, forgetting me and thinking of the world is noble. A society chasing a lofty person must have a problem with its values. No one chasing, lofty and being laughed at, it must be a problem with faith.

A society that believes in the right to money cannot produce great faith. Even if you believe in ghosts and gods, in the ghosts and gods, but in order to pray for promotion and wealth. Evil humanity must be inspired by money. Elegant cultivation can only be nurtured by art. Only when people lay down more self will they move toward high and open.

Fan Chunren, the prime minister of the Song Dynasty, has been immersed in the complex struggles of the officialdom for decades, and he has deeply realized the various kinds of human nature. Therefore, he put forward the standard of being an ideal country: to blame others for their responsibilities, and to forgive others with their own heart. He said that when people reach this standard, they are sages.

The sages have always been so simple, but they are always so far away!