Liang Wendao's famous sayings

1. Read some useless books, do some useless things, spend some useless time, in order to preserve an opportunity beyond yourself, in addition to everything known, some great changes in life, from this moment.

2. The occurrence and end of each relationship is actually a war of memory. Those who have been hurt will be hesitant to fear at the beginning of the new round of relations, or even retreat, because he remembers so clearly. What he fears is not the person in front of him, but the person in the past. He is not only dealing with new friends he knows, he is also negotiating, negotiating and fighting with his own memories. The other party does not know how difficult this relationship is, because it is some strangers from the past.

3. Some people say that happy people are silent. I can't understand it, ask a friend, and the other person bluntly answers: Because happiness never compares, if compared with people, I will only feel that I am in a sad situation.

4. Constantly enlarge the love to women, making women look too narrow in life, even oppressing women with love, let women think that the happiness of life must be connected with love.

5. To fully understand a person, you must know his fears.

6. Waiting for the lover's phone is always difficult, especially when you keep the message, but the other person keeps calm and ignores it. All the interpersonal contacts are not a kind of answering relationship. The owner who does not call back is the master.

7. Most people believe that love is an indispensable part of life. If you haven't experienced love, it's like a canvas that has never been painted with paint.

8. When any book is picked up by a reader, there is a desire in his heart that you may not even know. I want to change myself and improve myself. This is a great and humble desire.

9. Suspected to be a tenacious plant. When it is placed on the land between two people, even if it is only a seed, sooner or later it will grow up and grow up, finally distorting everything, crowding out all the originally healthy flowers and letting them wither.

10. Love is the only thing in time that the nature of change is always empty, so how can it be captured by real names?

11. When you want to start with a person and want to create a new self, but it is impossible to cut the memory that can't bear to save it, just sink it into the water.

12. In many cultural traditions, water is associated with forgetting, and thus represents cleansing and renewal. After drinking a bowl of Mengpo soup, you will say goodbye to the memory of the previous life; when you have forgotten the river, it is a new world. When the water is soaked, the Christian is forgiven and welcomes the new life.

13. Love, this is a time phenomenon, love letter is his best representation. Since the extension of time has disappeared, will love still exist?

14. "Sex" is noble and normal in the true, pure, and enduring love of jade. It is as natural as spring blossoms. On the contrary, the "sex" of pure flesh is vulgar and abnormal.

15. “It’s not as good as we’ve been from the beginning.” I don’t know how many couples, lovers, and even friends want to say and say. However, it is easier to erase all the past and start over from the beginning. If you want to start all over again, there is only one way to do it, that is, to completely transform yourself into another person. It's not changing your habits, it's not changing the tone of your appearance, but cutting off the half of life you once sent to the other's hands.

16. It is memory, nothing else. I linked yesterday’s me to today’s me, so that the changes in my time can be unified without splitting.

17. Forgiveness is a special relationship with time. It is an action that decides not to make a mistake or crime a thing of the past.

18. "Jade Girl" is a very pure and noble image. When a mottled jade still exists in the form of "jade", it is "deception."

19. I think many people have this experience. You can't take the initiative. You can't do anything. You can only wait for his whim to greet a few words and respond calmly and gently. You shouldn't be the force of persecution. You are a desert plant waiting for seasonal showers.

20. The ultimate relationship between people is attributed to the relationship between “public” and “private”. The relationship with people with contacts is “private” relationship, and the relationship with strangers is “public”.

21. Only the actual behavior is worthy of moral judgment, so unrequited love is actually a love that transcends good and evil.

22. Resentment is an emotional reaction to dissatisfaction with others. This kind of emotion is a kind of hidden anger in the heart, which afflicts and distorts a person's normal mind and values. Therefore, it is because the person with such emotion has no ability to vent revenge.

23. We all hope that the river in front of us will forget the river, it will never be the same river; and when the people who step in are out, they will no longer be the same person.

24. I always warn young people that when you lose your career, you must never read too many inspirational books. Reading inspirational books sometimes makes a person stupid. Because you will believe in your choices afterwards, I believe that you must go the right way. Even if you encounter failures occasionally, you will regard it as a temporary confusion. You firmly believe that you will eventually win. Such people are actually terrible.

25. Wealth, beauty, and even talent are not external things, but the helpless restrictions and shackles of a person.

26. All interpersonal contacts are not a kind of response. There is a call to resound, and the gift is expected to return, after sending a letter, I will wait for the return of the letter. The communication technology of telephone makes the response complete in an instant, and there are several illusions of synchronicity. Therefore, the suspension of telephone communication is even more troublesome, and it also highlights the superior position between the master and slave. The one who does not return the phone must be the owner.

27. A person who worships an idol is actually using some images of this idol to tell others "what kind of person I am." According to the French sociology master Bourdieu, this represents a certain taste choice. Taste is what people rely on to distinguish themselves and try to overcome others in a symbolic field.