Proposal for parents

Dear parents,
Hello!
My suggestion today is: Don't over-love your child too much!
You are not familiar with the word love, but do you know its harm? Love is the origin of children's selfishness, indifference, narrowness, laziness, fragility, self-centeredness, etc., because of love and arrogance, raising a child like a tiger, and eventually become a disease! In our country, the phenomenon of parents caring for children is very serious. About three or more families in five families have dear behaviors, accounting for six or seventy percent. The situation is quite serious.
In order to make your child a good student and a useful person for the future, I sincerely advise you today: Don't over-love your child!
Here I propose three or three to the parents:
First, we must pay attention to the principle, do not spoil the children. Excessive pampering will make the child raise unreasonable demands and develop bad habits. Therefore, if you are unreasonable, you must resolutely refuse and give him a clear reason.
Second, do not arrange for substitution, but encourage yourself to do it yourself. Parents can never do anything to do things that children can do. They must cultivate their ability to self-manage and self-sustain.
Third, don't take the child as the center, but let him learn to care and understand others. Children who are not self-centered will be more considerate for others, gradually develop a sense of caring for others, learn to be grateful, and lay the foundation for good interpersonal relationships in the future.
Parents wake up, the courtyard can't run a thousand miles, the greenhouse can't grow a towering pine, and shape a talent to give him love, not love, excessive love is a terrible gift. I hope that the majority of parents can accept my advice!