How much can you accomplish by how much grievance you have suffered?

How much grievances have been suffered, how much has been done; how much can be borne by the smashing of the grievances; the loneliness of inheritance can be maintained, and the prosperity can be maintained.

Why is it that a boss is no longer difficult to give up, and an employee who wants to run away when he is not doing well; why a couple’s big contradiction will not easily divorce, and a couple often do something small. Separated? In the end, how much you invest in one thing, a relationship, how much pressure you can bear, how much success you can achieve, and how long you can stay.

Greatness is coming out

Feng Lun said that greatness is made out. Why use 熬? Because ordinary people can't bear the grievances you have to bear, ordinary people need others to understand comfort and encouragement, but you don't; ordinary people use negative counter blame to vent their emotions, but you must see love and light, learn in any matter Transforming and digesting; ordinary people need a shoulder to lean on when they are weak, and you are the shoulder that others rely on.

The biggest danger, in your own heart

Xiao Zhuang said to Kangxi: Grandchildren, the biggest crisis in the Qing Dynasty is not the outside of the army, the greatest danger, in your own heart. All successful people are not thinking about retreating when they encounter problems, but thinking about how to solve problems and facing difficulties; and those who fail are not thinking about how to solve problems when they encounter problems, but think about how to find excuses to withdraw!

Whether a person wants to succeed or not depends on whether he wants it or not! Successful people must have visions. What successful people do, 90% of people do not understand, do not understand, and everyone understands that he has succeeded. After everyone has done it, he has already withdrawn, and he has done 90% of things he can't understand.

To change everything, you must first change yourself.

A person who can't swim, the old swimming pool can't solve the problem; a person who can't do things, old work can't solve his own ability; a person who doesn't understand business love, old men and women can't solve it. The problem; a person who does not know how to run a family, how to change a lover can not solve the problem; a boss who does not learn, will not continue to succeed; a person who does not understand the correct health, eat more medicine, hospital equipment No matter how good, it can't solve the problem.

I am the root of everything. If you want to change everything, you must first change yourself! Learning is the fundamental to change yourself! A bowl of surprises to dear friends: What kind of grievances you have suffered and decide who you can be.

In fact, what you love is yourself.

The person who troubles you is the one who will help you; the one who makes you painful is the one who will cross you; the one who makes you resentful is the noble person of your life; the one who makes you hate is the big one in your life. Buddha.

They are all different sides of yourself, and they are each other. On the contrary, the person you love is often the one who creates pain for you; the person you like is also the one who often brings you troubles. Because they are also your shadow, so you can't catch it.

In fact, what you love is yourself; what you like is also yourself. What you love, what you hate, are you. Do you still want to change others? Do you still want to escape from others? Do you want to control others?

Dear, there is really nothing outside. Don't do anything in vain, ruin, and ruin your stupid things. When you change, everything changes. Your world is created by you. Everything you have is created by you. You are the sun, your world is full of sunshine; you are love, you live in the atmosphere of love; you are happy, you are in laughter. Similarly, every day you complain, pick, blame, resent, you will live in hell; once you go to heaven, you will go to hell. Where are you? Where is your heart?