It doesn't matter if you fall, pat the dust and move on.

Once, there was such a letter circulating on the Internet that it was written by a British Keynes to a friend. In the letter, he said:

When I was very young, I was eager to get into Cambridge. For this ideal, I have devoted all my efforts. The tremendous efforts I have made have convinced me that Cambridge must have a place in the future. It is impossible to have an accident.

However, this is just my imagination. Later, I learned that I was not admitted to Cambridge at all. This message made me feel that the whole world has shattered. I feel that there is no reason to support me to live. I began to ignore my friends, my future, and I abandoned everything, both cold and resentful. I decided to stay away from home and hide myself in tears and remorse forever.

When I cleaned up my belongings, I suddenly saw a letter that had been forgotten - a letter from the deceased father. In his letter, he wrote such a passage: "No matter how many times we fall, we must laugh at life forever, like a man, to bear all possible failures and blows." I read this passage over and over again. I feel that my father is by my side and is with me.

He seems to be saying to me: "Persevere, no matter what happens, smile at them faintly. Continue to live." Now, my daily life is full of happiness, although I did not enter Cambridge, but I have achieved some extraordinary in my career. The achievement, all this is because I am not afraid of falling.

Children who are afraid of falling will never take the first step; they will fall to the children who are no longer climbing and will never learn to walk. Our life, why shouldn't it be? Falling down does not prove your incompetence, falling down and not standing up is a sign of weakness. When you encounter failures and setbacks, if you cry and blindly immerse yourself in self-blame and pain, it will only make you more sad and even lose your fighting spirit.

When you fall in the gulf of life, try to encourage yourself as you encourage your child, tell yourself not to fear failure, stand up and move on. It is not difficult to do this, as long as you have enough courage. Because failures and frustrations are like the dust in the house, as long as you glance at it, you can have a quiet and bright beginning.

Anyone will fall on the road to success. But falling does not mean failure. As long as you are willing to stand up, those setbacks and pains will become very small. What's more, many times, we fall not because of the lack of ability to succeed, but just not the time, or because of insufficient information, making some wrong decisions. As long as you sum up your experience, think about why you are in such a situation, accept the experience of failure, and then stand up again, then success is not far from you.