Other than you, others are working hard.

Now open the circle of friends, every day people are sorry to say, "Today, I slept until 10 o'clock, and I started to run the plan to get up early." "I have been brushing Weibo last night, and I have arranged for myself to do two hours of reading. "," I went out on the weekend today. I wanted to come back and write the manuscript to be delivered tomorrow, but now I am weak and write it tomorrow morning." I believe that everyone has a wonderful and exciting wish when they are planning, but no matter how realistic and effective this wish is, for example, running can reduce the fat of the body, and they cannot change their laziness and delay. status. After a long period of observation, I found that such people have at least four or five such "regrets" expressions in a month. I can even imagine the grief of his every time he tells others, no matter how condemned himself at the time, in the end. Or can't change the bad habits of the body, and can't do it again and again.

I generally classify such people as people who don't work hard. I can't imagine a person who is strict with myself, living in a self-condemnation every day. Looking at the people around the world who are highly satisfied with life, none of them allowed themselves to be dragged, bored and lazy again and again. Instead, they took the time to do meaningful things, only to find time for struggle, not Leave time for the void.

On my Weibo, there is a classification called “Daily Chicken Blood”. When I open Weibo for three or four years, I will brush up the updates of people in this category no matter how busy or tired every day. So far, I have paid close attention to nearly a thousand people on Weibo, but there are only five people in this category. Among them, only one person has never stopped paying attention to me for several years. She is Columnist and the anchor of Beijing Traffic Radio Station, Ma Ning. Compared with those big stars, she doesn't have such a beautiful scenery, but because of this, she let me realize how a beautiful life should be as a normal white-collar worker. Her daily life is so close to us that everyone can learn. .

Born in Hebi, Henan Province, she was a bachelor's degree undergraduate at the Communication University of China. She was first reported to the Peking University for postgraduate studies. After graduation, she became the anchor of the traffic station. Many people say that excellence is a habit. In her case, she has a good annotation. She is such a good student, and she is a good life.

What impressed me the most was a Weibo written by her this year. She wrote, “In order to make full use of the time, I came back with a 23:55 red-eye flight and didn’t sleep for one night. I will broadcast live this day and tomorrow, and I will finish it before the 31st. So many things... But it took almost a day to finish it! The rest of the two things will be completed in one day. I am so thankful that I have no procrastination!" She called "only one day." The time of the last night's things" includes: completing the "Fashion Bride" column, "Young" column, property fees, car insurance, sending dry cleaning, calling my dad, copying photos, providing Father's Day interview materials; "The rest Two things are "a visa and a "girlfriend" column. Don't forget, she returned to China by night flight. The next day, she didn't have a jet lag, didn't lie down and rest, and even completed so many things smoothly. As a writer, I know that writing is a very labor-intensive job. She even finished two columns with exhaustion. So, I seem to understand why she can be in her 20s. Beijing bought a house and got a car.

This is certainly not an accident. Even if her Weibo does not show what she did today, you will see her diligent and happy life from her words. A recent Weibo, she wrote "7:00 to 8:00 to write a column, 9:00 to 17:00, 19:30 to 21:10 East Palace to see "The Last Supper", 21:20 to 22:30 triple interview ". No matter how tired the work is, if there is a good drama, she must take time to look at it.

Anyone who has seen photos of Ma Ning will think that she is beautiful, that beauty is not how good the facial features are, how good the body is, but that her face is not slack, a little boring, all day is full of glory, she has a pair Infecting people's eyes, so that everyone is willing to join her and become a better self. Yes, the refined people are very happy.

If you say that you feel that the aura of graduated from a famous university in Yuning will make her feel that there is an initial advantage, it is not enough to motivate your heart lake that is too lazy to throw a stone, and then I will use it. A block of stones slams at you, giving you a slight swing.

I have a predecessor of "Forgetting the Year". He is called Zhou Zhisheng. People in the media circle should know the name - the youngest president in China. Born in Quanzhou, Fujian Province in 1980, he graduated from the Chinese Department of Huaqiao University in July 2003. After graduation, he entered the Southern Newspaper Media Group through various recruitment and examinations. In March 2006, he was less than 26 years old and left the Southern Newspaper Industry. He became the executive editor of Dongguan Daily, and founded the Dongguan Times at the age of 28; in August 2019, he became the president and editor-in-chief of the "Urban Times" in Yunnan, at the age of 31.

For many people, the six years from the age of 22 to 28 are the most golden years in life. The degree of your efforts over the past few years will directly determine how your middle and old age will be. Yes, I think Zhou Zhiyi is deeply acquainted with this common sense. In 2019, I had the opportunity to participate in the first "Urban Times" youth reporter training camp held by him. From among the more than 400 undergraduate and graduate students in the country, 20 students were selected to participate in the accommodation, and the expenses were available. Although I heard about him in the past, when I really got in touch with him, I knew why he became his.

During the day, his office rarely opened the door. He was going to attend the meeting and the event. It was a common occurrence for him to go through three or four occasions. If you want to find him, it is best to go after 10:30 in the evening, 8:9 is his busiest time, he wants to sign the version. After 10:30, if a colleague visits, he will make a cup of tea and chat with them; if he is fine, he will shut them up to study. There are many good books in his office, most of whom he has read; I rarely go home in the evening, basically sleeping on the sofa in the office. He often arrives at the airport a few minutes before the end of the aircraft registration time; sometimes, eating a braised pork in the office, you have to show off in the circle of friends. He does not have a shelf of the president of the newspaper. His food, clothing, and accommodation are all around the work. How to do it, how to do it. Many times when I go to the office in the morning, I meet him in the corridor. He is erect hair. The face is not washed.

Many colleagues suggested that "the activities that can not participate do not need to go as much as possible. Every day is so tired, it is not worth it." He explained that "people, there will always be a vicious circle and a virtuous circle. You have done this well." If you can't do one thing well, then things can't be done well. Just like reading, for example, you got a 'three good students' this year, maybe next year the national scholarship will come to you. Doing work and being a person is also same."

One of the things he has done recently is that Shenzhen University invited him to be a respondent member. According to the convention, after the students have finished their own ideas and writing process, they can give some evaluation or guidance. But what he did was to use the eight editions of the Shenzhen Evening News to show the graduation works of these students. He said that he would give the best students the highest praise and cheer for the youth. He tried to do every meaningful thing. When other newspaper colleagues were excited about a certain topic, he started from the small links of daily life and found their shining points, one by one. The brilliance of the topic, so that his editor-in-chief is also going further and further.

He said, "I have a small habit. When I am idle, I will find out the previous photos, look at his eyes, look at his face, and you will find that your state is very good for a while, your eyes will be clearer and more peaceful. For a while, it will be more sloppy, and my eyes will be more embarrassing. I can see things from my eyes, and I am born with my heart. This is also the reason why I will never give up my efforts. I hope that I can be from the inside. There is a kind of appeal that infects my colleagues."

I believe that his every day's "challenge on the limits of his work" is why he became Zhou Zhisheng, not an ordinary journalist who is still working as a "media migrant worker" in his 30s and 40s.

People have a lot of things that are difficult to change. For example, when they are not successful or unsatisfactory, they will look at the personnel around them. When life is as normal and calm as water, they will always be confused. They will go to work every day and go off work instead of reflection. Can you do better now?

There are data reality, more than half of the people who play Weibo are ordinary white-collar workers with a monthly salary of less than 3,000 yuan and students who are penniless. It's not that Weibo is not good, but if a person spends a lot of time refreshing Weibo and immersing in various sections of Weibo, it means that it is very likely that this part of the time has not been used efficiently.

I have a theory that "low-end people" prefer input, while "high-end people" prefer output, because output is much more tiring than input, and it has a process of ruminating, chewing, and expressing.

A few days ago, I saw a lazy friend who set a new goal for myself: answer three questions every day on “knowing”, and friends around me would like to give him 32 praises. Regardless of the size of the target, as long as we do not ruin the time in long hours of sleep, all night games and hours of chat, we can feel the power of time and effort.

Therefore, whenever you are doing nothing, you can meditate in your heart. "Besides you, everyone else works hard." I believe that you can find what you are doing right now. For me, it’s quite useful, I hope you too.