If you can't hold on, tell yourself: just bite your teeth.

01.

"I... decided to take the exam." The friend candy called.

"Is it decided?" I asked.

"Well, yes. I still want to give it a try. I am still young." Candy said slowly, his tone was firm.

"Since it's decided, let's let go." I understand the difficulty of the candy.

"Yeah." Candy whimpered and replied.

I know how much pressure the candy is under pressure to make. I know that at this moment, candy needs the support and encouragement of people around him, but compared with reality, all the words seem so pale and weak.

Candy was born in the small rural areas, and the ancestors were farmers for generations. In the place where the girl is a miracle, the candy has been insisting on reading the university. During this period, her efforts and struggles, always talking to me, always burst into tears.

Candy has learned from the national small, and the results have been excellent. She loves reading very much. When she was a child, there was no newspaper at home. In the countryside, all the paper with words was used to smash the wall. Candy often read his head and read the newspaper on the wall. There are often torn newspapers on the ground, and candycan smashed it up a little bit and saw it over and over again. At first, the family did not support her to study. In the rural concept, girls do not need to know so much. If you can recognize a few words and get married, you can complete your mission.

On the question of continuing to go to school, candy cried for three days and three nights. Finally got the consent of the parents. Despite her parents' consent, she was not encouraged. No one believes that she can read a lot more than a girl, and how can she get ahead. So, more often, she went home to study while working, listening to the fall of the people around.

After graduating from middle school, candy continued to study in high school and listened to the ridicule of people around him such as relatives...

"I know that reading is really a nerd!"

"The heart is taller than the sky, life is thinner than paper, and you want to go to college."

"You are a scholar, and you don't know."

Every time she hears these fall, her parents will wonder "What is the use of girls' books?"

The little-time candy also once sneaked into the corner and cried.

But after she wiped her tears, she still picked up the book, and for the dream she refused to give up.

Finally, she finally got admitted to the university.

In college, she tried her best to win scholarships, part-time for vacations, and tutoring. Wear the simplest clothes. While maintaining your own life, you will also send a little money to your parents. Go home early and late every day. I dare not take a class. In order to understand a problem, do not sleep all night...

I used to tease her like Sun Shaoxiang in The Ordinary World.

She smiled and didn't talk.

As always, perseverance.

We looked up at the warm window in the bright night.

“I also want to have a home in a big city.”

"I want to continue my postgraduate study, but the tuition has gone up again."

"Despite all these years, it has been so difficult for me to study, but I never thought about giving up."

"Every time, every time, especially difficult, I want to hold on for a while. Hold on for a while."

Candy finally decided to take the exam.

I know the struggles and efforts she has made; I know that she will insist on her initial dreams; I know she will not give up; I also know that she will not fear those depravity and ridicule.

Well, she is ready for this decision.

Really.

02.

My leader is always a very elegant lady.

Some time ago, she just returned from Canada and invited me to have a coffee and listen to the lecture. We are familiar with her and now run her own business. The prostitute has settled abroad after studying abroad, and she often travels to and from the two places. While enjoying my own business, I enjoy the warmth of family life. In our eyes, she has always been the goal of our struggle, the person we want to be.

During the dinner, she told me the story of her youth.

A story that has been ridiculed by others but always insists on dreams.

Hou’s hometown is in rural Jiangxi. In the 1980s, he was admitted to the university and assigned to work in a newspaper in Beijing. At that time, her biggest dream was to stay in a big city. A group of newly assigned college students are crowded in the basement of the unit. The salary that is received every month is counted and eaten. Often not enough flowers. The same as the young people now. However, because this is my dream, I am still very happy every day.

However, later, Hou was unemployed, at the age of 39 years old. She said that her savings were limited during that time. It is not dominant in age. Every morning I think about how I will survive in the days to come.

Or continue to stay? Or return to your hometown?

This is the dream that I have persisted for so many years.

"I want to survive here."

Later, Hou was founded. In a young age. I also lived in a simple rental room, and worked hard until 2 am. It was common practice to squeeze the last class. Also gritted his teeth. Also had a red eye. I have also been ridiculed.

"Hey, I am unemployed, I want to stay in Beijing? I am back."

"You are so old, a woman, what kind of business, you are not that piece of material."

"If you can start a business, will you be unemployed? Don't be whimsical!"

There are many times when we most need encouragement and help, but we are ridiculed and degraded. The ridicule and degeneration at this time can best make us fall.

There is a famous historical allusion that when Su Qin came back from the six countries, he rewarded the people who had helped him. The one who followed him all the time had not received his reward. So, the man finally couldn't help but ask him "I walked with you all the way, why did you thank everyone, but didn't thank me?" Su Qin said, because I almost want to give up when I encounter setbacks, the most need help. At the time, you didn't encourage me. So I left my thanks to you at the end.

So, I can understand that ridiculing our dreams is the beginning of our fall.

Although the time has passed, Hou always said that everything seems so cloudy.

However, I understand.

How many times of helplessness is changed once and the wind is light.

"Stay on, when you were young, you came over like this. You will come over with your teeth."

03.

I watched a hot movie "Crazy Animal City" some time ago.

"Crazy Animal City" tells the story of a animal policeman who struggles through his own childhood dreams in a city where all animals live together in peace.

Rabbit Judy reported the performance in the kindergarten and shouted out his dream "I grew up to be a policeman." The audience was laughing. Because of prejudice, no one believes that a weak rabbit can become a policeman. The animal police station is full of lions, rhinos, elephants, and grey wolves. No one wants to believe that a rabbit can protect everyone.

Therefore, Judy’s dream has never been supported by her parents. The rabbit and daddy even advised her to give up her dream. "Is it a bad farmer to make a carrot? Your brothers and sisters have been like this? Never had a rabbit as a policeman."

Rabbit Judy not only did not give up, but also swears "I will be the first rabbit policeman!"

From an early age, she insisted on her dreams with her actions. The bad little fox wants to snatch a movie ticket from a small partner, and Judy comes forward. Despite seemingly weak, despite being pushed by the fox and even being scratched on her face, she helped the little friend to retake the movie ticket.

In the end, rabbit Judy admitted to the police school through his own efforts, facing a tall classmate, disdainful eyes and strict training, no one believes that Judy can graduate. So, just started to participate in the simulation training: turn snow-capped mountains, climb grass, and when the parallel bars go forward, you will hear "Judi, sacrifice!" "Judi, sacrifice!" "Judy, sacrificed again!" "Despite this, Judy still did not give up... So, in the end, she became the best graduate of the police school and accepted the deputy mayor's honour.

Judy finally came to the big city as a policeman. Because of prejudice, it is still not valued. When other colleagues were assigned to investigate the case, she was arranged by the sergeant to control the traffic and posted a ticket every day.

Despite this, rabbit Judy still did not give up.

Finally, together with Foxnik, he cracked a big case, defended the residents of the Animal City, and returned the Animal City to a time of peace and joy.

At the end of the movie, I was red-eyed. I remembered them...

04.

In fact, most of us are like Fox Nick. When we were young, we also had dreams. At that time, we all unconditionally believed that the world is beautiful and others are harmless.

But reality is not a fairy tale, no utopia, when we encounter prejudice, encounter ridicule, recognize the reality, and give up the dream.

But there are always some people, candy, and once Hou... they are like rabbits, Judy, never been discouraged. Always adhere to his original dream. They let us understand:

Despite the thorns on our path of pursuing our dreams, we have experienced a lot of ups and downs. However, please don't give up. Hold on for a while. Hold on for a while.

Because on the road of persistence, you may not eventually become the person you want to be, but you become a better self!

By then you will find that because of your persistent efforts, because of your persistence, because you did not give up at the last moment, fate has never owed your efforts.

As stated in Crazy Animal City, life is always a little disappointing, and we all make mistakes. It doesn't matter how instinct is, it's important that you start to change. Start to have a dream!

Stick to your dreams and you will eventually become the best of yourself!

The more ridiculed the dream, the more realized value.

You just need to be better yourself!

When you can't hold on, tell yourself silently:

"It will be better to get better, then just bite your teeth."