Why are you not lucky enough?

Many successful people walked over the red carpet and stood on the podium. When they talked about their success, they often said, “In fact, I am very lucky—” The audience and the audience in front of the TV really thought that “ He is very lucky, and he also likes to listen to this sentence. Of course, the benefit of this is that you are not successful enough because you are not as lucky as a successful person, not your ability. If you are as lucky as him, you can stand up. In this way, the sense of imbalance that is not successful enough is gone, and the feeling of guilt that is not working hard enough has disappeared, and the mood is as happy as Ah Q. But when I woke up, I remembered the glory of the successful people yesterday, and then I looked at my bitter life. I suddenly felt a sense of loss and became unhappy again.

Don't trust the words of successful people, it is a kind of self-humiliation. Perhaps it is because I saw a bigger bureau, like Newton; perhaps to guard against arrogance and arrogance, like Chairman Mao; perhaps to fear that you envy hatred. The reality is: Lucky is no accident! Just like the song "True Heart Hero" sings: "If you don't experience the wind and rain, how can you see the rainbow, no one can succeed casually." Unless it is rich second generation, official second generation, every In fact, a successful person has gone through an extremely difficult and even bloody and tearful road, but many people have not spoken to outsiders. Just as we went to middle school, it seems that the students who study well don't work hard. In fact, they go home to be "head hanging beams, cones and thorns."

Lucky people have done at least three things. If you didn't do these three things, you know why you are not lucky enough:

The first thing is to know exactly what you want. Imagine that you are standing at a crossroads, wanting to get on a bus that will allow you to reach the end quickly, watching the bus going back and forth, which one do you decide to go on? If you have no direction, no destination, then which one? No one can carry you, you have to linger at the crossroads. "If you don't know where to go, you can't go anywhere." Those who are always in a career, those who are always missing the marriage, you can't catch the opportunity, you can't jump on a car and make yourself fast. The fundamental reason for the forward bus is that you don't know what you want. Therefore, if you want to understand what you want, you will recognize the opportunity and you will not miss the lucky one. If you don't know what you want, you will not be able to identify the opportunity, and you will miss the luck.

The second thing is to be fully prepared for what you want. Many times, we know what we want, like a favorite job, a favorite partner, but when they come to us and are at your fingertips, they find that they are not ready, not attractive enough to let My favorite work and partner also love us. At this time, we will regret that we did not do anything for it at the beginning, but what is the use of regrets? "Opportunity always favors a prepared mind." If you are not ready, you will naturally lose your favor. Therefore, don't always talk about dreams, dreams once, and it's enough to make it clear. It's important to keep accumulating in order to get close to it, and constantly burying your head and preparing. "Only you can bury your head, but you can come out." Every year, the school has the opportunity to study abroad. If your English is good enough, the opportunity is yours. The question is: Is your English good enough?

The third thing is to fight bravely. Many times, we also know what we want and we are fully prepared, but when it comes to the end, we dare not take the initiative to fight for it. Before we are afraid of the wolf, we are afraid of the tiger, and we suffer from the loss. As a result, the opportunity is taken away by others. When I was in college, I secretly loved a girl, but I was afraid of being rejected. I was too late to confess. Until one day, I saw that this girl and a boy who was much worse than me, I regretted it. The most painful thing in the world is to tell her at the classmates after graduation for many years: "Actually, I liked you very much at that time--" Is it still interesting to say that it can only make the sadness more sad, and regret even regret it. The same is true in the workplace. When we saw colleagues who worked together many years ago, they are now five and six, and then they are sour and slick: "In fact, I also wanted to go there at that time, but it was a pity that you were first picked up by the kid." What did you do at the beginning? The workplace refused to be obscenity, and if you want, you must speak out boldly!

Do you know why you are not lucky enough? To sum up, it is:

First, there is no chance, but you don’t know what you want, you can’t identify the opportunity, so miss it;

Second, it's not that you don't know what you want, but that you are not fully prepared for what you want, so it's coming, you can't catch it;

Third, it is not that you don't know what you want, you are not fully prepared, but when you are brave, you are not brave enough, so you have not caught it.

I say this, in fact, it is not to be seen, you may not like to listen, but the good is often not true, but the real is often not good. Only when people face themselves honestly can they continue to improve. Do you want to be brave and make progress, or do you want to self-anesthetize and stay in place?

Still the same sentence: success is not fortunate, luck is no accident!